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Everytimethere'

sanotificationcomestohisphone,itcanbenewmessages,newchats,newe-mailsoranyotherstuff,andhe'

sunabletoreachhisphone,hedoesn'

taskforyourhelptocheckitout.He'

s 

inanotherroom,awayfromhisphone,thenbothofyouhearanotificationcomes,heknowsyou'

reclosertohisphone,buthedoesn'

t 

askyoutocheckit.It'

sclearthathedoesn'

tfeellikelettingyouknowwhohe'

sbeenkeepingintouchwith.He'

sprobablybeencommunicatingwithanotherpersonintensely.Ifthere'

snothingtokeepasecretabout,sowhydoesn'

theletyoucheckhisphonewhilehecan'

treachhisphone?

2.Hetakesyoutothesameoldspot

Anothersignthatmakesyoususpectthatyourboyfriendisaplayer,isthathetakesyoutothesameoldspottohangout.Hetakestoyoutothesamerestaurantlikethere'

snootherplacetochoose.It'

snotlikeit'

shisfavoriterestaurant,butitmaybebecausehetakessomebodyelsetoanotherrestaurant.It'

smorelikehekeepsasecretthathedoesn'

twantanyonetomakeyouknow.

Thesceneisprobablylikethis,hetakesyoutorestaurant#1,andhetakessomebodyelsetorestaurant#2.Peopleatthetwodifferentrestaurantswillnoticethatyourboyfriendonlytakesonegirl.But,thetruthisprobablyonegirlonerestaurant.Soundscreepytoyou?

Well,youneedtolookattheothersignstomakeitclearthatheisaplayer.Don'

tpanicyet,girls.

3.Hedoesn'

twarnyouofyourbadhabit

Everybodyhasabadhabit.Somepeoplearesomessy,theythrowanystuffeverywhereintheroom.Somepeoplehasabadtimemanagement,theyalwayscomelatetoanyevent.Youhaveabadhabitfornotputtingthedishesinthesink.Youleavetheminthetablecauseyou'

retoolazytowashthedishes.Yourboyfriendknowsthatbuthedoesn'

twarnyoutochangeyourhabit.Hedoesn'

tseemtothinkit'

sabadthingandhedoesn'

thavetheurgetoremindyoutobebetter.

Actually,itcanbeabadthingifyoukeepdoingyourbadhabit.Soonerorlateryouwillbeamother.Amotherhasabigresponsibilityofthehygieneofherhouse.Ifhedoesn'

twarnyouofyourbadhabitforyourgoodsake,therearechancesthathedoesn'

tthinkyoucanbetheoneinhisfuturelife.It'

sgettingclearerthatyou'

renottheonlyoneinhislife.

4.Hedoesn'

talwayscallyoufirst

Whenyoutwoareapart,it'

syouwhomakesacall.Heclaimsthathedoesn'

twanttobotheryou,soheletyoubethefirsttocall.Doesn'

titfeellikehedoesn'

twanttoknowhowyouareassoonaspossible?

Heonlywantstohaveacallwhenyoucallhimfirst.He'

snotthatexcitedtoknowhowyourdaywas.That'

sprobablyokayifitonlytakesafewtimes.But,whatifyoudon'

tcallfortoolong,andhestilldoesn'

tcallfirst?

He'

sprobablyhavinganotheronetocallfirst.

5.Hedoesn'

tcomplainwhenyou'

retoobusy

Youhaveplentythingstodothatmakesyoulackoftimetohangoutwithhim.You'

rebusydoingyourcollegeassignmentorrunningabusiness.He'

sokaywiththat,sayingthatyoushouldgoforsomethingthat'

simportantforyou.Itmaysoundgoodthathedoesn'

twanttolethimselfgetinyourway.But,themoreyouletyourselftoyouownbusiness,hedoesn'

tseemtofeellikeyou'

rewaytoobusy.Thismay 

improveyoursuspicionthatyourboyfriendhasanotherthing.Anotherthingoranotheronethatpullshisattentionwhenyou'

renotaround.

6.Hedoesn'

tletyoucometohisworkplace

Youtwoworkatdifferentplaces.It'

stimeforlunchandyouwanttohavealunchtogetherwithhim,soyouaskhimifyoucancometohisworkplace.Insteadoflettingyoucome,heasksyoutomeetatanotherplace.Hedoesn'

tletyoucometowhereheworks.Hedoesn'

tgivearelevantreasonwhy.Thisshouldmakeyoususpectsomethingweird.Whynotlettingyoucometohisworkplace?

Likethere'

ssomethingorsomeonehedoesn'

twantyoutomeet.Dowesmellanaffairhere?

Oursuspicionseemstogrowbigger.Beforewecanmakeaconclusion,weshouldchecktheothersigns.

7. 

Hedoesn'

tnoticewhenyouchangeyourappearances

Asagirl,youwanttolookthebest.Youcutyourhairordyethemwithdifferentcolors.Youwanttolookprettyinfrontofpeopleandlookprettiestinfrontofyourboyfriend.There'

satimethatyoucutyourhairalittleshorter.Thenyoumeetyourboyfriend,buthedoesn'

tnoticethatyougetahaircut.Thismightbelessimportant,butifhereallycaresaboutyou,heshouldknoweverysinglechangethathappenstoyou.

But,isn'

titgoodwhenaboyfriendnoticethechangeinhisgirlfriend'

sappearanceandcomplimentherabouthowshelooks?

Youwishyoucouldimpressyourboyfriendbecauseofyournewlook,butturnouthedoesn'

tnoticeituntilyoutellhim.Seemslikeyou'

relosingthechemistrybetweenyouandhim.Or,isitbecauseyou'

rejustanothergirlforhim?

8. 

Hestaysawaywhenhegetsacall

Whenyoutwoarehangingouttogethertohavelunch,goingtomovies,orgoingshopping,thenhegetsacall.Hedoesn'

tpickthatrightaway,butheneedsanexcusetomoveawaywhilepickingupthecall.Heevenhideshiswordsandhisexpressionwhilehespeaksonthephone.Thissignmustbethestrongestcluethathe'

sbeencommunicatingwithsomeonethathekeepsasecretfromyou.Ifthisdoesn'

tmakeyoususpecthimofhavinganotheraffair,youshouldaskyourself.Areyouandhiminarelationshiporafriendship?

It'

slikethere'

smoresecretbetweenthetwoofyouthanintheWhiteHouse.

9.Heoftengetsreasonsnottoseeyou

Youaskhimtocometoyourplace,andhesayshegotaworktodo.Attheotherday,youaskhimouttogotomovies,buthisfriendsneedhimforabusiness.Healwaysfindsreasons 

whyhecan'

tcometoseeyou.Ifithappensonce,thenitcanhappentwice.Healwaysfindsanotherreason,butthereasonsaregettingmoreirrelevanttimeaftertime.Youtwoaredating,butitfeelslikeyou'

renot.

tseemtoputyouonhispriority.Hedoesn'

ttrytomaketimewithyou.Andtheworseis,hedoesn'

tseemtomissyouwhenyoutwodon'

tmeet.Notseeingyouisn'

tamatterforhim.Thisisasignthattheremightbesomethingelsegothisattention.

10.Hedoesn'

trememberthedetailsaboutyou

Youandhimareinarelationship,buthebarelyknowssomedetailsaboutyou.Hedoesn'

trememberyourshoesize,yourbirthday,yourhighschoolnameandyourfavoritesingers.Apersonwhowantstohavesomeoneintheirlifemustknoweverydetailaboutthem.Itmaybethesimpleandlessimportantthings,butforthosepeoplewhoarereallyinlove,everylittlethingabouttheirlovedonedoesreallymattertothem.

So,ifyourboyfrienddoesn'

trememberthedetailsaboutyou,itmeansthatyoudon'

tmattertohim.Tohim,you'

rejustanothergirltofoolaroundwith.

11.Hedoesn'

tseeyouinhisfuture

Theclearestsignthatyourboyfriendonlyfoolsaroundwithyouiswhenyouaskhimaboutwhathe'

sgonnadonext.Whenhedescribeshisplan,youcan'

tseeifyou'

reinit.Seemlikehedoesn'

tseeyousomewhereinhisfutureimage.

MoreAlertforGirls

Thus,herearemorealertforgirlstoidentitysignsheisplayer:

1.Healwaystalksaboutsex,andsex,andsex

2.Heiswaytooshowofftoyourfriends

3.Hedon'

tintroduceyoutohisfriends

4.Waystoomanysecret

5.Hecomplainsalot

6.Henevertextsorcallsyouatfirst

7.Heliesandmorelies

8.Hejustdon'

tcareaboutyou

9.Nevertalksaboutfuture

10.Heforgetsyourthings

11.Hissocialmediaistoosecured

12.Sure,hehasmanylistofgirlsinthetown

13.Hisbadreputationonwhispersonthestreet

14.Hedon'

tsharethingstoyou

15.ToomaygirlsfollowersonhisInstagram

ThoseareSignsHeisPlayerthatyouneedknowifyourboyfriendisonlytakingadvantagesofyou.Hedoesn'

treallywanttobeinyourlifenorwantyoutobeinhislife.Tohim,you'

rejustanothergirlthathecanhavefunwithandthenthrowyouwhenhefindsanotherbettergirl.Ifyoucatchyourboyfriendshowingthesesigns,youshouldaskyourselfisitworthittokeepyourrelationship.Youhavetobebravetotakeanaction.

Don'

tletyourselfbefooledbyaguy.Don'

twasteyourtimefortheonewhodoesn'

twanttomaketimeforyou.Getyourselfapersonwhowillcherishyou,careaboutyou,acceptyourflaws,admireyourkindness,andwillfightforyou.Youdeservethelovethatcomesfromsinceritynotjustatemporarylust.