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tacceptthis."
Thestrangerreplied"
Youdon'
thaveachoice,"
closedthedoorandleft.
Obviouslythatexperiencehadaprofoundimpactonmylife.IpromisedmyselfthatsomedayIwoulddowellenoughfinanciallysothatIcoulddothesamethingforotherpeople.BythetimeIwaseighteenIhadcreatedmyThanksgivingritual.Iliketodothingsspontaneously,soIwouldgooutshoppingandbuyenoughfoodforoneortwofamilies.ThenIwoulddresslikeadeliveryboy,gotothepoorestneighborhoodandjustknockonadoor.IalwaysincludedanotethatexplainedmyThanksgivingexperienceasakid.Thenoteconcluded,"
AllthatIaskinreturnisthatyoutakegoodenoughcareofyourselfsothatsomedayyoucandothesamethingforsomeoneelse."
IhavereceivedmorefromthisannualritualthanIhavefromanyamountofmoneyI'
veeverearned.
SeveralyearsagoIwasinNewYorkCitywithmynewwifeduringThanksgiving.Shewassadbecausewewerenotwithourfamily.NormallyshewouldbehomedecoratingthehouseforChristmas,butwewerestuckhereinahotelroom.
Isaid,"
Honey,look,whydon'
twedecoratesomelivestodayinsteadofsomeoldtrees?
WhenItoldherwhatIalwaysdoonThanksgiving,shegotexcited.Isaid,"
Let'
sgosomeplacewherewecanreallyappreciatewhoweare,whatwearecapableofandwhatwecanreallygive.Let'
sgotoHarlem!
Sheandseveralofmybusinesspartnerswhowerewithusweren'
treallyenthusiasticabouttheidea.Iurgedthem:
"
C'
mon,let'
sgotoHarlemandfeedsomepeopleinneed.Wewon'
tbethepeoplewhoaregivingitbecausethatwouldbeinsulting.We'
lljustbethedeliverypeople.We'
llgobuyenoughfoodforsixorsevenfamiliesforthirtydays.We'
vegotenough.Let'
sjustgodoit!
That'
swhatThanksgivingreallyis:
Givinggoodthanks,noteatingturkey.C'
mon.Let'
sgodoit!
BecauseIhadtodoaradiointerviewfirst,Iaskedmypartnerstogetusstartedbygettingavan.WhenIreturnedfromtheinterview,theysaid,"
Wejustcan'
tdoit.TherearenovansinallofNewYork.Therent-a-carplacesarealloutofvans.They'
rejustnotavailable."
Look,thebottomlineisthatifwewantsomething,wecanmakeithappen!
Allwehavetodoistakeaction.ThereareplentyofvanshereinNewYorkCity.Wejustdon'
thaveone.Let'
sgogetone."
Theyinsisted,"
We'
vecalledeverywhere.Therearen'
tany."
Lookdownatthestreet.Lookdownthere.Doyouseeallthosevans?
Theysaid,"
Yeah,weseethem."
sgogetone,"
Isaid.FirstItriedwalkingoutinfrontofvansastheyweredrivingdownthestreet.IlearnedsomethingaboutNewYorkdriversthatday:
Theydon'
tstop;
theyspeedup.
Thenwetriedwaitingbythelight.We'
dgooverandknockonthewindowandthedriverwouldrollitdown,lookingatuskindofleery,andI'
dsay,"
Hi.SincetodayisThanksgiving,we'
dliketoknowifyouwouldbewillingtodriveustoHarlemsowecanfeedsomepeople."
Everytimethedriverwouldlookawayquickly,furiouslyrollupthewindowandpullawaywithoutsayinganything.
Eventuallywegotbetteratasking.We'
dknockonthewindow,they'
drollitdownandwe'
TodayisThanksgiving.We'
dliketohelpsomeunderprivilegedpeople,andwe'
recuriousifyou'
dbewillingtodriveustoanunderprivilegedareathatwehaveinmindhereinNewYorkCity."
Thatseemedslightlymoreeffectivebutstilldidn'
twork.Thenwestartedofferingpeople$100todriveus.Thatgotusevencloser,butwhenwetolthemtotakeustoHarlem,theysaidnoanddroveoff.
Wehadtalkedtoabouttwodozenpeoplewhoallsaidno.Mypartnerswerereadytogiveupontheproject,butIsaid,"
It'
sthelawofaverages:
Somebodyisgoingtosayyes."
Sureenough,theperfectvandroveup.Itwasperfectbecauseitwasextrabigandwouldaccommodateallofus.Wewentup,knockedonthewindowandweaskedthedriver,"
Couldyoutakeustoadisadvantagedarea?
We'
llpayyouahundreddollars."
Thedriversaid,"
thavetopayme.I'
dbehappytotakeyou.Infact,I'
lltakeyoutosomeofthemostdifficultspotsinthewholecity."
Thenhereachedoverontheseatandgrabbedhishat.Asheputiton,Inoticedthatitsaid,"
SalvationArmy."
Theman'
snamewasCaptainJohnRondonandhewastheheadoftheSalvationArmyintheSouthBronx.
Weclimbedintothevaninabsoluteecstasy.Hesaid,"
lltakeyouplacesyounevereventhoughtofgoing.Buttellmesomething.Whydoyoupeoplewanttodothis?
ItoldhimmystoryandthatIwantedtoshowgratitudeforallthatIhadbygivingsomethingback.
CaptainRondontookusintopartsoftheSouthBronxthatmakeHarlemlooklikeBeverlyHills.Whenwearrived,wewentintoastorewhereweboughtalotoffoodandsomebaskets.Wepackedenoughforsevenfamiliesforthirtydays.Thenwewentouttostartfeedingpeople.Wewenttobuildingswheretherewerehalfadozenpeoplelivinginoneroom:
squatters"
withnoelectricityandnoheatinthedeadofwintersurroundedbyrats,cockroachesandthesmellofurine.Itwasbothanastonishingrealizationthatpeoplelivedthiswayandatrulyfulfillingexperiencetomakeevenasmalldifference.
Yousee,youcanmakeanythinghappenifyoucommittoitandtakeaction.Miracleslikethishappeneveryday-eveninacitywhere"
therearenovans."
AnthonyRobbins
ThereAreNoVans.ReprintedbypermissionofAnthonyRobbins
TheBaggyYellowShirt
byPatriciaLorenz
Thebaggyyellowshirthadlongsleeves,fourextralargepocketstrimmedinblackthreadandsnapsupthefront.Notterriblyattractive,bututilitarianwithoutadoubt.IfounditinDecember1963duringmyfreshmanyearincollegewhenIwashomeonChristmasbreak.
PartofthefunofvacationathomewasthechancetogothroughMom'
shoardofrummage,destinedforthelessfortunate.Sheregularlyscouredthehouseforclothes,beddingandhousewarestogiveaway,andthecollectionwasalwaysstoredinpaperbagsonthefloorofthefronthallcloset.
LookingthroughMom'
scollectiononeday,Icameacrossthisoversizedyellowshirt,slightlyfadedfromyearsofwearbutstillindecentshape.
Justthethingtowearovermyclothesduringartclass!
Isaidtomyself.
You'
renottakingthatoldthing,areyou?
Momsaidwhenshesawmepackingit."
IworethatwhenIwaspregnantwithyourbrotherin1954!
sperfectforartclass,Mom.Thanks!
Islippeditintomysuitcasebeforeshecouldobject.
Theyellowshirtbecameapartofmycollegewardrobe.Ilovedit.Allduringcollege,itstayedwithme,alwayscomfortabletothrowovermyclothesduringmessyprojects.TheunderarmseamshadtobereinforcedbeforeIgraduated,buttherewasplentyofwearinthatoldgarment.
AftergraduationImovedtoDenverandworetheshirtthedayImovedintomyapartment.ThenIworeitonSaturdaymorningswhenIcleaned.Thosefourlargepocketsonthefront-twobreastpocketsandtwoathiplevel-madeasuperplacetocarrydustcloths,waxandpolish.
Thenextyear,Imarried.WhenIbecamepregnant,Ifoundtheyellowshirttuckedinadrawerandworeitduringthosebig?
bellydays.ThoughImissedsharingmyfirstpregnancywithMomandDadandtherestofmyfamily,sincewewereinColoradoandtheywereinIllinois,thatshirthelpedremindmeoftheirwarmthandprotection.IsmiledandhuggedtheshirtwhenIrememberedthatMotherhadwornitwhenshewaspregnant.
By1969,aftermydaughter'
sbirth,theshirtwasatleast1yearsold.ThatChristmas,Ipatchedoneelbow,washedandpressedtheshirt,wrappeditinholidaypaperandsentittoMom.Smiling,Ituckedanoteinoneofthepocketssaying:
Ihopethisfits.I'
msureitwilllookgreatonyou!
WhenMomwrotetothankmeforher"
real"
gifts,shesaidtheyellowshirtwaslovely.Shenevermentioneditagain.
Thenextyear,myhusband,daughterandImovedfromDenvertoSt.LouisandwestoppedatMomandDad'
shouseinRockFalls,Illinois,topickupsomefurniture.Dayslater,whenweuncratedthekitchentable,Inoticedsomethingyellowtapedtoitsbottom.Theshirt!
Andsothepatternwasset.
Onournextvisithome,IsecretlyplacedtheshirtbetweenthemattressandboxspringsofMomandDad'
sbed.Idon'
tknowhowlongittookhertofindit,butalmosttwoyearspassedbeforeIgotitback.
Bythenourfamilyhadgrown.
ThistimeMomgotevenwithme.Sheputitunderthebaseofourliving?
roomlamp,knowingthatasamotherofthreelittleones,housecleaningandmovinglampswouldnotbeeverydayevents...~.
WhenIfinallygottheshirt,Iworeitoftenwhilerefinishing"
earlymarriage"
furniturethatIfoundatrummagesales.Thewalnutstainsontheshirtsimplyaddedmorecharactertoallitshistory.
Unfortunately,ourliveswerefullofstains,too.
Mymarriagehadbeenfailingalmostfromthebeginning.Afteranumberofattemptsatmarriagecounseling,myhusbandandIdivorcedin1975.ThethreechildrenandIpreparedtomovebacktoIllinoistobeclosertotheemotionalsupportoffamilyandfriends.
AsIpacked,adeepdepressionovertookme.IrwonderedifIcouldmakeitonmyownwiththreesmallchildrentoraise.IwonderedifIwouldfindajob.AlthoughIhadn'
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