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ted演讲稿英文

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莱温斯基ted演讲稿(英文版)

  You'relookingatawomanwhowaspubliclysilentforadecade.Obviously,that'schanged,butonlyrecently.

  ItwasseveralmonthsagothatIgavemyveryfirstmajorpublictalkattheForbes30Under30summit:

1,500brilliantpeople,allundertheageof30.Thatmeantthatin1998,theoldestamongthegroupwereonly14,andtheyoungest,justfour.Ijokedwiththemthatsomemightonlyhaveheardofmefromrapsongs.Yes,I'minrapsongs.Almost40rapsongs.

  Butthenightofmyspeech,asurprisingthinghappened.Attheageof41,Iwashitonbya27-year-oldguy.Iknow,right?

HewascharmingandIwasflattered,andIdeclined.Youknowwhathisunsuccessfulpickuplinewas?

Hecouldmakemefeel22again.Irealizedlaterthatnight,I'mprobablytheonlypersonover40whodoesnotwanttobe22again.

  Attheageof22,Ifellinlovewithmyboss,andattheageof24,Ilearnedthedevastatingconsequences.

  CanIseeashowofhandsofanyoneherewhodidn'tmakeamistakeordosomethingtheyregrettedat22?

Yep.That'swhatIthought.Solikeme,at22,afewofyoumayhavealsotakenwrongturnsandfalleninlovewiththewrongperson,maybeevenyourboss.Unlikeme,though,yourbossprobablywasn'tthepresidentoftheUnitedStatesofAmerica.Ofcourse,lifeisfullofsurprises.

  NotadaygoesbythatI'mnotremindedofmymistake,andIregretthatmistakedeeply.

  In1998,afterhavingbeensweptupintoanimprobableromance,Iwasthensweptupintotheeyeofapolitical,legalandmediamaelstromlikewehadneverseenbefore.Remember,justafewyearsearlier,newswasconsumedfromjustthreeplaces:

readinganewspaperormagazine,listeningtotheradio,orwatchingtelevision.Thatwasit.Butthatwasn'tmyfate.Instead,thisscandalwasbroughttoyoubythedigitalrevolution.Thatmeantwecouldaccessalltheinformationwewanted,whenwewantedit,anytime,anywhere,andwhenthestorybrokeinJanuary1998,itbrokeonline.ItwasthefirsttimethetraditionalnewswasusurpedbytheInternetforamajornewsstory,aclickthatreverberatedaroundtheworld.

  WhatthatmeantformepersonallywasthatovernightIwentfrombeingacompletelyprivatefiguretoapubliclyhumiliatedoneworldwide.Iwaspatientzerooflosingapersonalreputationonaglobalscalealmostinstantaneously.

  Thisrushtojudgment,enabledbytechnology,ledtomobsofvirtualstone-throwers.Granted,itwasbeforesocialmedia,butpeoplecouldstillcommentonline,emailstories,and,ofcourse,emailcrueljokes.Newssourcesplasteredphotosofmeallovertosellnewspapers,banneradsonline,andtokeeppeopletunedtotheTV.Doyourecallaparticularimageofme,say,wearingaberet?

  Now,IadmitImademistakes,especiallywearingthatberet.ButtheattentionandjudgmentthatIreceived,notthestory,butthatIpersonallyreceived,wasunprecedented.Iwasbrandedasatramp,tart,slut,whore,bimbo,and,ofcourse,thatwoman.Iwasseenbymanybutactuallyknownbyfew.AndIgetit:

itwaseasytoforgetthatthatwomanwasdimensional,hadasoul,andwasonceunbroken.

  Whenthishappenedtome17yearsago,therewasnonameforit.Nowwecallitcyberbullying(网络欺凌)andonlineharassment(网络骚扰).Today,Iwanttosharesomeofmyexperiencewithyou,talkabouthowthatexperiencehashelpedshapemyculturalobservations,andhowIhopemypastexperiencecanleadtoachangethatresultsinlesssufferingforothers.

  In1998,Ilostmyreputationandmydignity.Ilostalmosteverything,andIalmostlostmylife.

  Letmepaintapictureforyou.ItisSeptemberof1998.I'msittinginawindowlessofficeroominsidetheOfficeoftheIndependentCounselunderneathhummingfluorescentlights.I'mlisteningtothesoundofmyvoice,myvoiceonsurreptitiouslytapedphonecallsthatasupposedfriendhadmadetheyearbefore.I'mherebecauseI'vebeenlegallyrequiredtopersonallyauthenticateall20hoursoftapedconversation.Forthepasteightmonths,themysteriouscontentofthesetapeshashungliketheSwordofDamoclesovermyhead.Imean,whocanrememberwhattheysaidayearago?

Scaredandmortified,Ilisten,listenasIprattleonabouttheflotsamandjetsamoftheday;listenasIconfessmyloveforthepresident,and,ofcourse,myheartbreak;listentomysometimescatty,sometimeschurlish,sometimessillyselfbeingcruel,unforgiving,uncouth;listen,deeply,deeplyashamed,totheworstversionofmyself,aselfIdon'tevenrecognize.

  Afewdayslater,theStarrReportisreleasedtoCongress,andallofthosetapesandtrans,thosestolenwords,formapartofit.Thatpeoplecanreadthetransishorrificenough,butafewweekslater,theaudiotapesareairedonTV,andsignificantportionsmadeavailableonline.Thepublichumiliationwasexcruciating.Lifewasalmostunbearable.

  Thiswasnotsomethingthathappenedwithregularitybackthenin1998,andbythis,Imeanthestealingofpeople'sprivatewords,actions,conversationsorphotos,andthenmakingthempublic--publicwithoutconsent,publicwithoutcontext,andpublicwithoutcompassion.

  Fastforward12yearstoXX,andnowsocialmediahasbeenborn.Thelandscapehassadlybecomemuchmorepopulatedwithinstanceslikemine,whetherornotsomeoneactuallymakeamistake,andnowit'sforbothpublicandprivatepeople.Theconsequencesforsomehavebecomedire,verydire.

  IwasonthephonewithmymominSeptemberofXX,andweweretalkingaboutthenewsofayoungcollegefreshmanfromRutgersUniversitynamedTylerClementi.Sweet,sensitive,creativeTylerwassecretlywebcammedbyhisroommatewhilebeingintimatewithanotherman.Whentheonlineworldlearnedofthisincident,theridiculeandcyberbullyingignited.Afewdayslater,TylerjumpedfromtheGeorgeWashingtonBridgetohisdeath.Hewas18.

  MymomwasbesideherselfaboutwhathappenedtoTylerandhisfamily,andshewasguttedwithpaininawaythatIjustcouldn'tquiteunderstand,andtheneventuallyIrealizedshewasreliving1998,relivingatimewhenshesatbymybedeverynight,relivingatimewhenshemademeshowerwiththebathroomdooropen,andrelivingatimewhenbothofmyparentsfearedthatIwouldbehumiliatedtodeath,literally.

  Today,toomanyparentshaven'thadthechancetostepinandrescuetheirlovedones.Toomanyhavelearnedoftheirchild'ssufferingandhumiliationafteritwastoolate.Tyler'stragic,senselessdeathwasaturningpointforme.Itservedtorecontextualizemyexperiences,andIthenbegantolookattheworldofhumiliationandbullyingaroundmeandseesomethingdifferent.In1998,wehadnowayofknowingwherethisbravenewtechnologycalledtheInternetwouldtakeus.Sincethen,ithasconnectedpeopleinunimaginableways,joininglostsiblings,savinglives,launchingrevolutions,butthedarkness,cyberbullying,andslut-shamingthatIexperiencedhadmushroomed.Everydayonline,people,especiallyyoungpeoplewhoarenotdevelopmentallyequippedtohandlethis,aresoabusedandhumiliatedthattheycan'timaginelivingtothenextday,andsome,tragically,don't,andthere'snothingvirtualaboutthat.ChildLine,a nonprofitthat'sfocusedonhelpingyoungpeopleonvariousissues,releasedastaggeringstatisticlatelastyear:

FromXXtoXX,therewasan87percentincreaseincallsandemailsrelatedtocyberbullying.Ameta-analysisdoneoutoftheNetherlandsshowedthatforthefirsttime,cyberbullyingwasleadingtosuicidalideationsmoresignificantlythanofflinebullying.Andyouknowwhatshockedme,althoughitshouldn'thave,wasotherresearchlastyearthatdeterminedhumiliationwasamoreintenselyfeltemotionthaneitherhappinessorevenanger.

  Crueltytoothersisnothingnew,butonline,technologicallyenhancedshamingisamplified,uncontained,andpermanentlyaccessible.Theechoofembarrassmentusedtoextendonlyasfarasyourfamily,village,schoolorcommunity,butnowit'stheonlinecommunitytoo.Millionsofpeople,oftenanonymously,canstabyouwiththeirwords,andthat'salotofpain,andtherearenoperimetersaroundhowmanypeoplecanpubliclyobserveyouandputyouinapublicstockade.Thereisaverypersonalpricetopublichumiliation,andthegrowthoftheInternethasjackedupthatprice.

  Fornearlytwodecadesnow,wehaveslowlybeensowingtheseedsofshameandpublichumiliationinourculturalsoil,bothon-andoffline.Gossipwebsites,paparazzi,realityprogramming,politics,newsoutletsandsometimeshackersalltrafficinshame.It'sledtodesensitizationandapermissiveenvironmentonlinewhichlendsitselftotrolling,invasionofprivacy,andcyberbullying.ThisshifthascreatedwhatProfessorNicolausMillscallsacultureofhumiliation.Considerafewprominentexamplesjustfromthepastsixmonthsalone.Snapchat,theservicewhichisusedmainlybyyoungergenerationsandclaimsthatitsmessagesonlyhavethelifespanofafewseconds.Youcanimaginetherangeofcontentthatthatgets.Athird-partyappwhichSnapchattersusetopreservethelifespanofthemessageswashacked,and100,000personalconversations,photos,andvideoswereleakedonlinetonowhavealifespanofforever.JenniferLawrenceandseveralotheractorshadtheiriCloudaccountshacked,andprivate,intimate,nudephotoswereplasteredacrosstheInternetwithouttheir gossipwebsitehadoverfivemillionhitsforthisonestory.AndwhatabouttheSonyPicturescyberhacking?

Thedocumentswhichreceivedthemostattentionwereprivateemailsthathadmaximumpublicembarrassmentvalue.

  Butinthiscultureofhumiliation,t

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