父亲给高中孩子的一封信Aletterfrommyfathertoahighschoolkid.docx

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父亲给高中孩子的一封信Aletterfrommyfathertoahighschoolkid

父亲给高中孩子的一封信（Aletterfrommyfathertoahighschoolkid）

父亲给高中孩子的一封信（Aletterfrommyfathertoahigh

schoolkid）

Aletterfrommyfathertoahighschoolkid

Deardaughter:

Lastnight,Ireceivedyourspeciallettertome,Isee,filledwithathousandregretsinthisletter,andIfeel,mydaughterisgrowingup,beginningtolearn,learntothink,tohavetheirownthoughtsandideas,thisbenotatallsurprising.People'slifehastogothroughsuchasentimentalprocess,Ihave,youhavethesamemother,yourclassmates,goodfriendshave,andthisisnotterrible!

WhatIwanttotellyouisthatIandyourmotherloveyou,that'saquestion!

Foralongtime,Iandyourmotherwanttohavetheopportunitytotalktoyou,talkaboutideas,talkaboutideas,talkaboutthefuture,talkaboutDad'sworriesandexpectations.Almosteverytimeisfullofexpectationsandfullofwordsintheheartpart,Ifeelgoodfailure,reallysad,helpless,tearscanfallintheheart!

Ithinkmyfatheriswrong?

Isthegapbetweenfatheranddaughterreallyforming?

Deardaughter,fatherafteryearsofefforts,thesocietyisrespected,haverelativelyhighstatusandprestigeintheunitandthesociety,thefatherinrecentyearsalwaysfeelfailedtosuck,otherfamilyreasonsIdonotsay,Ialwaysfeelthatinfamilylifelosttoomuchtoomuch,andyouandyourmother's

ideasespeciallyinyourcommunicationproblemsaresodifficultandhelpless,reallyfeelveryhelpless!

Deardaughter,today'ssocietyisacompetitivesociety,butalsotheintellectualelitedominatedsociety,intherapiddevelopmentofthecountryandtherapidtransformationofthehistoricalmoment,theneedisalotofthoughtandknowledge,havetheabilitytomasteradvancedskills,onlythesepeoplecanhavemoretalentinhistoryonthestageofthespace,andthelackofknowledge,lackofcapacity,canonlyendinsocialdevelopmentinthebottom,havegreatdevelopmentlimitedqualityoflife,familyincome,personaldevelopment.Aretheremanyexamplesofpeoplearoundyou?

Onthecontrary,yourfather'sformercolleagues,friends,becauseofhardworkandtheirownindustry,therearemanypeople,theyworkrelaxedandpleasant,decentandstylish.TheyareonthephoneandIchattedaboutyourwords,oftentouchesmyheart,howIwantmydaughtertothemasgood,evenifIabandonthepresentallInowaresowillingtonoregrets.Myfatherherewithyouparents,pickyoueveryday,donotwanttocontactwithyou,lightenthepressureandburdenforyou,donotwanttopaymoreattentiontoyourthoughtsandacademicdevelopment,moreletyougohomeearliertogetenoughrest?

Deardaughter,everytimeIseeyouintheroomtostudyhard,dadishappierthananythingelse,thefatiguewillbegone,andeverythingwillturnintorelief.Everytimeyoumakeprogressandgetgoodgrades,evenifyourfatherdoesn'tactlikeyouwant,infact,yourfatherisashappyasyouare.Butdadisalsoconsciousthattheseachievementsarefarfrombeinginafavorableandadvancedpositionintoday'scompetition.

Thatmightbeoneofthereasonswhyyou'resoupsetwithyourdad.EverytimeDadseesyoumakeprogressandmakeprogress,hisfatherisasexcitedashismother;

EverytimeIseeyouinordertofinishyourhomework,inordertoreadmorebooks,watchlessTV,donotsurftheInternet,dadissosincerelyhappy,sleepatnightwillbemuchfasterthanusual.

Mydeardaughter,althoughourfamilyisnotlivinginabigcity,notapowerful,havealotofmoneytothefamily,whichwereallycan'tchoose,likewhenmyfatherdonotchoosetobeborninpoorfamilieslikedadgranny,butinourhouseyouhavelovedyouverymuch,payattentiontoyourgrowthmomandDad,noonehasparentsgoodeducationstatus,youhavealotofkidshaveinherentadvantages,youshouldmeetthefamilynow,youshouldthankyourparentsforyoutocreatealearningenvironmentandfamilylearningatmosphere.

Deardaughter,theroadisatitsfeet.DoyouknowthesgyythreeEnglishwarLvBu,althoughLvBuWuYistrength,butheisnotall-powerfulpoliticalfigures;BillGatesandwearethesameasplayingcomputer,butheisabusinessleader,andwearenot.Deardaughter,whydoyouthinkthat'swhy?

ThedifferenceisnotthedifferencebetweenhumanthoughtandcharacterIfamandoesnothaveapositivethinkingandgoodvalueorientation,thereisnostrictdemandsonthemselves,notforhighergoals,notfortheirfinelearningperseverance,oftendonothavetheirownacceptadvice,tocorrectthewrongcourageandhumblepersonalitywhereindividualsandagreatsuccess!

Deardaughter,Dadhopeyouhavesuchacharacterand

thought,becauseonlyyouhavetheelitetalentsinmindandwill,youwillachieveeliteachievement,atleastyouwillbeaperfectpersonality,understandthestrictdemandsonthemselves,understandenterprisingtalents.

Deardaughter,fatherinchildhoodduetofamilybackground,educationisverylimited,Icompletedtheirstudiesintheculturalrevolution,alotofthingsarerelyingontheirdedicationtoself-study,abilitytoacceptfather'sfather'sintelligenceisnotsogood,butfatherinyoucan'timaginenotintheenvironmentstepbysteptocome,withastubborncharacterandtenaciousunyieldingwill,strenuouslyreading,theothersplay,othersaresleeping,othersenjoythetimetogetherwiththestudentsinlearning,isthefatherofhardstudy,itwasmyfather'sstrongwill,itwasmyfather'sinsistenceandgreatperseverancedad,completedthecoursesofselfstudyuniversity,wonthe"political"and"financialmanagement"twoprofessionalcollegegraduationcertificate.Youknowdadthencompletetheself-studycollegecurriculumishowdifficult,Dadhadconsideredgivingup,butIdidnotmind,dadandenterprisingspiritistheleading,thisismyfatherhasbeeninprogresshasbeenthesecretofsuccess.Deardaughter,knowthatyourpresentconditionismuchbetterthanIoriginallyknew,andyourintellectandunderstandingofnewknowledgearemanytimesstrongerthanthatoffather.SoIbelievethatmydaughterhasbeenexcellent,andifmydaughter'smindandinitiativeareasstrongasherfather,thenthisdreamwillnotbefaraway.

Mydeardaughter,Iamveryconcernedaboutmyexamresults,

ThisisprobablytheChinasocialdepartmentcanavoidproblems,Chinesecollegeentranceexaminationsystemdeterminesthefractionofstudentachievementassessmentofthebaton.Becauseitwasawhileagoyouthoughtperformance,learningattitude,learninghabit,seriousdegree,andmasterthegeneralhomeworkreviewmemorysigns,thoughnotnecessarilysoaccuratelyreflecttherealsituation,butthatistheonlyindexofenergy.Everytimeafterthefatherofyourcriticismorguidanceisnotwhatthenaggingandboringwords,itisevaluationofyourthoughts,andtheanalysisofpreviousstudy,becauseIthinkonlyhaveacompleterealanalysisandunderstandingoftheirown,willrecognizethetrueself,willfindtheirownproblems,willbebettertosolvetheirownproblems,thentherewillbeprogressanddevelopmentoftheirown.Youknow,afterthetestprogressdependsonthechangeofwillpowerandattitudeofthinking,learninghabits,learningmethods,likealeakybucket,onlythereasonsforthefailureofourownexaminationofthepatch,wecanreallyachieveprogressandsuccessnexttime,otherwisethenexttimeisstillseriousandbottledwater,barrelsstillfilledandshedtearswithonlysad,isn'tit?

Deardaughter,notDadonyoutoohigh,buttheworldischangingtoofast,yesterday,alaid-offuncletoourcompanylookingforajob,Iaskedhimwhathisownexpertise,couldnotsay,howcanweuseit?

Hewasproudoftheskilledworkers,notlowincome,now,theunclehadbeenlaidoff,why,hecouldnotkeeppacewiththetimes,updatingofknowledgecannotbeenoughtomeetthepaceofdevelopmentofthereformofenterprisetechnology,nowtheincomethroughthehardshipsoflifeorfamilyornottomeet.

Deardaughter,dadisnottoohighdemandsonyou,butpeoplealiveshouldhaveidealsandpursuits,otherwisetheanimalandwhatisthedifference.Whenyouareatthebottomofthefrog,youcanonlyseeasmallpieceoftheskywhenyouhead;itisabird,youwillseethespringsceneryofgardenandhomesmoke;whenyouaretheeagle,youwillvisitthemotherlandatthesky,majesticmountainsandbeautifulriversandmountainsofacountry,meanderingriver,broadgrasslandaclearview,relaxedandhappy;whenyouarealegendintheROC,youcanplayallovertheworld,lookingattheYuring,changesociety,engageintheirfavoritecauseanddohispleasure,liveahappylife.Deardaughter,notthefatherforyouistoohigh,butyourintelligenceandpotentialistoostrong,ifyoucannotgetthefullpotential,thenDadwillloseabetterdaughter,willbeaparentandyoumayhavetocometounderstandthelifeofthefutureregret.Ifyouareasuccessfulminingandcultivation,sothefamilyandthesocietycanhavearemarkabletalent,therewillbeasocialcontributionabilityandclevernessfigure,thenthiswillbehowproudthingah!

Deardaughter,dadisreallyabitaboutyou,Iknow.Butyouwillknowthattheworldisalmostallparents'naggingproblems,notonlysongs,oftenathome,

Listentothenaggingparents?

Whydoparentswillrepeatnottomindtakingthetroubleaboutit?

Becausethenagcontainsakindoftheirinnerthoughts,containsanaggingexpectationsofparentsandchildren,naggingwiththeloveoftheparents!

Ialsooftennotwillingtolistentohernaggingdad,sinceyouarenotwillingtolistent