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AthletesShouldBeRoleModels
AthletesShouldBeRoleModels
KarlMalone
1IloveCharlesBarkleylikeabrother,andexceptforthetimeswhenwe'rebangingandpushingeachotherundertheboardsingamesbetweenmyteam,theUtahJazz,andhis,thePhoenixSuns,we'regreatfriends.Wedon'tnecessarilylikethesamethings:
Charleslovesgolfsomuchhewouldplayathalftimeifhecould,butIthinkagolfcourseisawasteofgoodpasture-land.Oneofthereasonswegetalongsowell,though,isthatwebothsaywhat'sonourmindswithoutworryingaboutwhatotherpeoplearegoingtothink-whichmeanswedisagreefromtimetotime.Here'sanexampleofwhatImean:
IdisagreewithwhatCharlessaysinhisNikecommercial,theoneinwhichheinsists,"Iamnotarolemodel."Charles,youcandenybeingarolemodelallyouwant/asmuchasyouwant,butIdon'tthinkit'syourdecisiontomake.Wedon'tchoosetoberolemodels,wearechosen.Ouronlychoiceiswhethertobeagoodrolemodelorabadone.
Notnecessarily…不一定
Greatmindsthinkalike.
1)Thereason(why)…isthat…
Eg.Thereasontheircarssoldsowellwasthattheyhadabrilliantmarketingstrategy.
2)havereasonforsth/dongsth
eg.我有充分的理由不相信你的话。
2Idon'tthinkwecanacceptallthegloryandthemoneythatcomeswithbeingafamousathleteandnotaccepttheresponsibilityofbeingarolemodel,ofknowingthatkidsandevensomeadultsarewatchingusandlookingforustosetanexample.Imean,whydowegetendorsementsinthefirstplace?
Becausetherearepeoplewhowillfollowourleadandbuyacertainsneakerorcerealbecauseweuseit.
3Ilovebeingarolemodel,andItrytobeapositiveone.Thatdoesn'tmeanIalwayssucceed.I'mnosaint.Imakemistakes,andsometimesIdochildishthings.AndIdon'talwayswakeupinagreat,role-modelmood.
TherearedayswhenIdon'twanttoposeforapicturewitheveryfanIruninto,whenIdon'tfeellikepickingupbabiesandgivingthemhugsandkisses(nomatterhowcutetheyare),thosearethedaysIjusttrytoavoidthepublic.
Therearedays(time)when…有时
Eg.InaloverelationshiptherearetimeswhenIam
bored,whenImayfeellikegivingup,andwhenIfeelIcan'tmoveforward.
Feellikedoingsth1)感觉好像…2)喜欢做某事
4Butyoudon'thavetobeperfecttobeagoodrolemodel,andpeopleshouldn'texpectperfection.IfIweredecidingwhetherabasketballplayerwasapositiverolemodel,Iwouldwanttoknow:
Doesheinfluencepeople'slivesinapositivewayawayfromthecourt?
Howmuchhashegivenofhimself,intimeorinmoney,tohelppeoplewholookuptohim?
Doeshedisplaythevalues-likehonestyanddetermination-thatarepartofbeingagoodperson?
Iwouldn'taskwhetherheliveshislifeexactlythewayIwouldliveitorwhetherhehandleseverysituationjustthewayIwould
handleit.
Giveof献出…来帮助…
Eg.她愿意用自己部分的业余时间来给那些农民工的孩子上课。
Migrantworkers
5IdoagreewithCharlesononethinghesaysinhiscommercial:
"JustbecauseIcandunkabasketballdoesn'tmeanIshouldraiseyourkids."Butsometimesparentsneedalittleassistance.Therearetimeswhenithelpsforamotherandfathertobeabletosaytotheirkids,"DoyouthinkKarlMaloneorScottiePippenorCharlesBarkleyorDavidRobinsonwoulddothat?
"Tome,ifsomeoneusesmynameinthatway,it'sanhonor.Sure,parentsshouldberolemodelstotheirchildren.Butlet'sfaceit,kidshavelotsofotherrolemodels-teachers,moviestars,athletes,evenotherkids.Asathletes,wecan'ttaketheplaceofparents,butwecanhelpreinforcewhattheytrytoteachtheirkids.
6Parentsjusthavetomakesuretheydon'ttakeittoofar.Sometimestheyputusonapedestalthatfeelsmorelikeatightrope-sonarrowthatweareboundtofalloffeventually.ThisisnotsomethingI'mespeciallyproudof,butI'vehadparentsinUtahsaythingstomelike,"Youknow,Karl,inourfamilyweworshipthegroundyouwalkon.InourhouseyourpictureisrightupthereonthewallbesideJesusChrist."Now,that'sgoingtoofar.Isitanywonder/nowondersomeathletesdon'twanttoberolemodels?
Whowantstobehelduptothatkindofimpossiblyhighstandard?
Imaginesomeoneputtingalifesizedpictureofyouonawallandsayingthingstoyourpicturebeforetheygotobed.That'sscary.
7Constantlybeingwatchedbythepubliccanbehardtotolerateattimes.IamsorrythatMichaelJordanhadtodealwiththenegativepublicityhereceivedaboutgambling.Idon'tthinkmostpeoplecanimaginewhatit'sliketobewatchedthatcloselyeveryminuteofeveryday.Iwastoldoncethatitwouldn'tbethatbadformebecausenoonewouldknowmeoutsideof
Utah,butthat'snottrue.EversinceIplayedontheDreamTeamintheOlympics,Ican'tgoanywherewithoutbeingthecenterofattention,andthat'sveryconfiningattimes.Forinstance,therehavebeenoccasionswhenI'vefeltlikebuyingabigHarley-Davidsonmotorcycleandridingitdownthestreet.First,theJazzwouldhaveafitandsayit'stoodangerous.Second,everyonewouldbewatchingtoseeifIworeahelmet,ifIwasobeyingthespeedlimit,ifIwastakingturnssafely-younameit.ThefirsttimeIdidn'tmeasureuptoexpectations,Iwouldhear,"Whatkindofexampleisthattosetforotherpeoplewhoridemotorcycles?
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Toleratevt.Putupwith/stand
Eg.Youhavemadesuchaseriousmistakethatcouldneverbetolerated.
Tolerantadj.tolerableadj.
Publicityn.1)公众注意2)宣传推广
Measureupto
eg.Itwastiringsometimestotrytomeasureupto
herstandardofperfection.
8Butthegoodthingsaboutbeingarolemodeloutweighthebad.It'sagreatfeelingtothinkyou'reasmallpartofthereasonthatakiddecidedtogiveschoolanothertryinsteadofdroppingoutorthatakidhadthestrengthtowalkawaywhensomeoneofferedhimdrugs.ButonethingIwouldencourageparentstodoistoremindtheirkidsthatnomatterwhichathletestheylookupto,therearenoperfecthumanbeings.Thatway,ifthekid'sheroesshouldmakemistakes,itwon'tseemliketheendoftheworldtothem.
9Iwouldnevercriticizesomeoneforsayingwhathethinks.IfCharlesdoesn'tconsiderhimselfarolemodel,that'scertainlyhisright.ButIthinkheisarolemodel-andagoodone,too.AndifhegetsthatNBAchampionshipring,Imightjustmakehimmyrolemodel.
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