TED英语演讲稿二十几岁不可浪费的光阴附翻译.docx

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TED英语演讲稿二十几岁不可浪费的光阴附翻译

TED英语演讲稿：

二十几岁不可浪费的光阴（附翻译）

　　wheniwasinmy20s,isawmyveryfirstpsychotherapyclient.iwasa　studentinclinicalpsychologyatberkeley.shewasa26-year-oldwomannamedalex.nowalexwalkedintoherfirstsessionwearingjeansandabigslouchytop,andshedroppedontothecouchinmyofficeandkickedoffherflatsandtoldmeshewastheretotalkaboutguyproblems.nowwheniheardthis,iwassorelieved.myclassmategotanarsonistforherfirstclient.（laughter）andigotatwentysomethingwhowantedtotalkaboutboys.thisithoughticouldhandle.　　butididn'thandleit.withthefunnystoriesthatalexwouldbringtosession,itwaseasyformejusttonodmyheadwhilewekickedthecandowntheroad."thirty'sthenew20,"alexwouldsay,andasfarasicouldtell,shewasright.workhappenedlater,marriagehappenedlater,kidshappenedlater,evendeathhappenedlater.twentysomethingslikealexandihadnothingbuttime.　　butbeforelong,mysupervisorpushedmetopushalexaboutherlovelife.ipushedback.　　isaid,"sure,she'sdatingdown,she'ssleepingwithaknucklehead,butit'snotlikeshe'sgoingtomarrytheguy."　　andthenmysupervisorsaid,"notyet,butshemightmarrythenextone.besides,thebesttimetoworkonalex'smarriageisbeforeshehasone."　　that'swhatpsychologistscallan"aha!

"moment.thatwasthemomentirealized,30isnotthenew20.yes,peoplesettledownlaterthantheyusedto,butthatdidn'tmakealex's20sadevelopmentaldowntime.thatmadealex's20sadevelopmentalsweetspot,andweweresittingthereblowingit.thatwaswhenirealizedthatthissortofbenignneglectwasarealproblem,andithadrealconsequences,notjustforalexandherlovelifebutforthecareersandthefamiliesandthefuturesoftwentysomethingseverywhere.　　thereare50milliontwentysomethingsintheunitedstatesrightnow.we'retalkingabout15percentofthepopulation,or100percentifyouconsiderthatnoone'sgettingthroughadulthoodwithoutgoingthroughtheir20sfirst.　　raiseyourhandifyou'reinyour20s.ireallywanttoseesometwentysomethingshere.oh,yay!

y'all'sawesome.ifyouworkwithtwentysomethings,youloveatwentysomething,you'relosingsleepovertwentysomethings,iwanttosee—okay.awesome,twentysomethingsreallymatter.　　soispecializeintwentysomethingsbecauseibelievethateverysingleoneofthose50milliontwentysomethingsdeservestoknowwhatpsychologists,sociologists,neurologistsandfertilityspecialistsalreadyknow:

thatclaimingyour20sisoneofthesimplest,yetmosttransformative,thingsyoucandoforwork,forlove,foryourhappiness,maybeevenfortheworld.　　thisisnotmyopinion.thesearethefacts.weknowthat80percentoflife'smostdefiningmomentstakeplacebyage35.thatmeansthateightoutof10ofthedecisionsandexperiencesand"aha!

"momentsthatmakeyourlifewhatitiswillhavehappenedbyyourmid-30s.peoplewhoareover40,don'tpanic.thiscrowdisgoingtobefine,ithink.weknowthatthefirst10yearsofacareerhasanexponentialimpactonhowmuchmoneyyou'regoingtoearn.weknowthatmorethanhalfofamericansaremarriedorarelivingwithordatingtheirfuturepartnerby30.weknowthatthebraincapsoffitssecondandlastgrowthspurtinyour20sasitrewiresitselfforadulthood,whichmeansthatwhateveritisyouwanttochangeaboutyourself,nowisthetimetochangeit.weknowthatpersonalitychangesmoreduringyour20sthanatanyothertimeinlife,andweknowthatfemalefertilitypeaksatage28,andthingsgettrickyafterage35.soyour20sarethetimetoeducateyourselfaboutyourbodyandyouroptions.　　sowhenwethinkaboutchilddevelopment,weallknowthatthefirstfiveyearsareacriticalperiodforlanguageandattachmentinthebrain.it'satimewhenyourordinary,day-to-daylifehasaninordinateimpactonwhoyouwillbecome.butwhatwehearlessaboutisthatthere'ssuchathingasadultdevelopment,andour20sarethatcriticalperiodofadultdevelopment.　　butthisisn'twhattwentysomethingsarehearing.newspaperstalkaboutthechangingtimetableofadulthood.researcherscallthe20sanextendedadolescence.journalistscoinsillynicknamesfortwentysomethingslike"twixters"and"kidults."it'strue.asaculture,wehavetrivializedwhatisactuallythedefiningdecadeofadulthood.　　leonardbernsteinsaidthattoachievegreatthings,youneedaplanandnotquiteenoughtime.isn'tthattrue?

sowhatdoyouthinkhappenswhenyoupatatwentysomethingontheheadandyousay,"youhave10extrayearstostartyourlife"?

nothinghappens.youhaverobbedthatpersonofhisurgencyandambition,andabsolutelynothinghappens.　　andtheneveryday,smart,interestingtwentysomethingslikeyouorlikeyoursonsanddaughterscomeintomyofficeandsay