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（2）Tosupportherhusband.Inordertoletherhusbandkeephismindonhiswork.

Yes,becausemothersaretheclosestpersontotheirchildren,andmotherloveeffectchildrensomuch.Somechildrendon'

thavemotherswhentheyareyoungsotheyalwaysfeelslonelyandsomerudepeopleisgoingtocallthemscardycat.Soithinkmothersshouldstayhomeandtakingcareoftheirchildren.

Theimportanceofmothers

Moms,didyoueverquestionyourvalueasarolemodel,caretaker,administerofhugsandBand-Aids?

Ithinkweallhaveintoday'

sclimateof"

domore,getmore,havemore."

Manyofusworktobringhomeapaycheckandothersworkforoursanity.Haveyoueverwonderedifyourchildrenwerebetteroffwiththebabysitterthanyou?

Scientificstudiesarebeginningtopointtotheoverwhelmingvalueofamother'

slove,hugsandsupport.Nannies,baby-sittersandrelativesareterrific.Theyjustaren'

tasterrificasMom.

Ihavehadthebestofbothworlds,Isuspect.Iworkedahigh-poweredexecutivejobuntilmyolderdaughterwas2andahalf.Atacrossroadsinmycareer,Ioptedto"

getpregnantandstayhomeforayear."

HA!

LittledidIrealizeIwasabouttotakeaten-yearhiatusfrommymuch-lovedlife!

Ididn'

tgetpregnantrightaway,but,afterhavingspentayearbaskingintheglowofbeingMom,Icouldn'

tbeargivingupthecareandnurturingofmydaughtertoanothernanny,nomatterhowwonderful.Ithinkitwasthebestcareermoveofmylife.

Well,tenyearslater,Iambackintheworkforceandthriving.Yes,Ifeltboredmuchofthetime.Yes,ourfamilysacrificedthebiggerhouse,fanciercarsandvacationssomeofourpeerswereenjoying.Butitwasaconsciousdecisiontosacrificeforthebenefitofourchildren.Wewantedourmorals,ourethicsandourlifelessonstoinfluenceourchildren.

Ithinkmomscanworkathome,behomemakersorworkoutsideofthehomeandstillbegreatmoms.Themostimportantpartofmothering,Ifeel,isbeingthereforourchildren.Maybeyoursacrificeisgoingtoworkbutspendingyourpreciouslittlefreetimereadingyourchildabedtimestoryeverynight,takinghimtotheparkonSaturdaysorchaperoningyourdaughter'

sschooldance.Whatmattersisourinput,theconfidenceinourrolesasmothersandknowingwearethebestpersonfortherole...tounderstandhowvaluablewearetosociety.

Patyourselvesonthebacks...you'

veaccomplishedamiracle!

Thereisnogreatersacrificeonearth,inmyopinion,thanmakingthedecisiontobeaparent.Knowhowimportantyouare.Knowthatyourchildrenneedyoutobeassolidanindividualasyoucanbe.Thereinliesyourstrengthasamother,whetheryouspendalldayathomeorinanoffice.Weareallexceptionalwomeninourmotherhood.

　Babiesgivenmoreloveandaffectionbytheirmothersdealbetterwithstressandanxietywhentheygrowup,researchhasshown.

　　Thestudylookedateight-month-oldchildren-meaningeventheveryearliestlifeexperienceswhichwedonotrememberinadulthoodcaninfluenceourwell-being.

　　Lotsofmaternal（母亲的）lovemakeschildrenformasecurebondwiththeirmothers,meaningtheyareabletofeelsecureinrelationshipswhengrownup,willhavebettersocialskillsandcopebetterwithlife'

sdifficulties,thestudyfound.

　　Despitegrowinginterestinhowearlylifeaffectsusinadulthood,mostpreviousstudieshavereliedonpeople'

srecollections（回忆，记忆）-whereasthisresearchtrackedparticipantsfromearlychildhoodtoadultlife.

　　Theresearchers,ledbyDrJoannaMaselkoofDukeUniversityinNorthCarolina,ratedtherelationshipsof482eight-month-oldbabieswiththeirmothersduringroutinedevelopmentalassessment.

　　Theylookedathowwellthemotherhadcopedwithherchild'

sdevelopmentaltestsandhowshehadrespondedtothechild'

sperformance.

　　Theamountofaffectionandattentionshegavetoherchildwascategorisedintogroupsrangingfrom'

negative'

to'

extravagant（奢侈的，浪费的）'

.

　　Mentalhealthwasthenassessedwhenthebabieshadgrownup-attheaverageageof34.

　　Adultswhosemothershadbeenthemostaffectionate（深情的）duringtheirassessmentasbabieshadthelowestlevelsofanxiety,hostilityandgeneraldistress.

Firststatement:

Intoday'

ssociety,womenoftenfeelthattobeseenassuccessful,theyshouldhavetobalancetheircareer,childrenandtheirmarriage.However,mostwomenareforcetostayathometoraisechildrenandgiveuptheirowncareer.It’sunfair