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At20,therearetwothingsyou'

retryingtocriticallybalance,theshort-termversusthelong-term:

1.Thedecisionsyoumakeatthisstagewillimpacttherestofyourlife.Thisiseasytovastlyunderestimate:

don'

t.Considerthelong-termimpactofyourseriousdecisions.

2.Youhaveuniqueopportunitiesandfreedomsintheshort-termthatwillgrowmoredistantwithtime/age.Yourresponsibilitiestoexternalfactorsincreasetothepointthatyoucan'

tbeasspontaneousandwild,sousethisasachancetohavetheseexperiences.

Timeisyourmostpreciousresource,andyoursisfleeting. 

Moneyisnosubstituteforyouth.Moneycanbeearned,given,orstored;

nottime.

Envisionyourolderselflookingback,thinking"

I'

msogladI____"

or"

IwishIhaddone____"

IwishIhadn'

t_____."

Alwaystrytofillintheblankforthesecondtermandseekitout!

Theconceptofdiminishingtime+shorttermvslongtermleadstosomebigtake-aways:

∙Takebigrisks 

（you'

reyoungandcanaffordtodoso,duetorelativelyfewcommitments,etc）

∙Travelasmuchaspossible 

（don'

twaittillyou'

reretired,youmayneverlivethatlong）

∙Alwaysre-investinyourself:

learn,developnewskills,keepgettingeducated

∙Don'

tbeashamedtoseekprofessionalhelpwhenlife'

sgotyoudown.

∙Your20saretheabsolutebesttimetodothatthingyou'

vealwaysdreamedof.Traveltheworld,act,sing,designavideogame,makeart,write,compose,paint,startabusiness,whatever:

justdoit!

Ifyoudon'

tdoitnow,youmayneverfulfillthatdream.

Allthatbeingsaid,thesearethemaincomponentsofvital20-somethingknowledge:

∙Habits

∙Socialization

∙DreamsandGoals

∙Money

∙Mind

Let'

sdrillintothese!

Atthisearlystage, 

developinggoodhabits 

（and 

avoidingorstoppingbadones）isahugepartofoveralllifesuccessandhappiness.

∙Make 

exerciseandpropernutrition 

akeypartofyourdaily/weeklylife

∙Learntocook（sinceyoueateverydayyourentirelife）

∙Floss 

asoftenaspossible

∙Drinklotsof 

water

∙Take 

vitamins 

orminerals（ifdeemedunhealthy）

∙Managesunexposure 

properly（alittlebitisnecessary,alotiscarcinogenic）.

∙Ifyousmoke,quit.（DothisASAP,it'

sreallyhardtoquitlater.）

tdrinkyourselftosleepeverynight.

∙Practicesafesex 

（useprotection）.

∙Finishthingsyoustart.

∙Keepinmind:

Buildgoodhabitsearlyinyourlifesoit'

seasytomaintainlater.

Masteryoursocialdimension（dating/relationships/friendships）:

∙Understandyouremotionsandlearntolikeyourself（butnottoafault）

∙Laughoften.

∙Dateoften:

understandwhatyouwantANDwhatapotentiallifemateshouldideallybetodealwithyou

tbeafraidofmarriageorlong-termrelationships:

peoplehavebeenintheseformillenniaforareason.

∙Alwaytryto 

befriendly 

andoptimistic（smile!

）

∙Alwaystryto 

helpothers.（Volunteeringisagreathumanendeavor.）

tburndownbridges 

（grudgesachieveverylittle）

∙Edityourfriends:

avoidpeople"

goingthewrongway"

withdrugs,excessivedrinking,oddcults,extremepolitics,laziness,irresponsibility,negativityandlackofmotivation/ambition.Youdon'

twantthesepeoplearound.Also:

seekoutuseful,active,interestingpeopleandbuildthoserelationshipsinstead.

∙Breakthrough"

ageapartheid:

"

Befriendswiththoseolderthanyou（optimallysome5yearsolderandsome10yearsolder）soyouhavepropermentors.

∙Hustleisbetterthanpassivity 

（butnottoanextreme,don'

tviolatethe"

friendlyprinciples"

listedabove.

tmakefriendspurelyforself-gain,but 

alwayskeepinmindwhocanbeagoodpartner 

foranyfutureventure.

∙Learnasecondorthirdlanguage 

tomakemorefriends（aroundtheworld）!

See'

expandingmentalskillsets'

subsectionbelow.

Beabletofulfillyourdreams:

PART1:

Layoutyourdreamsandgoals（optimism）

tliveyourlifeforanyoneelse. 

DowhatYOUwanttodo,notparentsorsignificantothers.

∙BetruetoYOURindividualgoals 

anddreams.

∙Beopen-mindedaboutyourgoals 

anddreams.Theywillevolveovertime.

∙Periodsof 

uncertaintyand/orsetbacksareguaranteed.Acceptthemandlearnfromthem!

PART2:

Worktowardyourdreamsandgoals（realism）

∙Getcredentialed:

universitydegrees,vocations,tradeskillsandcrafts,certifications,licenses,etc.Noharminrackingtheseup.Minimalchanceofregret

∙Getexperienced:

teachortutor,evenforalittlebit.Travelcountstoo!

∙Getsmart:

tryandgetcredentialed/recognizedforhobbiesoranyotherwayyouspendyourtime.

∙Goforadvanceddegreesonlyinsubjectsyou'

repassionateabout.

∙Bepatient:

greatstories,companies,research,structures,etctakeyearstobuild.

Mastermoney,financesandinvesting:

∙Startlearninghowto 

makemoneyworkforyou 

（nottheotherwayaround）early.

∙Getacoreunderstandingof 

personalfinance 

（youdon'

tneedtobeapro,justthe101introcourse-worth）

∙Stayoutofdebt.

∙StartsavingNOW.

∙Livewithinyourmeans.

∙Moneyisnotthemostimportantthingintheworld,but 

financialsecuritywillgiveyouachoice,andchoice 

is 

important.

Maximizeyourmind（expandmentalskill-sets）:

∙Learntothinkusingmultiplementalmodels:

math,physics,biology,psychology,etc...andworkuptothepointwherethey'

redeployedautomatically.Todothis,seethenextbulletpoint.

∙Read 

asmuchasyoucanpossiblywithstand（thiswillhelpwiththeabove）.

∙Write 

asoftenasyoucan.Ithelpsorganizeyourthoughtsandmakesyouabettercommunicator（onpaperatleast）.

∙Masterattentionandfocus:

thesearelifelongtoolsthatwillleadtogreaterself-improvement.

∙Learntobedisciplinedandworkwithdeadlines 

（yes,your20sareatimetobefreeandspontaneous,butremembertobalanceshortvslongterm）.

∙Learnatleasttwolanguages 

（besidesyournativelanguage）.Learnonelanguageforbusiness.Learnanothertoexpandyoursociallife.

∙Makesureyouknowhowto 

touch-type.

∙Learnto 

uselibraryresearchandwebsearch 

toolstoyouradvantage.

thinklogicallyandcritically.

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1.Startsavingmoney. 

Putitinanaccountthatwillgarnercompoundinterestorinvestinan 

IndexFund 

（thisadviceisper 

WarrenBuffett）.

2.Develophealthyhabits. 

We'

retalkingflossing,drinkingwater,takingavitamindaily.

3.Similarly:

stopbadhabits. 

Ifyousmoke,quit.Don'

tbeinthehabitofdrinkingyourselftosleep.Badhabitsarehardtobreakandthelongeryoukeepabadhabittheworseitisforyou.

4.Takebigrisks. 

Whenyouareyounger,youcanaffordtobelessriskaversethanwhenyou'

reolder.Forexample,launchingastart-upwhenyouare20hasfarfewerpossiblenegativeconsequencesthanlaunchingonewhenyouare40andhavechildrentofeed.

5.Travel.Asthedemandsofyourcareerincreaseandyoustarthavingcommitments（relationships,children,etc.）,findingtimeandmoneytotravelisharder.It'

sbettertotravelonthecheapwhenyouareyoungthantowaituntilyouareretired.

6.Investinyourself. 

Learning,developingskills,andgettinganeducationwillpaydividendstoyoulater.

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Iam25.AndthreeyearsagoIformedthisguidingprincipleformydailylife,inadditionto,andinordertofuelasustainableeffortformylong-termgoals:

Heart

Nurtureyourrelationships.Family,friends,significantother,colleagues,acquaintances.Maketimeforahealthysociallife.Volunteer.Give.Facebookmoderately.Makenewfriends.Smileatthecashier,barista,librarian,janitor:

Mind

Staycreative.Don'

tallowanysituationtokeepyouinarut.Developyourskillsandseekoutnewones,too.And,asalreadymentioned,youshouldbetheonetobenefitfromyourwork（per 

Cyril）.Ifyou'

reacoder,learnsomethingthatrequiresmanualdexterity.Ifyouhavetwoleftfeet,dancewiththem!

Quoramoderately.Seeklike-mindedpeers.Workonyourweaknessesabitjusttogainperspective,butplayupyourstrengths.

Body

Eathealthy.Exerciseeveryday.Playsports.Sleepwell. 

Laugh. 

Heartily. 

Learntocook.Getoffthecompute