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英语读书报告
英语读书报告
Afterthoughtof“ShuangLengChangHe”
Friendship
Recently，Ireadabooknamed？
ShuangLengChangHe？
whichiswrittenbyYuQiuyu。
Therearesomeessaysaboutphilosophictheoryofhumanlifeinthisbook。
However，IwasattractivebytheessayoffriendshipforIwastoldtheessenceoffriendshipandlearnthowtomakefriendswithothers。
Friendshipisaneternalthemeweexamineandexplore。
Butwhatisfriendship？
Whatistherealmeaningoffriendship？
Asweknow，friendshipisalife—longtreasure。
Withfriends，weshareourjoysandtears。
Friendshipisnotacommoditywithaprice，norshouldwealienateourfriendsbyquestioningorjudgingtheirvirtues。
IntraditionalcultureofChina，mostoftheliterarymenadmirethefriendshipbetweenYuBoyaandZhongZiqi。
Theyholdthepointthatmountainstreamwithaknowingearistheluckiestthingandlookingforwardtothiskindoffriendshipintheirwholelife。
However，abosomfriendisnoteasytofindintherealworld。
Itusuallycomesthatthepersonisyourfriendtoday，andtomorrowwouldbeyourenemy。
Evenmore，whenapersonwasdeceivedorbetrayedbyhisfriends，hewouldnevertrustanyfriends。
Usually，peoplewilltrytheirbesttohelptheirfriends，eventheirliveswhenneeded。
Howevertheyfindithardtoforgivethefriendwhobetrayedthem。
Hence，howtoestablishfriendlyrelationshipisveryimportantandnecessaryforhumanbeings。
ThereisaChinesesayinggoes，youdependonyourparentswhenyoustayathome，andyoudependonyourfriendswhenyougoout。
Thiskindofsayingindicatesthattheimportanceoffriends，atthesametimeitmeansthevalueoffriendsisfordependence。
Therefore，willyoumakefriendswithapersonwhohasnouseforyou？
Oranyonehelpedyoucanbecomeyourfriends？
Whatdoweexpectfromourfriends？
Frommypointofview，arealfrienddoesnotcareyourbackground，yourwealth，yourappearance。
Thetruestfriendofallisonethatreadsyourverysoul，onewhoisalwaystherewhenneeded。
Arealfrienddoesnotexpectsomethingfromtheirfriendsordependonhisfriends。
Friendshipisanin—depthrelationshipcombiningtrust，communication，andunderstanding。
Somepeopleholdtheideathatfindingafriendislikecominghome。
Whenyoucome“home”toafriend，youcanrelax；unbosomingyoupainsandsorrowsandyouneedn？
tpretendoracttough。
Butdonotforgetonepointthatiskeepingdistancebetweenyou。
MostpeopleofChinaarelikelytoignorethiskindofproblem，whichsometimescausessomeunnecessarytroubles。
Frommypointofview，weshouldbetterkeepproperdistancewithourfriendsifyouwantkeepastablerelationship。
Generally，asaChinese，peoplewouldratherreceiveexcessivekindnessthansay“NO？
？
totheirfriends。
Intheiropinion，agoodfriendshouldnotturndowntheirfriends，ifthishappened，theirfriendswouldberegardedthattheywerelookeddownbytheirfriendsandfeltloosingface。
Forexample，oneofyourfriendsisafraidofexamandheasksforyourhelpduringtheexamination。
Whatwouldyoudo？
Tobeornottobe？
Eventhoughyouareunwillingtocheatintheexam，youstillpromisetoofferhelpandendurethesufferingyourselffromtreating。
Everymanaloneissincere。
Attheentranceofasecondperson，hypocrisybegins。
Emersonsaid“AfriendisapersonwithwhomImaybesincere。
Idonotwishtotreatfriendshipdaintily，butwithroughestcourage。
”Fromthesewords，weknowthatfriendshipisbuiltonsincerity，andsincerityisbasedonequalityofpersonality。
Withoutsincerityandequalityofpersonality，peoplewillnottrustothersandmakefriendswithothersinheart。
Inadditiontothis，Aristotlealsosaidthatwishingtobefriendsisquickwork，butfriendshipisaslow—ripeningfruit。
Maybeitonlytakesonesecondtimetobefriends，butyouwillspendmoretimetoestablishfriendlyrelationships。
Purefriendshipwithoutjudgmentcanenrichourlife。
Wehaveourownjudgmentsonourfriendsaccordingtotheirvirtues。
Thoughyoufindvirtuesinyourfriends，hewasyourfriendbeforeyoufoundthem。
Ifyouchooseyourfriendsonthegroundthatyouarevirtuesandwantvirtuouscompany，youarenonearertotruefriendshipthanofchoosingthemforcommercialreasons。
Thoughyoumaychoosethevirtuoustobeyourfriends，theymaynotchooseyouasafriend。
Nevertheless，withoutjudgmentdoesnotmeanthatyoushouldignorewhatisrightandwrongtosupportyoufriendswithoutcondition。
Unquestioningsupportwillbringdisasterfinally。
Fromthisarticle，peoplemayfeelthatitisnoteasytofindarealfriend。
Infacttheproblemiswerequiretoomuchfromfriendship，suchasthesenseofbelonging，obligationandothervirtues。
Ifwegetridofthiskindofdemandandfetter，wewillunderstandthefriendshipclearlyandenjoyitcompletely。
Friendshipisjustli
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