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thesefourwords.
Premarital:
peoplechangehearts,goodforothers,peoplewillreturnyou;
theheartcannotchangethedog'
sheart.
thatrelationshipdifficulties,IthinkIshouldbegoodatallthingstoallmen.
daughter-in-lawrelationshiptooTMdifficult.
Beforemarriage:
youcanbeyourmother-in-law'
sdaughter
themother-in-lawisalwaysamother-in-law,motherisalwaysamother
Children:
withchildren,aslongasheishealthyandhappytogrowup,youcannotgivethechildtoomuchburden
theearlybirdcatchestheworm,andthechildjustdoesn'
tplayenough.
AlthoughIdonotlikechildren,butafterbirth,willautomaticallyhavemotherlylove
whydoyoucryallthetime?
Stand,helpmetakeittothekindergartenandthenreturnedtome.
raisingchildrenisdifficult.
howdifficultitistoraiseachild?
.
whenyouareyoung,youshouldstudymoreandworkhard;
ifonlyyouhadababyearlier.
wanttohaveagroupofchildrenOh!
givebirthtoachild?
Thinkbig
Economics:
whatismoney,loveisfirst.
whatislove?
Giveyoumoneyislove,donotgivemoneyisnot.
Beforemarriage,loveisfirst,attitudeiseverything.
moneyfirst,responsibilitydetermineseverything.
mymoneyandmyhusband'
smoneyarebothofthemmoney
mymoneyismymoney,myhusband'
smoneyismyhusband'
smoney,andmyfamily'
smoneyismyfamily'
smoney
husbandcanrelyon
economicbasedeterminesmaritalstatus
moneyisnoteverything
nomoneyisabsolutelyimpossible
moonlightclan
plannedeconomy
spendmoneyformewithoutfrowning
begantoadvisemetobuylessinTaobao
myhusband'
spoorandIhavenothingtodo,nomoney,wecanslowlyearn.
Tm:
aftermarriagemoneyreallydifficult,themostdifficultisnotonlycannotexpectherhusband,alsoexpectustokeep.Itwouldbenicetostartoffwitharichfamily.
aftermarryingtwopeopleeverywheretoplaytourism.
aftermarriagetravelfart,savemoneytobuyahouse,haveachildisserious.
Marriagerelationship:
Iwanttohavemyownhusbandandchildren,Iwanttotreatthemwell.
childrenaretheirown,husband,well,saynoisnot.Therefore,thechildmustberight,thehusbandisbad,issuperciliouslookwolf.
whenlyingtogether,liketocoverthesamequilt
ortheirownquilt,sleepbetter
whatisthemostexpensiveandharmoniousintwenty-firstCentury?
!
SotwopeopletoXiangjingrubin,mutualunderstandingandmutualaccommodation.
Aftermarriage,eithertheeastwindprevailsoverthewestwind,orthewestwindprevailsovertheEastwind.
themostimportantthingbetweentwoadultsisrationalcommunication
communicationisanemptytalk,endureandendure
youcanslowlytransformherhusband'
sbadhabits
nevertrytoreformhim,theresultwillonlybecomeaggravated
husbandisthemostpainful,Icaremostofme
ditto,subjectbecomeswife
husbandisgood,
AslongasI'
mangry,he'
sholdingontome.
whydidn'
thecompromise,comeoverandapologizetome?
heisbusywithhiswork.Iwashitseveraltimes,andit'
sOK,aslongashetreatsmewell.
whyTM,Iwashdisheseverytime?
?
sleepinthewintercold,summerheatafan,hungrypeoplecookformyfood,nomatterhowlatetoworktomeetsomeone
anelectricblanket+anairconditioner+takeout+play=solveallproblems
Beforemarriage,thereisalwaysashouldertoleanon,apartnertomeeteverythingwithyou
dependon,relyon,stillalmost...Alwayssuspectthathemarriedforthesakeofhiswifeorhismother...
love,love
Money:
beforemarriage
trytobevirtuousandbeagoodwife
nevermarrybeforemarriage.Whatwillyoudo?
Otherwise,itwillbeyourlife,andpushcan'
tbepushedaway
tofindafilialpietyofhismother'
shusband,afilialchild,wifeiscertainlyverygood.
peoplearegoodtomom,notgoodtowife!
FilialpietyorOedipusmannogood!
withhischaracter,theremaybeadivorce
doit
thepowerofloveisendless,marriagewithoutloveisnotfeasible.
loveissmallformarriage,andsenseofresponsibilityistheguaranteeofmarriage.
aslongasthereishim,sufferingissweet!
ITMtoonaive!
Selfgrowth:
toloseweightinlove!
Slimming!
inordertolivelonger,cannotloseweightwithoutreason,shouldpayattentiontomaintenance.
Imustbeagoodpickup,breakoutofplace.
isthereanywaytohidethingsthatarelessconspicuous?
wanttolearnthemostdifficult,themostcomplex,themostgorgeousdishes,howtodo?
howcanyoumakethemostdeliciousmealquicklyandsimply?
donotthinkfamilybackgroundaffectsaffection
deeplyrealizethatmarriageshouldbemadeofwoodendoors,woodendoors,bambooandbamboo
thinkmarriageisbetweentwopeople,
onlytofindthatthisisthetwofamily,no,itshouldbebetweenthetwofamilies
Momhassomepower,everythingdependsontheconditions
howwiseitisformymothernottoletmemarrythisman.Doyouhaveanymedicineforregret?
Lovehimbeforemarriage.
Aftermarriage,loveyourself.
Iwanttogetmarried!
Iwanttobealone!
toobad,awayfrom!
toobad,howcanyouleave?
Hermotherwaswidowedmotherbeforemarriage:
nevermind,sheishardtoraisethesonisnoteasy,musttakegoodcareofher.
thefamilylawssayisthetruth,notmarryahcannotmarry.
he'
lllovemeforever.
loveislikeshit,tobederailedderailed,agoodmanisunreliable,ortheinsuranceontheirown.
friendshipdrinkswater
loveandmarriage,TM,are2things
hisparentsdon'
tknowthereason.He'
snotlivingwiththem!
thetimetofindtheobjectofmydaughterImustlookupathisparentswhatquality!
beacleverwoman
theoriginalsillywomanwhowillbehappy,evenifitisnottobesilly
Istheresometruthtoit,too?
Whatdoyouthinkisprofound?
Orwhatchangeshaveyoumadeafteryourmarriage?