英语听力入门第一册原文及答案文档格式.docx

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2.Beasspecificasyoucanwhenyoucomplain,makearequest,orofferpraise.

3.Whenstressedbyfatigueoryourowninsecurities,imagineyouandyourpartnerinafoxhole,surroundedbydanger.Insteadofstrikingoutatyourpartner,findawaytoprotectthepartnership!

4.Whenyoufeel"

distant,"

talkaboutitwithyourpartner.

5.Beassuredthatpartnersinallmarriagessometimesgettired,irritable,ordistracted.Worktogethertounderstandeachother.

6.Respecteachother.Leaveifdangerexists.Findprofessionalhelpifphysical,sexual,emotional,orverbalabuseoccurs.

7.Fightto"

understand,"

notto"

win."

CTapescript:

Havingbeenmarriedformorethan40years,Icanattesttotruthofthefollowingstatement:

Toexcelintheartofdomesticargument,onemustmastertheartoflosing

Modernpsychologistsaretakenwiththe"

lose-lose"

solution.Butinmarriage,successresidesmorein"

solutions.Outofthese,bothpartiescanwin.Forintheloveconfiguration,losinggivesagiftthatalwaysreturns.

Theissuesthatpeopleargueovermostinmarriage,suchashowtospendmoney,oftenaren'

ttherealones.Thekeyissueis:

whoisgoingtobeincontrol?

WhenIwasyounger,myneedtocontrolaroseoutoffear,alackoftrust,insecurity.ThedayIfinallyrealizedIneedn'

ttocontrol

mywife-that,indeed,Ioughtnottocontrolher,thatIcouldn'

tcontrolher,andthatifItryto,Iwoulddestroyourmarriage-wasthedayourmarriagebegan.

Whatisitwewantmostfromamarriage?

Toloveandbeloved.Tobehappyandsecure.TogrowtodiscoverAloverelationshipisthegardeninwhichweplant,cultivateandharvestthemostpreciousofcrops,ourownself,andinwhichourspouseisprovidedthesamerichsoilinwhichtobloom.

Wecannotobtainwhatwewantunlessourpartneralsogetswhatheorshewants.Soremember:

ifyouwanttofeellovedandrespected,giveupcontrol.

Unit1Part1答案

PartI-A

87,80,53,48,24,17

PartI-B

1.spendingspecialtimetogether.

2.specific,complain,request,praise.

3.fatigue,insecurities,foxhole,strikingout,protect.

4.distant

5.allmarriages,Worktogetherounderstand

6.Respect,danger,professional,physical,verbal

7.Understand,win

PartI-C

40,excel,domesticargument,losing

win-win,lose-lose,win,agift,returns

argueover,aren'

t,who,incontrol,fear,didn'

tneed,oughtnotto,couldn'

t,triedto,destroy,marriage

love,loved,secure,discover,garden,cultivate,themostprecious,ownself,bloom.

obtain,ourpartner,lovedandrespected,control.

Unit1Part2原文

Part2

ManypeopleinWesterncultureschoosetheirownwivesandhusbands.Inmanyothercultures,spousesareoftenchosenbytheparentsInChinaandJapanbeforethiscentury（20thcentury）,upper-classmarriageswerearrangedbytheoldermales.InmanyculturesintheMiddle

East,Asia,andpre-industrialEurope,theman'

sfamilynegotiatednegotiateda"

brideprice"

withthewoman'

sfamily:

theman'

sfamilywasexpectedtopayit.InHinduIndia,thebride'

sfamilypaida"

groom'

sprice"

tothefamilyoftheman.Thesecustomsareweakening:

forinstance,only9.2percentofJapanesemarriagesarenowarranged.

Whatarethecriteriaforchoosingmates?

Mostmarriages-whetherarrangedbyfamiliesoroccurringfrompersonalattractionorlove-arebasedonsimilarsocialbackgrounds.Inotherwords,themanandthewomancomefromthesamesocialclass（orelseaclassthatisonlyslightlyhigherorslightlylower）.AmongmanypeopleinEgypt,keymembersoftheman'

sfamilymustgotothefamilyofthewomanandproposemarriage.Thesefamilymembersmustbeabletoshowthattheman'

sfamilyisatleastofthesamesocialclassasthewomanandthatacertainamountofmoneyexiststoallowthemarriagetogoforward.

Havingthesameraceorthesameethnicbackgroundisthesecondmaincriterionformarriagethroughouttheworld.IntheU.S.,wheretherearemanydifferentraces,only3percentofallmarriagesarebetweenblacksandwhites,meaningthattheracesarestilllargelyseparateinmarriage.

Inmanycountries,marriageisalsobasedonthewomanandmanhavingthesamereligion:

thisisathirdcommoncriterionforchoosingamate.Inculturesinwhichreligionisaverystrongvalue,marriageswouldoftennottakeplaceiftherewerereligiousdifferences.

A:

Whatdoyouthinkitisthatattractspeopletoeachother,thatmakes

peoplewanttobetogether?

B:

Ithinkthatperhapsunfortunatelyintheinitialstagesit'

sthephysical

appearancethatattacts.Ithinkunlessyoufindsomebodyattractive,

unlessthere'

ssomethingaboutthem一itcouldonlyperhapsbethe

waytheysmileortheylaugh,oratwinkleintheireye,orthewaya

curlfallsovertheirforehead.Butsomethinglikethathastomakeyou

interestedenoughtofindoutmoreaboutthatperson,unlessthat'

s

thereIthinkyoujustdon'

tbother.SoinitiallyphysicalattractionI

thinkisall-important.

Whydoyousay"

unfortunately"

?

Becauseinfactitshouldn'

tbewhatsomebodylookslikethatisimportant.Youshouldbeabletolookbeyondthephysicalappearanceandseewhatsortofapersonheorsheis,whetherthey'

reselfishorselfless,whetherthey'

rekind,caring.ButIthinkinitiallyyou'

renotbotheredwiththat.Thatcomesperhapslater.

Inpopsongsandmagazinesandnewspapersandsoon,theideaoffallinginloveisalwaysemphasized,sopeoplehavethisideathatyouhavetofallinlove.Doyouthinkthisismisleadingforpeople?

Doyouthinkpeopleexpectsomethingthatinfactdoesn'

texist?

YesIdo,infactIthinkwecanprobablylaytheblameforthehighpercentageofdivorces-it'

sathirdIthinknow,isn'

tit?

Ithinkoneinthreepeoplegetdivorced.ProbablyasfarasIcanseeit,thereasonisthattheygointomarriageorintoarelationshipwithaveryromanticviewoflovewhichIthinkhasbeencreatedbythepopsongs,byallthelovestories,bytheBarbaraCartlandnovels,etc.·

thatyoungpeopleread.Really,youmeetsomeone,youfallinlove,andthat'

sit,

it'

sthebeginning,theylivehappilyeverafter.AndIthinkthat'

stheproblem,becausepeoplejustexpectthat,andit'

snotlikethat.

Sowhatisit,doyouthink,thatreallysustainsarelationship,thatkeepsarelationshipgoing?

Well,Ithinkyouhavetodifferentiatebetweenfallinginlovewithsomebody,whichIseeasmoresuperficial,andlovingsomebody,whichIseeasadeeperemotionandonethatperhapslasts.Fallinginloveissuperficialattraction,beingattractedtosomebodyphysically,havingfuntogether,whereaslovingsomebodyIthinkisanemotionthatgrows,itcomeswithsharedexperiences,perhapsenjoyingdoingthesamethingstogether,sharedhobbies,sharedinterests,sufferingtogetheraswell,goingthroughthebadtimes,helpingeachother,supportingeachother.Ithinkallthatneedstimetogrow,andI'

dcallthatlove,andIthinkthat'

swhatmakesarelationshiplast.

CTapescript;

Foryearsmenandwomenhavebeengettingmarried.Theysaytheirweddingvowswhichbringthemtogetherasone.Theypromisetoloveandcherisheachotheruntildeathdothempart.

Whenamanandawomangetmarried,itisoneofthebiggestdecisionstheywillmakeinlife.Amanmayselectawomanbecausehe,inhisowneyes,seesherasthe"

just-right"

wifeforhim.Everymanhashisowndefinitionofwhatthe"

just-right"

wifeis.Forinstance,themillionairemanandthepoormanbothmaydefinetheir"

wifeaccordingtoherphysicalqualities.

Amillionairemaydescribehis"

wifeascharming,beautiful,sexy,intelligent,andwelldeveloped.Ontheotherhand,apoormanmaydefinehis"

wifeaspleasing,attractive,desirable,knowledgeable,andshapely.Bothmendescribetheir"

wifebythesamephysicalqualitiesbutusedifferentwords.

Althoughsomemendefinethe"

wifebyherphysicalqualities,othermendescribetheir"

wifebyherathleticqualities.Forexample,theoutdoorsmanmaydefinehis"

wifeasawomanwholovestofish,tocamp,tohunt,andtowaterski,whereastheinsidesportsmanmaydefinehis"

wifeasawomanwhoenjoyswatchingfootball,basketball,baseball,andwrestling.Bothofthesemendefinetheir"

wifebyhersportsqualitiesbutintwodifferentatmospheres.

Menfromallnationalitiesalsohavetheirdefinitionofthe"

wife.Forexample,theItalianmandescribeshiswomanasawomanwhostandssixfeetoneinchtallwithblondehairandblueeyes,andwhoiswelldevelopedintheupperportionofherbody.Ontheotherhand,theFrenchmanmaydescribehisidealwomanasawomanwhostandsonlyfivefeetthreeincheswithbrownhairandgreeneyes,andwhoismoderatelybuilt.

Othernationalities,suchastheGermanman.andtheSpanishman,maydefinetheir"

wifeasawomanwithstyle.TheGermanmanmaydescribehis"

wifeasawomanwholikestodriveexpensivesportscars,awomanwhovisitsadifferentforeigncountryeverymonthand