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Culturalbackground

1.Friendship

EnglishQuotesaboutFriendship:

-Tellmewhatcompanythoukeepst,andI’lltelltheewhatthouart.

－MigueldeCervantes,Spanishnovelist

-Myfriendsaremyestate.

－EmilyDickinson,AmericanPoet

-Mybestfriendistheonewhobringsoutthebestinme.

－HenryFord,AmericanIndustrialist

-Theonlyrewardofvirtueisvirtue;

theonlywaytohaveafriendistobeone.

－RalphWaldoEmerson,AmericanEssayist

-Truehappinessconsistsnotinthemultitudeoffriends,butintheirworthandchoice.

－SamuelJohnston,AmericanStatesman

-Friendshipmakesprosperitymoreshiningandlessensadversitybydividingandsharingit.

－Cicero,Romanauthor,oratorandpolitician

-Becourteoustoall,butintimatewithfew,andletthosefewbewelltriedbeforeyougivethemyourconfidence.Truefriendshipisaplantofslowgrowth,andmustundergoandwithstandtheshocksofadversitybeforeitisentitledtotheappellation.

－GeorgeWashington,FirstpresidentoftheU.S.

-TheholypassionofFriendshipisofsosweetandsteadyandloyalandenduringanaturethatitwilllastthroughawholelifetime,ifnotaskedtolendmoney.

－MarkTwain,Americanhumorist,novelist,shortstoryauthor

ChineseSayingsaboutFriendship:

-近朱者赤，近墨者黑。

Keepgoodmencompanyandyoushallbeofthenumber.

-亲兄弟，明算账。

Evenreckoningmakeslongfriends.

-物以类聚，人以群分。

Birdsofafeatherflocktogether.

-君子之交淡如水。

Ahedgebetweenkeepsfriendshipgreen.

-海内存知己，天涯若比邻。

Abosomfriendafarbringsadistantlandnear.

-有朋自远方来，不亦乐乎！

Isn’titgreatwhenfriendsvisitfromdistantplaces?

2.GenderPatternsinFriendship

Women’sFriendship

Femalefriendshipsareoftenseenashavingelementsofintimacyandsupport.Womentypicallydescribetheirfriendshipsintermsofclosenessandemotionalattachment.Whatcharacterizesfriendshipsbetweenwomenisthewillingnesstoshareimportantfeelings,thoughts,experiences,andsupport.Womendevoteagooddealoftimeandintensityofinvolvementtofriends.Friendshipsbetweenwomen,moresothanbetweenmen,arebroadandlesslikelytobedivided.

Men’sFriendships

Unlikewomen,menaretypicallysocializedbysocietytobelesssocialandhavemoredifficultywithfriendships;

theyareoftenraisedtocompetewithothermenandnotcooperatewiththem,tohidetheirvulnerabilitiesandnotsharetheirinnerexperiences.However,likewomen,mencanbenefitfromthesocialbondsoffriendship.Thegreatfriendshipsrecordedinhistoryhavebeenbetweenmen,andfriendshipsamongmenhaveoftenbeenromanticizedandidealized.Men’sfriendshipshavetypicallybeendescribedintermsofbraveryandphysicalsacrificeinprovidingassistancetoothers.Despitethishistoricalromanticizationofthemalefriendship,researchershavefoundthatmenhavesignificantlyfewerfriendsthanwomen,especiallyclosefriendshipsorbestfriends.

FriendshipbetweenMenandWomen

Thereismuchdebateaboutthepossibilitiesofmaleandfemalefriendships.Muchofthisdebatehashadtodowiththeideathatsexualattractionwillpreventmenandwomenfromformingastrongplatonicbond.Therecanbemanychallengestofemale-malefriendships.Forinstance,inasocietywheremenhavetypicallyhadmorepoweranddominance,equalitycanbeanissue.Bothgendersmaybenefitfromtheseinteractions:

Menmaylearnmoreaboutsharingandestablishingemotionalsupport,whilewomenmightenjoyinteractionsthatarelessemotionallychallenging.

SectionTwoGlobalReading

.Generalanalysisofthetext

Inthetext,theauthordiscussesthedifferencesbetweenabuddyandafriendinaforcefulway.Themainideaofthetextcanbesummarizedinonesentence:

abuddyisafinelifecompanionwhileafriendisthatparttheracewithwhichyoucanbehuman.

.Structuralanalysisofthetext

Thistextdistinguishestwokindsoffriendship:

thatbetweenmenandthatbetweenwomen.Itcanbedividedintofourparts.

PartI（Paragraphs1–2）:

theprelude,wheretheauthorrevealswhatkindoffilmthewomanhadjustseen.

PartII（Paragraphs3–6）:

theintroduction,wheretheauthoradvancesthedoublestandardoffriendshiponthebasisofthepersonallyobservedshiftoffocusofthecinemalens.

PartIII（Paragraphs7–18）:

thebody,wherethedistinctionsofthetwotypesoffriendshiparedetailed.

PartIV（Paragraph19）:

theconclusion,whichsummarizesthefundamentaldifferencebetweenmalecompanionshipandfemalefriendship.

.Rhetoricalfeaturesofthetext

Toshowthedifferencesbetweenbuddinessandfriendshipeffectively,theauthorofthetextcoordinatessentencesinvariousways.Sometimesheusesconjunctionssuchasbut,yetandwhile.Andsometimeshesimplyputstwoclausestogetherwithoutusinganyconjunctionatall.

Forexamples:

Well,shethought,onthewhole,menhadbuddies,whilewomenhadfriends.Buddiesbonded,butfriendsloved.Buddiesfacedadversitytogether,butfriendsfacedeachother.Therewassomethingpalpablydifferentinthewaytheyspenttheirtime.Buddiesseemedto“do”thingstogether;

friendssimply“were”together.（paragraph8）

Buddieshangtoughtogether;

friendshangontoeachother.（paragraph11）

Practice:

Pleasefindmoreexamplesofcoordinatingsentenceswithoutusinganyconjunction.

SectionThreeDetailedReading

THETAPESTRYOFFRIENDSHIP

EllenGoodman

1Itwas,inmanyways,aslightmovie.Nothingactuallyhappened.Therewasnobig-budgetchasescene,nobloodyshoot-out.Thestoryendedwithoutanycosmicconclusions.

2YetshefoundClaudiaWeill’sfilmGirlfriendgentleandaffecting.Slowly,itpannedacrossthetapestryoffriendship–showingitsfragility,itsresiliency,itsroleastheconnectingtissuebetweenthelivesoftwoyoungwomen.

3Whenitwasover,shethoughtaboutthemoviesshehadseenthisyear–Julia，TheTurningPointandnowGirlfriends.Itseemedthatthepeculiareye,thesociallensofthecinema,haddrasticallyshifteditsfocus.SuddenlytheMaleBuddymovieshadbeenreplacedbytheFemaleFriendshipflicks.

4Thiswasn’tjustanotherbingeoftrendiness,butakindofcinemavé

rité

.Foroncethemovieswerereflectingashift,notjustfrommentowomenbutfromonedefinitionoffriendshiptoanother.

5Acrossmillionsofmilesofcelluloid,theidealoffriendshiphadalwaysbeenmale–aworldofsidekicksand“partners”ofButchCassidysandSundanceKids.Therehadbeensomethingalmostatavisticaboutthesevisionsofattachments–asifproducersculledtheirplotsfromsomepopanthropologybookonmalebonding.Moviesportrayedtheideathatonlymen,thosedirectdescendantsofhuntersandHemingways,inheritedaprimalcapacityforfriendship.Incontrast,theyportrayedwomenpickingoneachother,thewaytheyoncepickedberries.

6Well,thatdualitymusthavebeenmortallywoundedinsomeshootoutattheYou’reOK,I’mOKCorral.Now,onthescreen,theywereatleastawareofthesubtledistinctionbetweenmenandwomenasbuddiesandfriends.

Activity

Findoutasmanycoordinatingphrases/sentencesasyoucanthatdescribethedifferencesbetweenbuddiesandfriends.Drawatabletolistthemout.

Study3pairsofthosesentencesandshareyourunderstandingtoyourgroupmembers.

7About150yearsago,Coleridgehadwritten,“Awoman’sfriendshipbordersmorecloselyonlovethanman’s.Menaffecteachotherinthereflectionofnobleorfriendlyacts,whilstwomenaskfewerproofsandmoresignsandexpressionsofattachment.”

好哥们会一起面对困难，

好姐们则喜欢促膝而谈。

对于男人们来说，没有一起打过战就算不上哥们，不论是真枪实弹，还是打商业战。

对于女人来说，不愿意把她最痛心最烦心事告诉自己的人，也算不上真姐们。

好哥们在一起为了干一番事业。

好姐们在一起就为了腻在一起。

好哥们有很多种，战友啊，队友啊，牌友啊

好姐们就就是好姐们，不像同学啊，邻居的

8Well,shethought,onthewhole,menhadbuddies,whilewomenhadfriends.Buddiesbonded,butfriendsloved.Buddiesfacedadversitytogether,butfriendsfacedeachother.Therewassomethingpalpablydifferentinthewaytheyspenttheirtime.Buddiesseemedto“do”thingstogether;

friendssimply“were”together.

9Buddiescamelinked,likeaccessories,tooneactivityoranother.Peoplehavegolfbuddiesandbusinessbuddies,collegebuddiesandclubbuddies.Menoftenkeeptheirbuddiesinthesecategories,whilewomenkeepaspecialcategoryforfriends.

10Amanoncetoldherthatmenweren’trealbuddiesuntiltheyhadbeen“throughthewars”together–corporateorathleticormilitary.Theyhadtosoldiertogether,hesaid.Women,ontheotherhand,didn’tcountthemselvesasfriendsuntiltheyhadsharedthreeloathsomeconfidences.

11Buddieshangtoughtogether;

friendshangontoeachother.

12Itprobablyhadsomethingtodowithpride.Youdon’tshowofftoafriend;

youshowneed.Buddiestrytokeeptheworstfromeachother;

friendsconfessit.

13Afriendofhersoncetelephonedherlover,justtofindoutifhewashome.Shehungupwithoutahellowhenhepickedupthephone.Later,wretchedwithembarrassment,thefriendmoaned,“Canyoubelieveme?

Athirty-five-year-oldlawyer,makingachickencall?

”Togethertheylaughedandmadeitbetter.

14Buddiesseekapproval.Butfriendsseekacceptance.

15Sheknewsomanymenwhohadbeentrainedinrestraint,afraidofeachother’sjudgmentorawkwardwitheachother’saff