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篇一

做婚姻中的赢家

Thereisapowerfulhealingenergythatemanatesfromloving.Lastinglovecanlearntosenseit,senditandmakeitgrow.Weareenergizedbyloveifweputourenergyintoloving.

Badenergyspringsfromconflictsthatarisewhentwoegoscollide.WhenIwatchhusbandsandwivesarguewitheachother,Iwanttoshout:

Growup,stopfighting,startloving!

Itisbetttertolearnhowtolovethanhowtofight.Dontttrytowininyourmarriage,winforyourmarriage.

Marriageisdesignedprimarilyforgivingratherthantaking,Itismeanttobeapermanentunionoftwounselfishpeople.Asonehusbandtoldme,TheoldsayingwasLookoutforNumberone,ButwevelearnedtoLookoutforNumbertwo.Ifyoufightforyourself,onlyyoucanwin.Whenyoufightforyourmarriage,youbothwin.

爱能释放出一种强大到起治疗康复作用的能量。

持续长久的爱能让人学会去感知，释放并加强增长这种能量。

如果我们付出能量给爱，我们就会体验到这种能量使我们充满激情而活力四射。

相反的恶能也会从两个自私自我的人的争吵和矛盾冲突中迸发出来。

每当我看到夫妻彼此争吵不休时仅不住想大吼：

成熟点吧，别再闹了，开始爱吧!

学会爱吧而不是学会怎样去争论和争吵。

千万别努力去争取成为你婚姻中赢的一方。

而要努力成为为你婚姻而努力的赢家。

婚姻原本是给予而不是索取，它意味着两个没有私心的人永久的联合。

有个做丈夫的曾对我说：

俗话说人都要先为自己着想，但是我们学会了为他人着想照顾爱人的利益。

如果你争斗为了你自己，你只赢了爱人，而你斗争为了你的婚姻，你俩才都是赢家。

篇二

婚姻、爱情与自由

ouareasking,Isitpossibletobemarriedandtobefree

Ifyoutakemarriagenon-seriously,thenyoucanbefree.Ifyoutakeitseriously,thenfreedomisimpossible.Takemarriagejustasagame--itisagame.Havealittlesenseofhumor,thatitisaroleyouareplayingonthestageoflife;butitisnotsomethingthatbelongstoexistenceorhasanyreality--itisafiction.

Butpeoplearesostupidthattheyevenstarttakingfictionforreality.Ihaveseenpeoplereadingfictionwithtearsintheireyes,becauseinthefictionthingsaregoingsotragically.Itisaverygooddeviceinthemoviesthattheyputthelightsoff,soeverybodycanenjoythemovie,laugh,cry,besad,behappy.

Iftherewaslightitwouldbealittledifficult--whatwillothersthinkAndtheyknowperfectlywellthatthescreenisempty--thereisnobody;itisjustaprojectedpicture.Buttheyforgetitcompletely.

Andthesamehashappenedwithourlives.Manythingswhicharesimplytobetakenhumorously,wetakesoseriously--andfromthatseriousnessbeginsourproblem.

Inthefirstplace,whyshouldyougetmarriedYoulovesomeone,livewithsomeone--itispartofyourbasicrights.Youcanlivewithsomeone,youcanlovesomeone.

Marriageisnotsomethingthathappensinheaven,ithappenshere,throughthecraftypriests.Butifyouwanttojointhegamewithsocietyanddontwanttostandaloneandaloof,youmakeitcleartoyourwifeortoyourhusbandthatthismarriageisjustagame:

Nevertakeitseriously.IwillremainasindependentasIwasbeforemarriage,andyouwillremainasindependentasyouwerebeforemarriage.NeitherIamgoingtointerfereinyourlife,norareyougoingtointerfereinmylife;wewillliveastwofriendstogether,sharingourjoys,sharingourfreedom--butnotbecomingaburdenoneachother.

Andanymomentwefeelthatthespringhaspassed,thehoneymoonisover,wewillbesincereenoughnottogoonpretending,buttosaytoeachotherthatwelovedmuch--andwewillremaingratefultoeachotherforever,andthedaysoflovewillhauntusinourmemories,inourdreams,asgolden--butthespringisover.

Ourpathshavecometoapoint,wherealthoughitissad,wehavetopart,becausenow,livingtogetherisnotasignoflove.IfIloveyou,IwillleaveyouthemomentIseemylovehasbecomeamiserytoyou.Ifyouloveme,youwillleavemethemomentyouseethatyourloveiscreatinganimprisonmentforme.

Loveisthehighestvalueinlife:

Itshouldnotbereducedtostupidrituals.Andloveandfreedomgotogether--youcannotchooseoneandleavetheother.Amanwhoknowsfreedomisfulloflove,andamanwhoknowsloveisalwayswillingtogivefreedom.

Ifyoucannotgivefreedomtothepersonyoulove,towhomcanyougivefreedomGivingfreedomisnothingbuttrusting.Freedomisanexpressionoflove.

Sowhetheryouaremarriedornot,remember,allmarriagesarefake--justsocialconveniences.Theirpurposeisnottoimprisonyouandbindyoutoeachother;theirpurposeistohelpyoutogrowwitheachother.Butgrowthneedsfreedom;andinthepast,allthecultureshaveforgottenthatwithoutfreedom,lovedies.

Youseeabirdonthewinginthesun,inthesky,anditlookssobeautiful.Attractedbyitsbeauty,youcancatchthebirdandputitinagoldencage.

DoyouthinkitisthesamebirdSuperficially,yes,itisthesamebirdwhowasflyinginthesky;butdeepdownitisnotthesamebird--becausewhereisitssky,whereisitsfreedom

Thisgoldencagemaybevaluabletoyou;itisnotvaluabletothebird.Forthebird,tobefreeintheskyistheonlyvaluablethinginlife.Andthesameistrueabouthumanbeings.

篇三

平等保护同性恋婚姻

THEfreedomtomarry,wroteEarlWarren,chiefjusticeoftheUnitedStatesSupremeCourt,haslongbeenrecognisedasoneofthevitalpersonalrightsessentialtotheorderlypursuitofhappinessbyfreemen.Warrenwrotethatsentencein1967,bywayofexplainingwhyheandhiscolleaguesunanimouslyruledthatlawsbanninginterracialmarriagesviolatedboththeequalprotectionanddueprocessclausesofthefourteenthamendment.Supportersofgaymarriagewouldliketoseethatsamecourtapplythatsamereasoningtotheircause.OnFebruary7thafederalcourtinCaliforniabroughtthemonestepcloser.

婚姻自由，长久以来都乃自由之人追求幸福不可或缺之至高无上人权之一。

美国最高法院的首席大法官EarlWarren在1967年时和他的同僚们一致通过裁定，认为禁止不同种族通婚的禁令违反了第十四修正案的平等保护条款和正当程序条款，为了解释这一裁定，他写下了上面这句话。

同性恋婚姻的支持者们希望看到这同一法庭也将同一理由适用于他们的案件。

而加州联邦法庭在2月7日的判决让他们离自己的目标更近了一步。

TheUnitedStatesCourtofAppealsfortheNinthCircuitruledthatProposition8,aballotinitiativepassedbyCaliforniasvotersinNovember20__amendingtheconstitutiontoprohibitgaymarriage,wasunconstitutional.ThatinitiativepassedfivemonthsafterCaliforniasSupremeCourtoverturnedanearlierbanongaymarriage;duringthattime,Californiagrantedmarriagelicencestosome18,000gaycouples.

美国第九巡回上诉法院裁定8号提案违宪。

8号提案最早在20__年11月在加州投票通过，修改宪法以禁止同性婚姻。

而在8号提案通过的五个月之前，加州最高法院推翻了之前一项关于同性婚姻的禁令;在此期间内（原：

就在这五个月期间内），加州为大约18,000对同性夫妻颁发了结婚证书。

Theappealscourtupheldalowercourtsrulingin20__thatProposition8violatedthefourteenthamendment,butdidsoonfarnarrowergrounds,leavingunansweredthebroadquestionofwhetherstatescouldeverrestrictmarriagetoheterosexualcouples,andfindinginsteadthatCaliforniasmeasurevisitedauniqueharmupongaysandlesbiansbystrippingthemofarighttheyonceenjoyed.UnderCalifornialaw,gaysretainedtherightstoadoptchildren,filetaxesjointlyandsharebankaccounts.Proposition8simplydeniedthemtheofficial,cherishedstatusofmarriage,leadingthecourttoconcludethatitssolepurposewastolessenthestatusandhumandignityofgaysandlesbiansinCalifornia.

虽然巡回上诉法院支持初级法院在20__年做出的关于8号提案违反第十四修正案的裁定，但它基于的理由却极为狭隘，它回避了一个更广泛的悬而未决的问题美国各州是否会将婚姻仅限定于异性夫妻之间;相反地，却只针对由于加州的做法剥夺了一项同性恋者们曾经享有的权利，反而对他们造成了特定伤害这一点做文章。

加州的法律规定，同性恋（伴侣）享有领养孩子，共同纳税以及共享银行账户的权利。

8号提案只是否决了他们婚姻的合法的，崇高的地位，这使法庭断定8号提案唯一的目的就是要降低加州同性恋者的地位并剥夺他们的尊严。

ThecasenowseemscertaintobeappealedtotheUnitedStatesSupremeCourt,thoughotherstatesaresimplypushingaheadwithallowinggaymarriage:

onFebruary8thWashingtonsstatelegislaturevotedtoallowit,thoughthedecisioncouldyetrequireapprovalatareferendum.Marriage,farbeyondsuchmundanemattersaspensionsandbankaccounts,isofcourseahugelyemotivesubject.AstheNinthCircuitnotedinhandingdownitsjudgment,HadMarilynMonroesfilmbeencalledHowtoRegisteraDomesticPartnershipwithaMillionaire,itwouldnothaveconveyedthesamemeaning.

尽管其他州都在推动允许同性婚姻的进程2月8日，华盛顿州众议院投票通过允许同性婚姻的提案，当然决议的最终批准还需公民投票表决但现在看来，此案（8号提案违宪一案）一定会上诉至美国最高法院。

婚姻，是与情感高度相关之事，远不同于养老金，银行账户等一般俗务。

就像第九巡回上诉法院在宣布其裁决时所指出的那样：

如果玛丽莲梦露的电影叫《如何与百万富翁签订一纸家庭伴侣关系》（而不叫《如何嫁个百万富翁》），意思就大相径庭了。