身体语言的秘密secretsofbodylanguage.docx

1、身体语言的秘密secretsofbodylanguage1A walk to convey power; a greeting that gets the upper hand; a gesture that can hide a lie, body language can betray us. When a president is under pressure, or a celebrity is in the media glare, look beyond the words, their body language says it all. This is a certain po

2、ise, self-touch gesture, hot spot, or micro-expressions.In this special, experts will dissect the body, the face and the voice Its about our country. to reveal its hidden meanings, its secrets. This is a world where what we say is all important. They said this day would never come. We hang on every

3、word. Tomorrow we begin again. Thank you. But are we getting all the message Older, darker, mean psychopaths, serial killers hang aroundResearch has shown that just 7% of human communication is through the actual words.93% of what we communicate with others is non-verbal. Bang, bang, bang! 93%! Thin

4、k about that. 93%! So its our tone of voice, our pitch, our posture, micro-expressions on our face and different gestures that we might use. So we put all the significance on 7% for words. We shouldnt have really been doing that. Beyond the words lies a fascinating world of non-verbal communication,

5、 the secret world of body language. We are about to watch our one of the world leaders, our sports stars. Good morning. Well revisit famous figures from recent history. Did you kill the President Because people have got to know whether or not their president is a crook, well, but I am not a crook. I

6、ve earned everything Ive got. Well view our celebrities with fresh eyes. We are going to show how people in the public eye try to control the way we perceive them, and how sometimes, despite their best efforts, the truth leaks out. Whomever it might be, if the truth is told, then my name will be cle

7、ared and I can move on with my life. If you know what to look for. Its not what you are seeing. Its what you are not seeing. And you are not seeing an, an anger response. We are going to equip you with the tools to read those body language giveaway.2Youre getting a hidden peek, a peek into the world

8、 of whats really going on there. When you can read body language, every moment you spend with others, you can make it valuable, and if you are in business, you can make it profitable. Body language is crucial.For those who study nonverbal communication, one of the first indicators they look out for

9、is the way someones body moves. At this Camp David Summit, President Bush is the host to visiting Russian President Vladimir Putin.Vladimir Putin knows the world is watching him on American soil and he also knows that his people are watching, so he must show strength. Here though, both leaders are m

10、aking a strong body language statement.Now here we are, two powerful world leaders in a sort of striding contest, because of course, the faster you stride, the more strong, powerful and fit you are.But its not just the speed of walking that sends out messages. Vladimir Putin and George Bush, both of

11、 whom are fantastically powerful men, have two completely different kinds of power and it, evidences itself through body language.I thank you all for coming.Vladimir Putin has, what I would call, a very animal power, a strong man power. And he walks by having his shoulders that are actually bouncing

12、 back and, back and forth. And he walks. He also makes gestures. He is very active. I would almost call it a kind of sexy power. George Bush, on the other hand, has a more traditional, and I would say, American power. There is a very little movement above the shoulders. Hes trying to look like hes c

13、ontrolled. There is no extra wasted energy.I thank you all for coming.Perceiving the body language message of these two powerful Presidents is straightforward. But body language is often complex and easily misunderstood. Here President Clinton leads Israeli and Palestinian leaders Ehud Barak and Yas

14、ser Arafat out before the press during peace negotiations. Its all smiles for the cameras. But behind the facade of bonhomie, there is a power struggle going on. Clinton jokingly explains that none of them will take any questions. We pledged to each other that we would answer no questions and offer

15、no comments. So, I have to set a good example.The body language then revealed just why that was.3Oh, my!WellWow, almost a physical fight.Many view this apparently light-hearted tussle as a sign that Arafat and Barak were getting on well. Think again.There is a, a great meaning behind who goes throug

16、h the door first. Now, of course, see that here in the West, letting someone through the door first that doesnt really matter, polite maybe. But in the Middle East, it has significant cultural impact.The host, the power person says Im in control, Ill help you through the door, Ill show you the way.T

17、hank you.Throwing the fear and tension presented in most Middle East negotiations, and suddenly the desire of both Arafat and Barak not to go through that door before the other starts to make sense.This is a classic example in an extreme way of how the last man through the door is the winner. So Bar

18、ak reaches for Yasser Arafat. Arafat literally grabs this on, moves around and starts waggling his finger at Barak who then, Barak then uses it as an opportunity like a wrestling match to move around, to actually be behind Arafat and then literally grabs Arafat, to hold him by the arm and shoves him

19、 through the door boldly.So youve got fear and power struggle showing in big, big, big, big, bold body language movements.Arafat and Barak are not the only ones to appreciate the significance of the last man through the door move. Even when friends and allies meet, subtle cues reveal whos top dog.20

20、03, British Prime Minister Tony Blair plays host to President Bush.In this particular example, we are looking at Downing Street and one would expect Tony Blair to be very territorial. Its his territory. He should be host. He should be in charge and the boss in terms of who at least goes through the

21、door.And yet, Tony Blair the Prime Minister accepts that the seniority in place here is the President. So President Bush says photo job is over, gives him a little nod, and so they start getting in. The4The president is in charge of the choreography. He goes through the door last. He uses his left h

22、and and taps Blair forward, not shoving Blair through the door, but helping him through the door, meaning Bush is in charge. As they go in, the president being in charge and wanting him to be clear that he is in charge, not only displays the ownership symbol of putting his hand on Tony Blairs back,

23、but then he displays a further bit of dominancegives him three little taps, just to let him know that actually he is a good little boy and that George W. Bush is boss. A pat on the back is one way to demonstrate power. Getting the upper hand is another, quite literally.When body language savvy world

24、 leaders get together, they know theres one sure fire moment to demonstrate dominance, the handshake photo while.If youre looking at the left of the picture, they always wanna be standing on the left of the picture. Let me demonstrate. If Im shaking hands here, whats gonna happen Im at the bottom of

25、 the handshake. My palm is facing up. Thats a very vulnerable position. If Im shaking hands here, and Ive got my arm around the person Im shaking hands, who is in, whos got the upper hand Ive got the upper hand. If someones coming in to shake your hand like this, heres the nice solid handshake. It s

26、hould be straight and firm. If its not.Janine Driver teaches body language evening classes. Its kind of hard to dominate. You are a powerful boy.She believes the visual impact of important handshakes was first appreciated in 1970 when Elvis Presley famously paid a visit to President Nixon at the Whi

27、te House.We see a picture of Nixon and hes shaking hands with Elvis Presley. Nixons got the upper hand. Thats where the expression comes fromIve got the upper hand here. So now that people know about this in politics, you see them jogging for position when it comes time to take the picture.At this S

28、ummit in 2006 hosted by Vladimir Putin, the Russian leader was on full handshake alert. Hes strategically placed himself in a position where when theyre coming forward, hes gonna get the dominant position. They are coming out of cars, this way theyre coming up to him. The cameras are here. Every sin

29、gle picture, who gets the upper hand Putin.Then up strides Tony Blair. We see that Tony Blair is going to actually grab onto Vladimir Putins hands that, this classic thing of grabbing somebody by the elbow to show who is actually the leader. Score one for Blair.PS：开篇的“The”为续片段3片末的最后一个单词。Glossary:cho

30、reography：编排，编舞savvy：精明的get the upper hand：处于有利地位5Next, its President Bushs turn.George Bush, on the other hand, then comes in and realizes hes on the wrong side of the photo.Good morning.So when he reaches into grab, he immediately crowds Putin. So instead of just grabbing and letting Putin grab hi

31、s arm, George Bush puts his shoulder against Putin so that Putins left arm is in no way in the position to grab hold of Bushs right arm. Then as soon as Bush turns out, he immediately goes for a little tap but still on Putins back to actually give him a push. And Putin, making sure not to be outdone

32、, puts his right arm out and gives Bush a little tap as well.Well call that a draw. Even seated, the bodies of world leaders can speak volumes. Here is a master class from FDR.With President Roosevelt presiding, the historic conference began.February 1945, Franklin D. Roosevelt, Joseph Stalin and Winston Churchill famously meet at the Yalta conference.Big three, surrounded by the Chiefs of Staff, with their staffs and civilian officials, pose for the c