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（2）Topic:

qualityoflove

People’searlyintimaterelationshipswithintheirfamilyoforiginaresocritical.

（3）Topic:

self-love

Loveforoneself,orself-love,isalsoessentialforoursocialandemotionaldevelopment.

（4）Topic:

loveishardtodefine

Loveisanelusiveconcept.Lovehasbeenasourceofinspiration,wrywitticisms,andevenpoliticalactionformanycenturies.

（5）Topic:

Lovehasmanydimensions.

Lovedefiesasingledefinitionbecauseitvariesindegreeandintensityandacrosssocialcontexts.

（6）Topic:

respect

Althoughlovemayinvolvepassionateyearning,respectisamoreimportantquality.

（7）Topic:

long-termlove

“real”loveisclosertowhatoneauthorcalled“stirring-the-oatmeallove.

（8）Topic:

whichlovetochoose

（9）Topic:

firstattractive

Culturalnormsandvalues,notfate,bringpeopletogether.

（10）Topic:

limitromanticlove

Beginninginchildhood,parentsencourageorlimitfutureromanticliaisonsbyselectingcertainneighborhoodsandschools.

（11）Topic:

desire

Mainidea：

Desireisanessentialingredientforinitiatingandmaintainingromanticlove.Ifdesiredisappears,apersonisnolongersaidtobeinastateofromantic.

（12）Topic:

conclusion

Inaddition,therearesomenotabledifferencesbetweenlove-especiallylong-termlove-andromanticlove.

结构：

总分总的格式

Whatislove

qualityoflove

self-love

theconseptoflove

lovehasmanydimensions

theimportanceofrespect

long-termlove

firstattractive

transition

romanticlove

conclusion

Desire

3.WhatisParaphrase?

Howtoparaphraseasentence?

Pleaseparaphrasethefollowingsentencesandshowyourclassmateshowyouparaphrasedthem.

1）Babiesandchildrendeprivedoflovehaveknowntodevelopawidevarietyofproblem—forexample,depression,headaches,physiologicalimpairments,andneuroticandpsychosomaticdifficulties—thatsometimeslastalifetime.（Para.1）

Varietyproblemslikedepression,headaches,physiologicalimpairments,andneuroticandpsychosomaticdifficultieswerehappentobabiesandchildrenwhodeprivedloveandtheymaylastlongtime.

2）Childrenwhoareraisedinimpersonalenvironments（orphanages,somefosterhomes,orunlovingfamilies）showemotionalandsocialunderdevelopment,languageandmotorskillsretardation,andmentalhealthproblems.（Para.2）

Childrenshowemotionalandsocialunderdevelopment,languageandmotorskillsretardation,andmentalhealthproblemsbecausetheygrowinimpersonalenvironmentlikeorphanages,somefosterhomes,orunlovingfamilies.

3）Itisforthesereasonsthatpeople'

searlyintimaterelationshipswithintheirfamilyoforiginaresocritical（Para.2）.

Itiscriticalforpeople'

searlyintimaterelationshipswithintheirfamilyoforigin.

4）Amongotherthings,peoplewholikethemselvesaremoreopentocriticismandlessdemandingofothers.（Para.3）

Ontheotherhand,self-lovepeoplearemoreopentocriticismandlessdemandingofothers.

5）Lovehasbeenasourceofinspiration,wrywitticisms,andevenpoliticalactionformanycenturies.

Thesourceofloveisinspiration,wrywitticisms,andevenpoliticalactionformanycenturies.

6）Manyresearchersfeelthatlovedefiesasingledefinitionbecauseitvariesindegreeandintensityandacrosssocialcontexts.（para.5）

Duetolovevariesindegreeandintensityandacrosssocialcontexts,somanyresearcherscan’tmakeasingledefinition.

7）Love,especiallylong-termlive,hasnothingincommonwiththeimagesofloveorfrenziedsexthatwegetfromHollywood,television,andromancenovels.（Para.7）.

Long-termloveisdifferencetowhatHollywood,television,andromancenovelsdescribestheimagesofloveorfrenziedsex.

8）Somepartnerstaketurnsstirringtheoatmeal.Otherpeopleseekrelationshipsthatoffercandlelitgourmetmealsinaromanticsetting.（Para.8）

SomepartnerstaketurnsstirringtheoatmealwhereasOtherpeopleseekrelationshipsthatoffercandlelitgourmetmealsinaromanticsetting.

9）Manypeoplebelievethat“thereisonepersonouttherethatoneismeantfor”andthatdestinywillbringthemtogether.（para.9）

Manypeoplebelievethatthereisadestinypersonwaitingforyou.

10）Empiricalstudiesshowthatculturalnormsandvalues,notfate,bringpeopletogether.Wewillnevermeetmillionsofpotentialloversbecausetheyare“filteredout”byformalorinformalrulesonpartnereligibilityduetofactorssuchasage,race,distance,socialclass,religion,sexualorientation,health,orphysicalappearance.（Para.9）

Culturalnormsandvaluesbringpeopletogetherbutnotfate.Formalorinformalrulessuchasage,race,distance,socialclass,religion,sexualorientation,health,orphysicalappearancemakeustomissage,race,distance,socialclass,religion,sexualorientation,health,orphysicalappearancemakeustomissmillionsofpotentiallovers.

11）Inearlyadolescence,peernormsinfluencetheadolescent’sdecisionsaboutacceptableromanticinvolvements.（para.10）

Theteenagerswillinfluencebytheircompanion’snormsinvolvewhichromanticcouldbeaccepted.

12）Oncedesirediminishes,disappointedloversmaywonderwherethe"

spark"

intheirrelationshiphasgoneandmayreminisceregretfullyabout"

thegoodolddays”.（para.11）

Theymayreminisceregretfullyabout"

thegoodolddays”afterthedesirediminishes.

4.Whatisromanticloveandwhatislong-termlove?

Whatisthedifferencebetweenthem?

Howtomaintainlong-termlove?

Inmyopinion,theromanticloveisveryhappyandnice.Withtheromanticlove,wearealwayshavingCandlelightdinnersandwatchingmoves.Thelong-termloveiswarmandsimple.Thedifferencebetweenromanticloveandlong-termlovemayhavealots,butIthinkthemostimportantisrelationship.

Peoplesayitisdifficulttomaintainlong-termloverelationshipnowadays.Idonotagreewiththat.Ifwewanttomaintainlong-termloverelationship,thefirst,weshouldShareourpersonallifegoalswithourpartners.Whatdoyouwantoutofyourlife?

Wheredoyouwanttobeintenyears?

Whatkindofacareerdoyouenvisionforyourself?

Thesekindsofthingscangetinthewayoflong-termrelationships,orcanatleastmakeourcompatibilitywithsomeonemorechallenging.Thesecond,trygoingonatriptogether.Onegood,quickwaytofindoutwhetherornotyourrelationshiphasthepotentialtosucceedisingoingonatriptogether.Tripscanbestressful,andwillforceyoutospendlotsoftimetogetheratonce,soitcanbeanicewaytoseewhetherornotyourrelationshipwillstanduptothestressofit.Thelastbutnottheleast,weshouldrespectandloveeachotherfamiliesandfriends.

Besurethatyou'

rewithsomeoneyoureallylove.Don'

ttellyourselfyou'

regoingtobewithsomeoneforeverjustbecauseyoulikethewaytheireyesare,orhowtonedtheirabslook.Iftheonlythingyouguyshaveincommonisthatyoulikecheese,itmightbeagoodideatofindsomeoneyoucanseeyourselfwithforever.

5.Whydoweneedmarriagetoday?

Isitloneliness?

Isitteamwork?

Sharewithyourclassmatesyourideasaboutwhypeoplegetmarried.

Whydoweneedmarriagetoday?

Inmodernsociety,therearemanyreasonsforpeopletohavemarriageinmodernsociety.Forexample,somepeopleneedmarriagebecausetheyarelonely,othersthinkthatyoumusthavemarriagebecauseofnatureregulation.Inmyview,weneedmarriagebecauseoflove.

Inourlife,weneedapartnerwholoveyousomuch.Heorshewillgiveyourhandsatbody,thoughts,andeveryaspects.whenyouareold,youneedonepersonwhoalwayscompanywithyouandneversaygoodbye.Andwhenyouaretried,youcanhaveaplacetorest.Marriagenotonlymeanshavebaby,duty,lonely,butalsolove.IthinkIwillhaveanlovelymarriageinfuture.

6.Howwouldyoufindthepartnerinyourlife?

Bygo-betweenorbyyourself?

Why?

Ifyouwanttofindapartnerinyourlife.Ithinkfindbyyourselfisabetterwaythango-between.Becausetheloveisasensation.I