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Well,I’mfine,justleavemealone.
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Comeon.Don’tbesilly,wecan’tdothat.What’sgoingon?
Ijusthadaphonecallwithmyfather.Wequarreled.Hey,isn’tfatherlylovejustlikethis:
yougetagoodmark,andhewouldadmireyou,loveyou.Butifyoudidsomethingwrong,theneverythingchanges.
Howaboutyourmother,whatdidshesay?
Idon’tknow,mymotherdoesn’tcaremuchaboutmystudy.She’salwaysthatlovely,caringaboutmylifeissues.
Well,that’sthedifferencebetweenmotherlyloveandfatherlylove.Itseemsthatmotherlyloveisunconditional,butfatherlyloveiftheopposite.Iloveyoubecauseyoudoyourduty,becauseyouarelikeme.Mydadalwaysasksmenottodothis,nottodothat.Orsomething’sgood,something’sbad.Henevercareaboutmyfeelings.ItseemsthatI’mjustanaccessoryofhim.
Yeah,Ithinkmotherlyloveisunconditional,mymotheristhoughtful,shealwaysgiveshelpwhenIneed.Besides,sheforgivesthemistakesImade,what’smore,shealwaystellsmetodoeverythinginmyownright.Butmyfatherisstricttome,hehelpsmesetgoalsonebyone.AfterIachievethesegoals,hewillgivemeprices,soIthinkfatherlyloveisconditionallove.
So,don’tbesad,everythingwillbejustfine..
Well,IthinkmaybeIshouldtalkwithmyfatheragain.
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Andthat’stheendofthestory,wecanseethatmotherlyloveislikewater,softandkind,takingcareofourdailylife.Andfatherlove,justlikemountain,isdeepandcannotbeenseeneasily.Butifyoueverneedanyhelp,hewillbetheonewho’salwaystheresupportingyou.That’sthedifferencebetweenmotherlyloveandfatherlove.
2.Doyouagreethatmenandwomencannotcommunicatewitheachother?
Giveyourreasons.
OhIcan’tbarethisanylonger!
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What’swrong?
Myparentsquarreled.Again!
Whycan’tmenandwomencommunicatewitheachother?
Itseemsthatwomenonlycareaboutthetinystuffwhichmenwillneverpayattention.Todaywhenmymotherwastellingmyfatheraboutthenewclothesshebought,hewasthinkingabouttheNBAgames.Thenmymothercomplainedthatdaddon’tcareaboutheranddon’tloveheranymore.Sotheyjustquarreled.Oh,I’mjustfedupwiththem.
Idon’tagreethatmenandwomencan’tcommunicatewitheachother.Asweallknow,menandwomenaredifferentnotonlyinbodyfeaturebutalsocharacterinside.Whenmenandwomencommunicatewitheachother,theycanlearnsomethingfromdifferentsexualdistinction.Forexample,menarebrave,strong,responsible.Womenarepatient,acceptance,thesequalitiesareimportanttooursuccess,butallthesequalitiescan’tlearnfromthesamesexualdistinction.SoIdon’tagreethatmenandwomencan’tcommunicatewitheachother.
Yeahit’sridiculousthatmenandwomencan’tcommunicatewitheachother.First,weliveinthesamelanguage—Chinese.Ofcoursewecancommunicatewitheachother.Nowintheschool,therearewomenteachersandboystudents.Iftheycan’tcommunicate,howcantheboygettheknowledgefromtheteacher?
Maybesometimesmenandwomenmisunderstoodeachother,but,it’snotabigproblem.
AsfarasI’mconcerned,mencancommunicatewithwomen.Ihavethreereasons.First,therearevariousofcouplesintheworld.Theylivetogetherandhavegoodrelationships.Iftheycan’tcommunicatewitheachother,theywillbreakup.Second,moreandmorewomenwentoutforworks.Somenandwomenhavemorechancestocommunicate.Andtheyalwayscancommunicatewell.Thelastbutnottheleast,boysandgirlsstudyatschooltogether,theycangetalongwelleachotherandhaveagoodcommunication.
Soinmyopinion,menandwomencancommunicatewitheachother.
Allright,maybeyou’reright.Ishouldgoandpersuadethem.Thankyou!
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That’sOK.
3.Tellyourexperienceofbeingmisunderstoodanddiscusshoetoavoidmisunderstanding.
Soguys,it’stimeforchannel314again!
Todaywe’regoingtotalkaboutmisunderstandings.Misunderstandingscanoccurinourdailylifeandnobodycanavoidthem.Buttheremustbesomewaystosolvetheproblems.Wehaveinvitedthreepersontotellustheirexperiencesofbeingmisunderstood.Andfirstofall,Lucy.
WhenIstudyatmiddleschool,myschoolgiveseverystudentacardforeating,butIseldomuseit.Onenightathiefstolemanythingsfromthedormitoryandmycardwasoneofthem.Becausethere’slittlemoneyinit,soIthinknothingaboutit.Tomysurprise,agirlcametoourclassroomnextdaytoaskmetopaybackallthingswhichwerestoled.Becausemycardwasinherbagwhenshewakedupandmycardwasn’tlocked.SosheinsistedtosayIstealherthings.Ispentmuchtimetosolvethethings.FromthisthingIknowwhenwelostthingswemusttelltherelatedsectionintime.
Andyou?
Ann?
OnceItoldmyfatherthatnooneinschoolcantalkwithme.Hesaidyoucantalkwiththemfirst.Unfortunately,hemisunderstoodme.WhatImeanisthatIcan’topenmyfloodgatestothem,buthethinkIcan’tcommunicatewiththem.Ithinkthebestwaytoavoidmisunderstandingisthatourwomenshouldsaythingsclearly,don’ttendtoexaggerate.Andmenshouldrethinkortranslatewhattheyhaveheard,trytoreallyunderstandwomen’scomplaint.Inthatway,menwouldarguelessandbeabletorespondmorepositively.Sotheywillavoidmisunderstandings.
Sotoavoidmisunderstandingsweshouldsaythingsclearlyandrethinkaboutourwords.Remembertostandatothers’pointandthinklikethem,itwillhelpyouunderstandthemmore.Ifwepayenoughattentiontothesethings,we’llbeablebecommunicateeasier.
Thankyou!
4.Whataccountsforwinningandlosing?
Helloeveryone!
Welcometowatchchannel314.Todaywe’regoingtotalkaboutwinningandlosing.Everyonewantstobeawinneranddoesn’twanttobealoser.Sowhataccountsforwinningandlosing?
We’veinvitedthreepersonstotellustheirunderstandings.Andfirst,Lucy.
Ithinkthereasonwhypeoplewinningisthatpeoplehavepreciousqualities,foeexample,gemciness.Itcanmakepeopleworktogether.Besides,awinneristhepersonwhoeveninthefaceofnationalandinternationaldifficulty,hedoesseehimselfashelpless.Hecan’tdoanythingtodamagetheenvironmentandheisheldbackbyhislowcapacitytoexpresshimself.
Therearemanycompetitionsintheworld.Soeveryonehaschancetobecomeawinneroraloser.Buttherestillbesomequalitiesthatneedstobeawinner.First,awinnerisnotafraidtodohisownthinkingandtousehisownknowledge.Helistenstoothers,evaluateswhattheysay,andcomestohisownconclusion.Second,awinnerisflexible,withoutguiltyheenjoyhisownaccomplishments.Withoutenvyheenjoystheaccomplishmentsofothers.Thelast,awinnerdoeswhathecantomaketheworldabetterplace.Onthecontrary,alosertriestomanipulateotherslivinguptohisexpectationsandchannelshisenergiesintolivinguptotheirexpectations.
Winnersarealwaysfullofconfidence.Ithinkit’sanimportantthingforthemtobesuccessful.Whateverbadsituationtheyarein,theybelievethatIhavethecapacityadIcanmakeit.What’smore,theycanchannelthemselvesintowhattheyconcern.Oncetheysettheirgoal,theywillnevergiveup.Ithinkalltheseabovemakeapersonsucceed.Onthecontrary,loserslacktheseimportantthings,sotheyfailed.
Sowecandrawaconclusionthatawinnermustbeconfident,hardworking,flexibleandhavethewilltoachievehisgoals.Onceyouhavemadeupyourmind,keepgoing,andtheresultwillturnouttobewonderful.
Thankyou!
5.What’syourunderstandingoftheidiom——BetterLateThanNever?
Isthereanyotherexampleinthedailylifethatmaysupportit?
Hey,couldyoudomeafavor?
Sure,what’sthematter?
Ihavejustreadtheidiombetterlatethannever,butIcan’tfullygetit.Canyouexplainittome?
Oh,IthinkitmeanssomedayIhaveclasses,butIhavesomethingimportantmakemelatetogototheclasses.Atthismoment,anideathatwhetherIgototheclassestroubleme.Afterthinkingtwice,Idecidedtohavetheclasses,becausemyattitudetowardsthisthingcanbeenseen.Asweallknow,betterlatethannever.Besides,it’sawaytoshowmyrespecttotheteacher.What’smore,Icanlearnsomethingwhichmaybeimportanttomeinthelongrun.
Ithinkyourexampleisnotquiteproperly.Here’smine.Inmyhighschool,there’saboywhonevertakestudyseriouslyandalwaysskippedtheclasses.Asaresult,hedidpoorintheexam.Thenourteachertalkedwithhimforalongtime.Luckily,herealizedthatheshouldnotbesoconfusedandshoulddosomethingforhisfuture.Afterthat,hebecameahardworkingperson.Ofcourse,alleffortswillpayoffeventually.Whenhewasadmittedtoagooduniversity,hesaidhappily:
”I’msohappywithwhatIhaddone,it’snotlate.”
Ithinkyou’vegotthepoint.WhenIwasinthemiddleschool,onceIquarreledwithoneofmybestfriendsduetosomesillymisunderstandings.Wedidn’ttalkwitheachotherfordaysandregardedeachotherasstrangers.Weallthoughtthatit’snotmyfault,Iwon’tapologize.Butafterafewdays,Ican’tbearthesilenceanymore,soIjustwenttohertoexpressmyfeelings,webothrealizethemistake.It’snotlate,sowearestillgoodfriendsnow.
OhIthinkIfullyunderstanditsmeaningnow.whenIwasyoung,Ialwaysquarreledwit