TED英语演讲稿 二十几岁不可挥霍的光阴附翻译Word文件下载.docx

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sthenew20,"

alexwouldsay,andasfarasicould___,shewasright.workhappenedlater,___rriagehappenedlater,kidshappenedlater,evendeathhappenedlater.twentysomethingslikealexandihadnothingbuttime.

butbeforelong,mysupervisorpushedmetopushalexaboutherlovelife.ipushedback.

isaid,"

sure,she'

sdatingdown,she'

ssleepingwithaknucklehead,butit'

snotlikeshe'

sgoingto___rrytheguy."

andthenmysupervisorsaid,"

notyet,butshemight___rrythenextone.besides,thebesttimetoworkonalex'

s___rriageisbeforeshehasone."

that'

swhatpsychologistscallan"

aha!

"

moment.thatwasthemomentirealized,30isnotthenew20.yes,peoplesettledownlaterthantheyusedto,butthatdidn'

t___kealex'

s20sadevelopmentaldowntime.that___dealex'

s20sadevelopmentalsweetspot,andweweresittingthereblowingit.thatwaswhenirealizedthatthissortofbenignneglectwasarealproblem,andithadrealconsequen___s,notjustforalexandherlovelifebutforthecareersandthefamiliesandthefuturesoftwentysomethingseverywhere.

thereare50milliontwentysomethingsintheunitedstatesrightnow.we'

retalkingabout15per___ntofthepopulation,or100per___ntifyouconsiderthatnoone'

sgettingthrough___hoodwithoutgoingthroughtheir20sfirst.

raiseyourhandifyou'

reinyour20s.ireallywanttoseesometwentysomethingshere.oh,yay!

y'

all'

sawesome.ifyouworkwithtwentysomethings,youloveatwentysomething,you'

relosingsleepovertwentysomethings,iwanttosee—okay.awesome,twentysomethingsreally___tter.

soispecializeintwentysomethingsbecauseibelievethateverysingleoneofthose50milliontwentysomethingsdeservestoknowwhatpsychologists,sociologists,neurologistsandfertilityspecialistsalreadyknow:

thatclaimingyour20sisoneofthe___st,yetmosttransfor___tive,thingsyoucandoforwork,forlove,foryourhappiness,___ybeevenfortheworld.

thisisnotmyopinion.thesearethefacts.weknowthat80per___ntoflife'

smostdefiningmomentstakepla___byage35.thatmeansthateightoutof10ofthedecisionsandexperien___sand"

momentsthat___keyourlifewhatitiswillhavehappenedbyyourmid-30s.peoplewhoareover40,don'

tpanic.thiscrowdisgoingtobefine,ithink.weknowthatthefirst10yearsofacareerhasanexponentialimpactonhowmuchmoneyyou'

regoingtoearn.weknowthatmorethanhalfofamericansare___rriedorarelivingwithordatingtheirfuturepartnerby30.weknowthatthebraincapsoffitssecondandlastgrowthspurtinyour20sasitrewiresitselffor___hood,whichmeansthatwhateveritisyouwanttochangeaboutyourself,nowisthetimetochangeit.weknowthatpersonalitychangesmoreduringyour20sthanatanyothertimeinlife,andweknowthatfe___lefertilitypeaksatage28,andthingsgettrickyafterage35.soyour20sarethetimetoeducateyourselfaboutyourbodyandyouroptions.

sowhenwethinkaboutchilddevelopment,weallknowthatthefirstfiveyearsareacriticalperiodforlanguageandattachmentinthebrain.it'

satimewhenyourordinary,day-to-daylifehasaninordinateimpactonwhoyouwillbee.butwhatwehearlessaboutisthatthere'

ssuchathingas___development,andour20sarethatcriticalperiodof___development.

butthisisn'

twhattwentysomethingsarehearing.newspaperstalkaboutthechangingtimetableof___hood.researcherscallthe20sanextendedadoles___n___.journalistscoinsillynicknamesfortwentysomethingslike"

twixters"

and"

kidults."

it'

strue.asaculture,wehavetrivializedwhatisactuallythedefiningdecadeof___hood.

leonardbernsteinsaidthattoachievegreatthings,youneedaplanandnotquiteenoughtime.isn'

tthattrue?

sowhatdoyouthinkhappenswhenyoupatatwentysomethingontheheadandyousay,"

youhave10extrayearstostartyourlife"

?

nothinghappens.youhaverobbedthatpersonofhisurgencyandambition,andabsolutelynothinghappens.

andtheneveryday,s___rt,interestingtwentysomethingslikeyouorlike