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关于爱的英语演讲稿
关于爱的英语演讲稿
情Love
Eversincethedawningofthehistoryofmankind,therehavebeenmyriadsofdiversifiedinventions,discoveries,andevenexplorationsofthemysteriesoftheuniverse.Infact,thehumanbeingsaresointelligentthatwehavesolvedalmostallkindsofproblemswehaveconfrontedwith.
however,nobodyhasevermadeoutwhattheword“love”reallyconnotes,noteventhemostfamouspeoplesuchasgreatpoliticians,saintsandphilosopherscanclarifythemeaningof“love”,neithercantheydealwiththevariousaffairsconcerninglove.Loveislikeahugeboundlessnetthatshroudsusallin.wecanneitherbreakawayfromitnorescapefromit.Likeitornot,wearealwaysentangledinit.Itisaninvisiblenetwithoutanyformthatshroudsindifferentpeoplefromdifferentangels;itisamercilessnetthatupsetsusoreventorturesustodeath.Itisalsoasupremenetwhichalmostnohumancansurpass.Eveniftheyareheroes,emperors,wisemenorsaints,theycandonothingbutshowtheirhelplessnessinitsface.Thosewhocanbreathethroughtheholesofthenetshouldberegardedbeyondcommonnessandvulgarity.Lovecanbringustemporarycomfortandhappiness,butmostlytheybringaboutannoyanceandsufferings.Maybethisisthereasonwhymanypeoplehaveseenthroughtheillusionsofthemortalworld.Howeveritisnotsoeasytobreakawayfromthisboundless,ever-existingandindifferentnetoflove.
Loveisvariedandchangeable,butroughlyitcanbedividedintothreecategories:
familylove,fraternalloveandamatorylove.notlikemonkeykingwhojumpedoutoftherocks,wewereallbornaftermother'spregnancyofaboutninemonths,hencewehavecountlessrelativeswithoutanychoice:
parents,grand-parents,andgrand-parents-in-law,unclesandaunties,brothersandsisters,etc.andoncelookingatthegenealogicaltree,we'llseenoend.Familyloveiswhateveryonelongsfor,butthewarmthandsupportfromourbelovedonesarewhateveryoneyearnsforthemost.ButhowmanyofusaredeterminedtocontributetoourbelovedoneAndhowmanydon'texpectrepaymentandrelaxed.Conscienceeveniftheyhavethedesireandpreparationtocontributetotheirbeloved.Thedistancebetweenrelativesisdifferentandsoaretheirexpectations.Butsinceit'sverydifficulttoknowhowmuchweshouldexpect,alotofworriesanddistressesemerge.
Parentsalwaysexpecttheirchildrentoshowtheirfilialobedience,oratleastpaythosefrequentvisitsaftertheyhavegotmarried.Ifthechildrenfailtodothis,theyfeelhurtandupset,andthey'llevencomplainabouttheirchildren,becausetheyjustcan'tunderstandwhytheirchildrendon'tcareaboutthemafterwhattheyhavedoneforthechildrenforsomanyyearstobringthemup.Nevertheless,one'sexperiencedetermineshisideology.Youngchildrenarenaturallyattachedtotheirparents,butwhentheygrowup,especiallywhentheyhavemadetheirownfriends,andgotmarried,whattheyneedmostisindependenceandfreedom,andparentssometimesmightbecometheirburden.Oncethereisgenerationgap,itbecomesmoredifficulttocommunicateandthiskeepsthemawayfromtheirparents.Objectivelyspeaking,theyneedmoreindependenceinordertoachievesuccess.Inthepresentsociety,whatthechildrenwanttohavemostistheeconomicsupportfromtheirparents,nottheirmoralsupportorguidance.Theywouldcomplainifyoureconomicsupportisnotuptotheirexpectations.Thelovefromunclesandauntieswouldnaturallydwindleaftertheyhavehadtheirownchildren.Onlythelovefromgrand-parentsandgrandparents-in-lawispureanddemandsnorepayment,andtheyarealsotoooldtowaitforanyrepayment.Asforthedistantrelatives,theirlovedependsontheirneeds,justastheoldsayinggoes“thepoorhavenofriendseveniftheyliveindowntownwhiletherichhavedistantrelativeseveniftheyliveindeepmountains”.Grannylie,adistantkinsfolk,inadreamoftheredmansions,claimskinshipwiththewealthyjiafamily,thinkingthatshemaybenefitfromitinsomeways.Liumighthaverunawaywithoutanytracesifthejiafamilyhadbeenapoorone.anothersayinggoes“closeneighborsarebetterthandistantrelatives.”themostdifficultistomanagetherelativeswhendoingbusinesstogether,justaswhattheTVseriesprogramlielagoondiscloses.Itisallrighttostaypoortogether,butassoonasthebusinessgrowsprosperous,thegroupwillbecomeestrangedandevendissolvebecauseoftheunfairdistribution.Familyloveislikeamazewhichweshouldn'tgotoofarintoit,otherwise,we'llsurelygetlost.Loveisabilateralmatterandunilaterallovecanonlyleadyoutonowhereinspiteofyourgoodintentions.Familyloveis,sometimes,likeanarrangedmarriage,leavingnochoicestoyou.Duetothedifferentexperiencesandtastes,stayingtogether
errtemporarilycanbeentertaining,whilelivingtogetherforalongtimecanonlybeboringduetothelackofcommoninterestandunderstanding.HowcanwecommunicatewitheachotherwithoutunderstandingParentshavethedutytosupportthechildrenwhoarenotyeteconomicallyindependent,andchildrenhavetheresponsibilitytoprovidefortheelderlyparentswhoarelackofeconomicabilitiestosupportthemselves.Exceptthesetwokindsofdutieswhichwemustfulfill,otherkindsoflovebecomeconventionalformalitiessuchaspayingvisittothesickorthedeadandgivingpresentstothenewly-bornetc...
Noloveamongrelativeshasbecomeanormalphenomenonwhichneedn'ttobefussedabout.What’sworseiswhenloveiscontaminatedbymoney.Soonerorlaterwewillgethurt.Thesoonerwegetoutofthisnetoflove,themorewecanpreservebeautifulmemories.
Wearenotlivinginvacuum,andthesocietyisformedofvariouskindsofpeople.Aslongaswewanttolive,study,orwork,wehavetocontact,communicateandcooperatewithothers.Thosewhoenjoycommoninterests,mutualunderstanding,commonundertakingsandcommonbenefitsbecomefriends.
Somefriendsarecalledfair-weatherfriends,becausetheyaretogetherjustforentertainingthemselvesbyeating,drinking,andgossiping.Oncethere'snothingtoeatanddrink,theirfriendshipisfinished.Somearespiritualfriendswhosharecommonambitions,pursuitsandeducation.“Theyenjoytalkingandlaughingwiththegreattalentsandnevermakefriendswiththegood-for-nothings”.Thebestexampleswouldbeyouboyarandthongziqioftheancienttimeswhoarefamousnotonlyfortheirloftymusicbutmainlyfortheirloftycharactersandmutualunderstandingandappreciation.Theycaredverylittleaboutmaterialwealth,sotheirfriendshipisknownas“gentlemen'sfriendshipaspureaswater”.Thethirdtypeoffriendshipbelongstothosewhoshowtheirutterdevotiontoeachother.Theyarereadynotonlytosharewealandwoebutalsotodieforeachother,likethethreebrother’sliu,guanandzhanginthenovelromanceofthethreekingdoms..Weallwishtohavethiskindoffriendship,butit'sofgreatdifficultyfortheordinarypeopletobeasdevotedastheywere.
Fraternalloveorfriendshipiswide-rangedandflexible.Generallyspeaking,everyoneisourfriend,justaschairmanmoasays“ourfriendsareallovertheworld”.Buttranscendage,sex,nationality,stateandeconomicconditions.Tothemthemostimportantiscommonbenefit,commoninterestandunderstanding.Friendshipisformedduringthecourseofstudying,workingandfighting.Thebattlecompanionswhohavesurvivedmanyhazardsusuallyenjoylong-lastingfriendship.
However,fraternalloveisnotstable.Beingawayfortooalongtime,losingallcommonbenefits,friendswillbecomeestranged.Oncetheirinteresthaschanged,theynolongerunderstandeachother,andeventhiswouldharmfriendship.Atalltimesandinallcountries,manyclosefriendsandbattlecompanionswhoonceworkedtogetherandfoughttogetherbecameenemiesintheend.Quietafewoftheemperorsinancientchinaevenkilledthosewhohadhelpedthemfoundtheirdynasties.Thetapingheavenlykingdomwouldnothavefailedifithadn'tbeenforthecontendingandmassacringamongthewhomfirstroseinrebellionatthebeginningoftheuprising.whatelseweneedtopayattentiontoisthatsomefriends,afterbeingawayfromeachotherfortoolongatime,havelostsomuchoftheiroriginalcharactersthatwhenmeetingagain,youwillfeelthatyouarestillthesameasyouwere,whiletheyarenolongerthemselves.Theymayhavethesamefeelingaboutyou,sosometimesitsbetternottomeeteachotheragain.AstheChineseproverbgoes“friendshipcannotlastforthreeyearsandflowerscannotstayinblossomforthreemonths”.It’snotsoeasytomaintainrealfriendshipwhichneedsmutualunderstanding,toleranceandsacrifice.Anykindsofharshtreatmentwilldamagefriendship.
Amatorylovehasbeenamysteryforages.There’sneitheracriteriontojudgenoracommonruletofollow.Nobodycantelltheexactreasonswhyloveemerges.Itisnotalwaysbecauseofbeauty(theuglydoorkeeperQuasimodointhehunchbackofNotredameislovedbythebeautifulgypsygirlEsmeralda),norkindness(Hitleralsohashismistress),norwisdom(eventheblockheadmaysometimesmarryabeautifulgirl),norstrength(somelovestartsfromsympathy).Trueloveislikegettinganelectricshock,shakingoursoul.Itisasweetdream,akindofintoxication,indulgence,andendlesspassion.
Truelovedoesn'tneedalongtimetogrowup,tomakeclearthefamilytreeoftheother,neitherdoesitneedsthetimetolookaheadandbehindagainandagain.Loveisnotmarriage,whichusuallystartsfromlove,but
Doesn’talwaysdependonlovetomaintain.