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3)InwhatwaysareGail'
sandherfather'
sviewsdifferent?
MarriageAcrosstheNations
GailandIimaginedaquietwedding.Duringourtwoyearstogetherwehadexperiencedtheusualupsanddownsofacouplelearningtoknow,understand,andrespecteachother.Butthroughitallwehadhonestlyconfrontedtheweaknessesandstrengthsofeachother'
scharacters.
Ourracialandculturaldifferencesenhancedourrelationshipandtaughtusagreatdealabouttolerance,compromise,andbeingopenwitheachother.GailsometimeswonderedwhyIandotherblacksweresoinvolvedwiththeracialissue,andIwassurprisedthatsheseemedtoforgetthesubtlerformsofracialhatredinAmericansociety.
GailandIhadno川usionsaboutwhatthefutureheldforusasamarried,mixedcoupleinAmerica.Thecontinualsourceofourstrengthwasourmutualtrustandrespect.
Wewantedtoavoidthemistakemadebymanycouplesofmarryingforthewrongreasons,andonlyfindingoutten,twenty,orthirtyyearslaterthattheywereincompatible,thattheyhardlytookthetimetoknoweachother,thattheyoverlookedseriouspersonalityconflictsintheexpectationthatmarriagewasanautomaticwaytomakeeverythingworkoutright.ThatpointwasemphasizedbythefactthatGail'
sparents,afterthirty-fiveyearsofmarriage,weregoingthroughabitterandpainfuldivorce,whichhaddestroyedGailandforatimehadanegativeeffectonourbuddingrelationship.
WhenGailspreadthenewsofourweddingplanstoherfamilyshemetwithsomeresistance.Hermother,Deborah,allalonghadbeensupportiveofourrelationship,andevenjokedaboutwhenweweregoingtogetmarriedsoshecouldhavegrandchildren.Insteadofcongratulationsuponhearingournews,DeborahcounseledGailtobereallysureshewasdoingtherightthing.
"
Soitwasallrightformetodatehim,butit'
swrongformetomarryhim.Ishiscolortheproblem,Mom?
Gailsubsequentlytoldmeshehadaskedhermother.
TostartwithImustadmitthatatfirstIharboredreservationsaboutamixedmarriage,prejudicesyoumightevencallthem.ButwhenImetMarkIfoundhimacharmingandintelligentyoungguy.Anymotherwouldbeproudtohavehimforason-in-law.So,colorhasnothingtodowithit.Yes,myfriendstalk.Someevenexpressshockatwhatyou'
redoing.Buttheyliveinadifferentworld.Soyousee,Mark'
scolorisnottheproblem.MybiggestworryisthatyoumaybemarryingMarkforthesamewrongreasonsthatImarriedyourfather.WhenwemetIsawhimasmybeloved,intelligent,charming,andcaring.Itwasallsonew,allsoexciting,andweboththought,onthesurfaceatleast,thatourswasanidealmarriagewitheveryindicationthatitwouldlastforever.IrealizedonlylaterthatIdidn'
tknowmybeloved,yourfather,verywellwhenwemarried."
ButMarkandIhavebeentogethermorethantwoyears,"
Gailrailed.
We'
vebeenthroughsomuchtogether.We'
veseeneachotheratourworstmanytimes.I'
msurethattimewillonlyconfirmwhatwefeeldeeplyabouteachother."
Youmayberight.ButIstillthinkthatwaitingwon'
thurt.You'
reonlytwenty-five."
Gail'
sfather,David,whomIhadnotyetmetpersonally,approachedourdecisionwithafather-knows-bestattitude.HebasicallyaskedthesamequestionsasGail'
smother:
"
Whythehaste?
WhoisthisMark?
What'
shiscitizenshipstatus?
AndwhenhelearnedofmyproblemswiththeCitizenshipdepartment,heimmediatelysuspectedthatIwasmarryinghisdaughterinordertoremainintheUnitedStates.
ButDad,that'
sharsh,"
Gailsaid.
Thenwhytherush?
Buytime,buytime,"
heremarkedrepeatedly.
Markhashadproblemswithcitizenshipbeforeandhasalwaystakencareofthemhimself,"
Gaildefended."
Infact,hemadeitveryclearwhenwewerediscussingmarriagethatifIhadanydoubtsaboutanything,Ishouldnothesitatetocancelourplans."
Herfatherproceededtoquotestatisticsshowingthatmixedcoupleshadhigherdivorceratesthancouplesofthesameraceandgaveexamplesofmixedcoupleshehadcounseledwhowerehavingmaritaldifficulties.
Haveyouthoughtaboutthehardshipsyourchildrenwouldgothrough?
heasked.
Dad,areyouaracist?
No,ofcoursenot.Butyouhavetoberealistic."
Maybeourchildrenwillhavesomeproblems,butwhosechildrendon'
t?
Butonethingthey'
llalwayshave:
ourloveanddevotion."
That'
sidealistic.Peoplecanbeverycrueltowardchildrenfrommixedmarriages."
Dad,we'
llworryaboutthatwhenthetimecomes.Ifwehadtoresolvealldoubtbeforeweacted,verylittlewouldevergetdone."
Remember,it'
snevertoolatetochangeyourmind."
新视野大学英语读写教程第二册课文unit4
1)HowmanyforeignhighschoolstudentstraveltostudyinAmericaeachyear?
2)WhataretheirreasonsforstudyinginAmerica?
3)WhataretheproblemstheforeignstudentsmustcopewithwhentheystudyinAmerica?
StudyingAbroad
Flight830.Departure10:
45p.m.
Atfirstglance,thisisjustanotherroutineflighttoLosAngeles,California.Yetfor38youngpassengersbetweenfifteenandeighteenyearsofage,itisthestartofanewexperience:
theywillspend10monthsoftheirlivesstudyingabroad,farfromtheirfamilies.
EveryyeartheUnitedStatesishosttoanaverageof78,000foreignhighschoollevelstudents,ofwhich3,000areBrazilian.Allofthemgoforthesamereasons—tobecomefluentinEnglish,completehighschool,andunderstandeverythingtheycanabouttheAmericanwayoflife.Attheendofeachsemester,aslongasthestudentspassfinalexams,Americanauthoritiesgrantacertificate,whichisrecognizedinBrazil.
Forthemajority,thedecisiontostudyabroadistakenonlyafteraperiodofatleastsixmonthsofcarefulplanning."
Forme,"
saysseventeen-year-oldGloriaMarcato,"
it'
smoreimportanttolearntospeakEnglishandtolivethroughthisexperiencethanitistoreceiveacertificatefromtheAmericangovernment."
Othersdreamofcontinuingontocollege."
Iwanttobeaconductor,andI'
vealreadychosenthebestAmericanmusicschool,"
specifiesSandroRodrigodeBarros.
Things,astheysay,arenotalwayssoeasy.EvenyoungstudentswhoplanonstayingintheUnitedStatesjustlongenoughtofinishtwosemestersofhighschoolhavedifficultyfindingahostfamily.Veryfewarriveinthecountrywithallthedetailsworkedout.GloriaMarcatoisoneoftheluckyones.Beforeleaving,shehadreceivedtwolettersandsomephotosofhernew"
parents."
Ithinkitalldepends,"
saysGloria,"
onhowyouanswerthesurveysentbytheoverseasstudycompanyhereinBrazil.Forexample,Ididn'
teconomizeonwords.Ievenwroteaboutmyfourdogs,andsaidIwenttochurcheverySunday."
Shehitthetarget.Americansarequitereligious(themajoritybeingChristian)andhaveaspecialplaceintheirheartsforpets.Americanfamilies,whichhostforeignstudents,arenotpaid,thoughtheyareallowedasmallincometaxdeduction.
Eachteenagerisexpectedtocoverhisorherownexpensesforarticlesforpersonaluse,entertainment,long-distancetelephonecallsandclothing.Towardsthis,theyshouldbudgetbetween$200to$300amonth.Intheeventofillness,eachstudenthasamedicalassistancecard.HealthinsurancedoesnotcoverAIDS,abortionandsuicide,nordentalandeyesightbills.
Basically,moststudentsleaveknowingtheywillhavetodowithouttheiraccustomedparentalprotectionandlearntotakecareofthemselves.However,noonepackshisorherbagsalone.Parentsalwaysgivesuggestions,oreventakeonthetaskthemselves.Theyoungstersfrequentlyshowtheirlackofpracticeatsuchthings.Theytakealongunnecessaryitems.OnestudentfromtheBrazilianSouthsucceededinstuffingtwoenormoussuitcasestotheircapacity,andhadtocopewithhercabinluggageaswell.Asaresult,shecouldn'
tpullthemaroundbyherself.
Formany,thedepartureattheairportistheworsttime.Eventhoughfriendsandfamilysupporttheideaofgoing,itisdifficulttosaygood-byeatthismoment."
It'
snoteasytoleavebehindthepeopleyoulove,especiallyaboyfriend.IcriedatthedepartureandIcriedontheplanetoo,"
saysPatriciaCaglian.
AnothermomentoftensiondescendswhilestudentsawaitthedomesticflightthatwilltakethemtotheirtemporaryhomeinAmerica.Fromthenonit'
severyoneforhimself.Noonereallyknowshowshe/hewilladapttosuchnewcustoms.ThoughmostforeignstudentsremaininCalifornia,somearesenttoTexas,Arizona,Idaho,OklahomaorVirginia.
Afterafewdays,thegeneralcomplaintisaboutthefood."
EventhoughIadaptedeasily,Ireallymissriceandbeans.Thefoodheredoesn'
tlooktoonourishing,"
pinesFernandoAndrade.Anotherbigproblemencounteredbymostyoungstersishowsicktheyfeelaboutbeingawayfromhome.
Oneimportantregulationoftheforeignstudyprogramhastodowiththetime,establishedbythehost"
parents"
bywhichtheteenagersmustarrivehomeonweekendnights."
They'
rereallytough,"
saysJulianaMartini,whojustfinishedherfirstsemester."
Youhavetobeinby10:
30p.m.,andifyoudonotobey,yougetpunishe