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PERSONALITYDEVELOPMENT

PERSONALITYDEVELOPMENT

1.KNOWYOURSELF

2.APOSITIVESELFIMAGE

3.AIMINGATEXCELLENCE

4.IMPROVINGYOURMEMORY

5.IMPROVINGYOURMEMORYFURTHUR

6.YOUCANMAKETHEDIFFERENCE

WHATISPERSONALITY?

Personalitycanbeusedasauniversaltermthatencompassesallthepsychological,intellectual,emotional,andphysicalcharacteristicsofanindividual,especiallyastheyarepresentedtootherpeople.

Wesaythatsomeonehasa"bigpersonality"or"nopersonality",ora"sportspersonality".Personalityisreflectedinourbehaviour.Whenweactoutofcharacterweoftensay"Itjustwasn'tlikeme…","Iwasn'tmyself".Thisreflectsakeypointaboutyourpersonality-it'sarelativelystableandpermanentaspectofyouasaperson.Youmayhavemoodswings,beupordownaccordingtospecificcircumstances.But,yourbasicpersonalityunderliesthesechanges.

Personalityprofiles

The5maindimensionsofpersonality

Itisgenerallyrecognisedthatpersonalitycanbedescribedbyreferenceto5keydimensionsorglobalfactors.Mostofusliesomewherebetweenthetwoextremesforeachglobalfactorlistedbelow.

1.Extrovertion（ExtroversionvIntroversion）

Extrovertsareoutgoing,warmindividualswhoenjoycompany.Theyarelively,fun-lovingandareoftenquiteopenaboutthemselves.Theyaregroup-orientedpeoplewhonaturallyjoininwithothers.Anintrovertissomeonewhoisself-sufficientandprefershisorherowncompany.Introvertsaregenerallycareful,seriousandself-reliant.

2.Anxiety（AnxiousvConfident）

Anxiouspeopleworryalotandareoftentense.Theyarealsoimpatientpeoplewithalotofnervousenergy.Theycanalsobeveryshrewdandhardtofool.Ontheotherhand,theconfidentpersoniscalminthefaceofadversity,meetschallengeseasily,andexudesself-assurance.Ahighdegreeofstabilityisalsoaccompaniedbyaresilient,evenplacidmanner,whichcansometimesbetootrustingandrelaxed.

3.Tough-mindedness（ObjectivevSubjective）

Tough-mindedpeopleareunsentimentalandlookatthingsobjectively.Theoppositeisthetender-mindedpersonwhoismoresubjectiveandwillingtoexperiment.

4.Independence（AssertivevCo-operative）

Independenceischaracterisedbyadominant,forcefulpersonwhoiscompetitive.Thismeanstheycanalsoberatherinsensitivetootherpeople.Co-operativepeopleareagreeable,preferringtoavoidconflict.Theyareoftendescribedasshy.

5.Control（ConscientiousvFlexible）

Theconscientiouspersonisself-controlledanddutiful.Theyarelikelytobetidy,organisedandhaveacommonsense,practicalapproachtoproblemsolving.Theyarealsopersevering,somemightsaystubborn.Theirfriendsandworkcolleaguesmaydescribethemasaperfectionist.Attheoppositeend,theflexiblepersonalitycantolerateuntidiness,mayignoreprotocolandfollowsanexpedient,oftenimaginativeapproachtosolvingproblems.

Veryfewpeoplewillexhibittheextremesdescribedabove.Mostofushaveabalancebetweentheseaspectsandwouldbepositionedsomewhereinbetweenthetwoopposingpoles.

KNOWYOURSELF

Thefirststeptowardsdevelopingyourgrowingyoupersonalityisknowingyourself.

Nopersonisthesameasanotherinthisworld.Eachpersonisuniqueinhisownsense.

Soyouareuniqueandalsoamazing.Wonderwhy?

Areyouawarethatyouhaveover12billionbraincellswhichcouldlooklikestarsunderamicroscope?

Yourbrainisthefinestprecisionmachineinexistenceandisfarmorepowerfulthanthemostsophisticatedcomputerevermade.Yetweusejustone-tenthofourbrainpower.Areyoualsoawarethatyourmetabolicsystemworkswithsuchclockworkprecisionthateventhemostadvancedfactorysystemcannotcomparewithit?

Youwillmarvelatthedesignofthehumanbody

Inspiteofthisgreatness,manysufferfromapoorself-imageandaninferioritycomplexthathamperstheirpersonalgrowthandpreventsthemfromputtingbesteffortsintheirspheresofactivity.Godhasmadeeachofusamasterpieceofhiscreationinspiteofallourimperfections.Whileinthisagewetalkaboutstate-of–arttechnology,Godthoughtofitwhenhecreatedeachofus.Sowehaveeveryreasontofeelgreatandtoachievegreatthingsforourselves,forothersandforGod.

APOSITIVESELFIMAGE

Ourself-imageisthecompleximpressionwehaveaboutourphysicalappearance,socialrules,personalhistoryandpersonalitytraits;anditmattersalot.Theimagewehaveofourselvesisanimportantfactorinthedevelopmentofourskillsandourpersonality,inthemaintenanceofouremotionalhealthandinthesheerenjoymentoflife!

Thosewithanegativeself-imagetendto:

-Lackself-confidence.

-Feelinsecure,scepticalandfearful.

-Acceptbeingignored,hurtandrebuffed.

-Havenoprideintheirachievements.

-Feelembarrassedbycompliments.

Thosewith