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boysdon'

twanttobeyourfriend."

hethenlefttheresttomyimagination.Atthetime,Ididn'

tagree.Ithought:

Icancrackagoodjoke,Iknowhowtoshootahoop,andI'

macheerfulperson（butnotinanannoyingway）.whatkindofboywouldn'

twanttobearoundthatkindofgirl?

Turnsout,myDadwasright.nottobeall"

samanthabrick"

aboutit,butinmyexperience,single,heterosexualmenaren'

tactivelylookingforanexclusivelyplatonicrelationshipwithawomantheyfindsexuallyattractive.Thisofcourseisnotarevolutionaryconcept.Infact,itseemsprettynaturaltome.

now,Iwillbethefirsttosaythatitisreallyandtrulythemostwonderfulthingintheworldiftheattractionismutual.butthepowersThatbeseemtoliketoplaythesecomplicatedlittlematinggameswithhumanswheretheguywewanttore-enactscenesfrom9?

weekswithseesourattractivenesslevelasakintothatofadiscardeddishcloth,andthemostphysicalwecouldseeourselvesbeingwiththeguywhoactuallylikesusisagameofpingpongoveranespeciallylongtable.Allofwhichmeansthatsomeoneusuallyendsupgettingrejected.

I'

msureI'

mnotalonewhenIsayIhavestruggledwiththescenariowhereIamnotinterestedinamanromantically,butIwanttokeephimasafriendbecauseheisfunnyandIenjoyhiscompany,orhehasshownhimselftobethatrarespecimenknownas"

anice,genuineperson,"

orhesimplydoesn'

tmentionhistherapistineveryothersentence.

Ratherthanstringhimalongandgivehimhope,Ifeelcompelledtosomehowcommunicatetohimsoonerratherthanlaterthatwe'

lljustbestayingfriends,nothingmore.otherwise,IthinkIambeingunfairtohim.whyshouldhewastehisromanticstaminaonmewhenthereareloadsofothersinglewomenouttherewhomightfallinstantlyinlovewithhim?

Thethingis,itcansometimesbetrickytorejectamanandkeephimasafriend.Iftheoperationisnotexecutedcarefully,youmayendupcreatinga"

menemy."

Itrequiresacertainamountofskilltobeabletoturndownaman'

ssexualadvancesorromanticgesturesandthengethimtoagreetomeetyouforblueberrypancakesthefollowingweekendandchataboutthelatestwoodyAllenfilm.somemenaren'

tsatisfiedwithjustthat.I'

mnotclearwhy.what'

ssobadaboutfriendship?

everyoneneedsbuddies.butI'

veseenmenreactpoorlyorsimplyfalloffthefaceoftheearth.Igetit--theirfeelingsarehurt.noneofuslikesgettingrejected.butinmyexperience,somemenfinditespeciallysoul-crushing.

IamonlybringingallofthisupbecauseIrecentlyhadtogothroughthisscenarioagain.Ihadspentsometimecultivatingafriendshipwithamanwho,inmydefense,Ithoughtwasgay.soIdidn'

tseetheharminhimbuyingmetheoccasionalfalafel,oracceptinganinvitationtoseeafilmwithhim.Isn'

tthatwhatfriendsarefor?

butamutualfriendshedlightonhissexualorientation（straight）andsuggestedthathisintentions--andattentions--weren'

tplatonic.hehadnever"

madethemoves"

butnowitwasallcrystalclear--thatexplainsthewayhehadlookedatmethattimethetahinisaucedribbleddownmychin!

sincehehadclearlybeentootimidtoexpresshisfeelings,IthoughtIwouldbecleverthistimeandsubtlymentionthedatesIhadbeengoingon,focusingontheoneguyIwaskindofkeenon,sothathewouldknowthatIwas"

unavailable"

forheavypettingandthosesortsofactivities,butthatIwasavailableforthingslikerollerskating,falafel-eatingandshootingthebreeze.Doesn'

tthatsoundnice?

Thatway,hewouldknownnottotrytoleaninforakiss,andIwouldn'

thavetopullthesteviewonderdanceanddodgehimwenthewentforit.Itwaslikepre-rejection,yetIwassparinghisfeelingsbecausehedidn'

tevenhavetoputhimselfoutthere!

IreallythoughtIwasbeingbrilliant.

Itbackfired,ofcourse.saidmanendedupsendingmeanemailrantaccusingmeofbeinginsensitivebytalkingaboutothermenwhenhehad"

feelingsforme."

AsifIampsychic,bytheway,justbecauseIamawoman!

howwasIsupposedtoknowthat?

Ithinkinhismindweweredating.Inmymind,hewasmynewgaybFF.Intheend,Igotmadathimforgettingmadatme,andnowthefriendshiphasended.

AndIhavecreatedyetanother"

Look,Ihavealsotriedthedirectthing:

Ireallylikeyou,butonlyasafriend,"

butyoucanonlydothatwhentheguyhasmadehisintentionsclear,andinmyexperience,theyeithercopeokay（thoughrarelydoIfeelmuchenthusiasmforfriendshipafterthat）,ortheyreallydon'

tcopewell.Ialsotriedthethingwhereyoumakethemthinktheyarerejectingyou,butitgetsquiteconfusingandonlyworksiftheguyisn'

tverysharp,andwhywouldI--oryou--behangingoutwithsomeonenotthatsharpinthefirstplace?

Asweallremember,billycrystal'

scharactersaysmenandwomencan'

tbefriendsinwhenharrymetsallybecausethesexstuffgetsintheway.Idohavesingle,male,heterosexualfriendswithwhomIhaveaneasy,non-romanticrapport,butIhonestlydon'

tknowiftheywouldwalkawayifIwassprawlednakedonabedcallingouttothem.Imaynotbeeverybody'

scupoftea,butsometimes,Iwonderiftheywonder.AndtheymaywonderifIwonder.Ifso,Ihopethey'

llkeepitto

themselves.

被拒后：

朋友亦或敌人？

那时我并不以为然，认为凭自己的幽默诙谐，灌篮娴熟，开朗活泼的性格，又有那一个男孩不喜欢在这样的女孩身边呢？

但结果证明父亲是对的。

对此不需要太自恋（samanthabrick，自由专栏女作家曾写过为什么女人恨我等文章，有英版芙蓉姐姐之称），但以我的经验来说，单身异性恋男士在他们认为极具吸引力的女性身上并不想只是寻求一份简单的柏拉图式的关系。

当然这一概念并没有什么开创性，事实上在我看来再自然不过了。

首先我要说的是两情相悦的确是世界上最为美妙事。

但上帝却好似很喜欢玩这种复杂的配对游戏，要么是通过九个半周的交往后，我们想与之确定关系的男孩认为我们的吸引力指数同丢弃的抹布不相上下，要么就是我们对中意我们的男孩不起化学反应，两人总是像隔着一长长的桌台打乒乓球一般。

结果都是以另一方被拒而告终。

有些异性我虽然不想和他交往，但很想和他做朋友，因为他幽默诙谐，有他陪在身边我会很开心,或者他友好善良并且为人真诚（这一类人可是稀缺性品种），或者是他不是每隔一句便提起他的理疗师。

我敢说这种情形你也经历过吧。

我认为有必要对他说明白我们之间