如何判断恋爱中的男朋友是个玩咖Word文档格式.docx

1、Every time theres a notification comes to his phone, it can be new messages, new chats, new e-mails or any other stuff, and hes unable to reach his phone, he doesnt ask for your help to check it out. Hes in another room, away from his phone, then both of you hear a notification comes, he knows youre

2、 closer to his phone, but he doesntask you to check it. Its clear that he doesnt feel like letting you know who hes been keeping in touch with. Hes probably been communicating with another person intensely. If theres nothing to keep a secret about, so why doesnt he let you check his phone while he c

3、ant reach his phone?2. He takes you to the same old spotAnother sign that makes you suspect that your boyfriend is a player, is that he takes you to the same old spot to hang out. He takes to you to the same restaurant like theres no other place to choose. Its not like its his favorite restaurant, b

4、ut it may be because he takes somebody else to another restaurant. Its more like he keeps a secret that he doesnt want anyone to make you know.The scene is probably like this, he takes you to restaurant #1, and he takes somebody else to restaurant #2. People at the two different restaurants will not

5、ice that your boyfriend only takes one girl. But, the truth is probably one girl one restaurant. Sounds creepy to you? Well, you need to look at the other signs to make it clear that he is a player. Dont panic yet, girls.3. He doesnt warn you of your bad habitEverybody has a bad habit. Some people a

6、re so messy, they throw any stuff everywhere in the room. Some people has a bad time management, they always come late to any event. You have a bad habit for not putting the dishes in the sink. You leave them in the table cause youre too lazy to wash the dishes. Your boyfriend knows that but he does

7、nt warn you to change your habit. He doesnt seem to think its a bad thing and he doesnt have the urge to remind you to be better.Actually, it can be a bad thing if you keep doing your bad habit. Sooner or later you will be a mother. A mother has a big responsibility of the hygiene of her house. If h

8、e doesnt warn you of your bad habit for your good sake, there are chances that he doesnt think you can be the one in his future life. Its getting clearer that youre not the only one in his life.4. He doesnt always call you firstWhen you two are apart, its you who makes a call. He claims that he does

9、nt want to bother you, so he let you be the first to call. Doesnt it feel like he doesnt want to know how you are as soon as possible? He only wants to have a call when you call him first. Hes not that excited to know how your day was. Thats probably okay if it only takes a few times. But, what if y

10、ou dont call for too long, and he still doesnt call first? Hes probably having another one to call first.5. He doesnt complain when youre too busyYou have plenty things to do that makes you lack of time to hang out with him. Youre busy doing your college assignment or running a business. Hes okay wi

11、th that, saying that you should go for something thats important for you. It may sound good that he doesnt want to let himself get in your way. But, the more you let yourself to you own business, he doesnt seem to feel like youre way too busy. This mayimprove your suspicion that your boyfriend has a

12、nother thing. Another thing or another one that pulls his attention when youre not around.6. He doesnt let you come to his workplaceYou two work at different places. Its time for lunch and you want to have a lunch together with him, so you ask him if you can come to his workplace. Instead of letting

13、 you come, he asks you to meet at another place. He doesnt let you come to where he works. He doesnt give a relevant reason why. This should make you suspect something weird. Why not letting you come to his workplace? Like theres something or someone he doesnt want you to meet. Do we smell an affair

14、 here? Our suspicion seems to grow bigger. Before we can make a conclusion, we should check the other signs.7.He doesnt notice when you change your appearancesAs a girl, you want to look the best. You cut your hair or dye them with different colors. You want to look pretty in front of people and loo

15、k prettiest in front of your boyfriend. Theres a time that you cut your hair a little shorter. Then you meet your boyfriend, but he doesnt notice that you get a haircut. This might be less important, but if he really cares about you, he should know every single change that happens to you.But, isnt i

16、t good when a boyfriend notice the change in his girlfriends appearance and compliment her about how she looks? You wish you could impress your boyfriend because of your new look, but turn out he doesnt notice it until you tell him. Seems like youre losing the chemistry between you and him. Or, is i

17、t because youre just another girl for him?8.He stays away when he gets a callWhen you two are hanging out together to have lunch, going to movies, or going shopping, then he gets a call. He doesnt pick that right away, but he needs an excuse to move away while picking up the call. He even hides his

18、words and his expression while he speaks on the phone. This sign must be the strongest clue that hes been communicating with someone that he keeps a secret from you. If this doesnt make you suspect him of having another affair, you should ask yourself. Are you and him in a relationship or a friendsh

19、ip? Its like theres more secret between the two of you than in the White House.9. He often gets reasons not to see youYou ask him to come to your place, and he says he got a work to do. At the other day, you ask him out to go to movies, but his friends need him for a business. He always finds reason

20、swhy he cant come to see you. If it happens once, then it can happen twice. He always finds another reason, but the reasons are getting more irrelevant time after time. You two are dating, but it feels like youre not.t seem to put you on his priority. He doesnt try to make time with you. And the wor

21、se is, he doesnt seem to miss you when you two dont meet. Not seeing you isnt a matter for him. This is a sign that there might be something else got his attention.10. He doesnt remember the details about youYou and him are in a relationship, but he barely knows some details about you. He doesnt rem

22、ember your shoe size, your birthday, your high school name and your favorite singers. A person who wants to have someone in their life must know every detail about them. It may be the simple and less important things, but for those people who are really in love, every little thing about their loved

23、one does really matter to them.So, if your boyfriend doesnt remember the details about you, it means that you dont matter to him. To him, youre just another girl to fool around with.11. He doesnt see you in his futureThe clearest sign that your boyfriend only fools around with you is when you ask hi

24、m about what hes gonna do next. When he describes his plan, you cant see if youre in it. Seem like he doesnt see you somewhere in his future image.More Alert for GirlsThus, here are more alert for girls to identity signs he is player:1.He always talks about sex, and sex, and sex2.He is way too show

25、off to your friends3.He dont introduce you to his friends4.Ways too many secret5.He complains a lot6.He never texts or calls you at first7.He lies and more lies8.He just dont care about you9.Never talks about future10.He forgets your things11.His social media is too secured12.Sure, he has many list

26、of girls in the town13.His bad reputation on whispers on the street14.He dont share things to you15.Too may girls followers on his InstagramThose are Signs He is Player that you need know if your boyfriend is only taking advantages of you. He doesnt really want to be in your life nor want you to be

27、in his life. To him, youre just another girl that he can have fun with and then throw you when he finds another better girl. If you catch your boyfriend showing these signs, you should ask yourself is it worth it to keep your relationship. You have to be brave to take an action.Dont let yourself be fooled by a guy. Dont waste your time for the one who doesnt want to make time for you. Get yourself a person who will cherish you, care about you, accept your flaws, admire your kindness, and will fight for you. You deserve the love that comes from sincerity not just a temporary lust.