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关于爱的英语演讲稿

关于爱的英语演讲稿

情Love

　　eversincethedawningofthehistoryofmankind,therehavebeenmyriadsofdiversifedinventions,discoveries,andevenexplorationsofthemysteriesoftheuniverse.infact,thehumanbeingsaresointelligentthatwehavesolvedalmostallkindsofproblemswehaveconfrontedwith.

　　however,nobodyhasevermadeoutwhattheword“love”reallyconnotes,noteventhemostfamouspeoplesuchasgreatpoliticians,saintsandphilosopherscanclarifythemeaningof“love”,neithercantheydealwiththevariousaffairsconcerninglove.loveislikeahugeboundlessnetthatshroudsusallin.wecanneitherbreakawayfromitnorescapefromit.likeitornot,wearealwaysentangledinit.itisaninvisiblenetwithoutanyform,thatshroudsindifferentpeoplefromdifferentangels;itisamercilessnetthatupsetsusoreventorturesustodeath.itisalsoasupremenetwhichalmostnohumancansurpass.eveniftheyareheroes,emperors,wisemenorsaints,theycandonothingbutshowtheirhelplessnessinitsface.thosewhocanbreathethroughtheholesofthenetshouldberegardedbeyondcommonnessandvulgarity.lovecanbringustemporarycomfortandhappiness,butmostlytheybringaboutannoyanceandsufferings.maybethisisthereasonwhymanypeoplehaveseenthroughtheillusionsofthemortalworld.howeveritisnotsoeasytobreakawayfromthisboundless,ever-existingandindifferentnetoflove.

　　loveisvariedandchangeable,butroughlyitcanbedividedintothreecategories:

familylove,fraternalloveandamatorylove.notlikemonkeykingwhojumpedoutoftherocks,wewereallbornaftermother'spregnancyofaboutninemonths,hencewehavecountlessrelativeswithoutanychoice:

parents,grand-parents,andgrand-parents-in-law,unclesandaunties,brothersandsisters,etc.andoncelookingatthegenealogicaltree,we'llseenoend.familyloveiswhateveryonelongsfor,butthewarmthandsupportfromourbelovedonesarewhateveryoneyearnsforthemost.buthowmanyofusaredeterminedtocontributetoourbelovedone?

andhowmanydon'texpectrepaymentandrelaxed.conscienceeveniftheyhavethedesireandpreparationtocontributetotheirbeloved.thedistancebetweenrelativesisdifferentandsoaretheirexpectations.butsinceit'sverydifficulttoknowhowmuchweshouldexpect,alotofworriesanddistressesemerge.

　　parentsalwaysexpecttheirchildrentoshowtheirfilialobedience,oratleastpaythemfrequentvisitsaftertheyhavegotmarried.ifthechildrenfailtodothis,theyfeelhurtandupset,andthey'llevencomplainabouttheirchildren,becausetheyjustcan'tunderstandwhytheirchildrendon'tcareaboutthemafterwhattheyhavedoneforthechildrenforsomanyyearstobringthemup.nevertheless,one'sexperiencedetermineshisideology.youngchildrenarenaturallyattachedtotheirparents,butwhentheygrowup,speciallywhentheyhavemadetheirownfriends,andgotmarried,whattheyneedmostisindependenceandfreedom,andparentssometimesmightbecometheirburden.oncethereisgenerationgap,itbecomesmoredifficulttocommunicateandthiskeepsthemawayfromtheirparents.objectivelyspeaking,theyneedmoreindependenceinordertoachievesuccess.inthepresentsociety,whatthechildrenwanttohavemostistheeconomicsupportfromtheirparents,nottheirmoralsupportorguidance.theywouldcomplainifyoureconomicsupportisnotuptotheirexpectations.thelovefromunclesandauntieswouldnaturallydwindleaftertheyhavehadtheirownchildren.onlythelovefromgrand-parentsandgrandparents-in-lawispureanddemandsnorepayment,andtheyarealsotoooldtowaitforanyrepayment.asforthedistantrelatives,theirlovedependsontheirneeds,justastheoldsayinggoes“thepoorhavenofriendseveniftheyliveindowntownwhiletherichhavedistantrelativeseveniftheyliveindeepmountains”.grannyliu,adistantkinsfolk,inadreamoftheredmansions,claimskinshipwiththewealthyjiafamily,thinkingthatshemaybenefitfromitinsomeways.liumighthaverunawaywithoutanytracesifthejiafamilyhadbeenapoorone.anothersayinggoes“closeneighborsarebetterthandistantrelatives.”themostdifficultistomanagetherelativeswhendoingbusinesstogether,justaswhatthetvseriesprogramliulaogendiscloses.itisallrighttostaypoortogether,butassoonasthebusinessgrowsprosperous,thegroupwillbecomeestrangedandevendissolvebecauseoftheunfairdistribution.familyloveislikeamazewhichweshouldn'tgotoofarintoit,otherwise,we'llsurelygetlost.loveisabilateralmatterandunilaterallovecanonlyleadyoutonowhereinspiteofyourgoodintentions.familyloveis,sometimes,likeanarrangedmarriage,leavingnochoicestoyou.duetothedifferentexperiencesandtastes,stayingtogeth

ertemporarilycanbeentertaining,whilelivingtogetherforalongtimecanonlybeboringduetothelackofcommoninterestandunderstanding.howcanwecommunicatewitheachotherwithoutunderstanding?

parentshavethedutytosupportthechildrenwhoarenotyeteconomicallyindependent,andchildrenhavetheresponsibilitytoprovidefortheelderlyparentswhoarelackofeconomicabilitiestosupportthemselves.exceptthesetwokindsofdutieswhichwemustfulfill,otherkindsoflovebecomeconventionalformalitiessuchaspayingvisittothesickorthedeadandgivingpresentstothenewly-bornetc..

　　noloveamongrelativeshasbecomeanormalphenomenonwhichneedn'ttobefussedabout.what'sworseiswhenloveiscontaminatedbymoney.soonerorlaterwewillgethurt.thesoonerwegetoutofthisnetoflove,themorewecanpreservebeautifulmemories.

　　wearenotlivinginvacuum,andthesocietyisformedofvariouskindsofpeople.aslongaswewanttolive,study,orwork,wehavetocontact,communicateandcooperatewithothers.thosewhoenjoycommoninterests,mutualunderstanding,commonundertakingsandcommonbenefitsbecomefriends.

　　somefriendsarecalledfair-weatherfriends,becausetheyaretogetherjustforentertainingthemselvesbyeating,drinking,andgossiping.oncethere'snothingtoeatanddrink,theirfriendshipisfinished.somearespiritualfriendswhosharecommonambitions,pursuitsandeducation.“theyenjoytalkingandlaughingwiththegreattalentsandnevermakefriendswiththegood-for-nothings”.thebestexampleswouldbeyuboyaandzhongziqioftheancienttimeswhoarefamousnotonlyfortheirloftymusicbutmainlyfortheirloftycharactersandmutualunderstandingandappreciation.theycaredverylittleaboutmaterialwealth,sotheirfriendshipisknownas“gentlemen'sfriendshipaspureaswater”.thethirdtypeoffriendshipbelongtothosewhoshowtheirutterdevotiontoeachother.theyarereadynotonlytosharewealandwoebutalsotodieforeachother,likethethreebrothersliu,guanandzhanginthenovelromanceofthethreekingdoms..weallwishtohavethiskindoffriendship,butit'sofgreatdifficultyfortheordinarypeopletobeasdevotedastheywere.

　　fraternalloveorfriendshipiswide-rangedandflexible.generallyspeaking,everyoneisourfriend,justaschairmanmaosays“ourfriendsareallovertheworld”.buttranscendage,sex,nationality,stateandeconomicconditions.tothemthemostimportantiscommonbenefit,commoninterestandunderstanding.friendshipisformedduringthecourseofstudying,workingandfighting.thebattlecompanionswhohavesurvivedmanyhazardsusuallyenjoylong-lastingfriendship.

　　however,fraternalloveisnotstable.beingawayfortooalongtime,losingallcommonbenefits,friendswillbecomeestranged.oncetheirinteresthaschanged,theynolongerunderstandeachother,andeventhiswouldharmfriendship.atalltimesandinallcountries,manyclosefriendsandbattlecompanionswhoonceworkedtogetherandfoughttogetherbecameenemiesintheend.quietafewoftheemperorsinancientchinaevenkilledthosewhohadhelpedthemfoundtheirdynasties.thetaipingheavenlykingdomwouldnothavefailedifithadn'tbeenforthecontendingandmassacringamongthethosewhofirstroseinrebellionatthebeginningoftheuprising.whatelseweneedtopayattentiontoisthatsomefriends,afterbeingawayfromeachotherfortoolongatime,havelostsomuchoftheiroriginalcharactersthatwhenmeetingagain,youwillfeelthatyouarestillthesameasyouwere,whiletheyarenolongerthemselves.theymayhavethesamefeelingaboutyou,sosometimesit'sbetternottomeeteachotheragain.asthechineseproverbgoes“friendshipcannotlastforthreeyearsandflowerscannotstayinblossomforthreemonths”.it'snotsoeasytomaintainrealfriendshipwhichneedsmutualunderstanding,toleranceandsacrifice.anykindsofharshtreatmentwilldamagefriendship.

　　amatorylovehasbeenamysteryforages.there'sneitheracriteriontojudgenoracommonruletofollow.nobodycantelltheexactreasonswhyloveemerges.itisnotalwaysbecauseofbeauty（theuglydoorkeeperquasimodointhehunchbackofnotredameislovedbythebeautifulgypsygirlesmeralda）,norkindness（hitleralsohashismistress）,norwisdom（eventheblockheadmaysometimesmarryabeautifulgirl）,norstrength（somelovestartsfromsympathy）.trueloveislikegettinganelectricshock,shakingoursoul.itisasweetdream,akindofintoxication,indulgence,andendlesspassion.

　　truelovedoesn'tneedalongtimetogrowup,tomakeclearthefamilytreeoftheother,neitherdoesitneedsthetimetolookaheadandbehindagainandagain.loveisnotmarriage,whichusuallystartsfromlove,but

doesn'talwaysdependonlovetomaintain