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wtorryaboutsituationsliketheseifyouhavegoodsocialskills.Andtheyareeasytolearn.Peoplewithgoodsocialskillscommunicatewellandknowhowtohaveaconversation.Ithelpsifyoudoalittleadvanceplanning.
Hereareafewideastohelpyou.
Learnhowtodosmalltalk.
Smalltalkisveryimportantandpreparesyouformoreseriousconversations.Beprepared!
Havesomelow-riskconversationopenersready.Forexample:
Thinkofarecentnewsstory—nottoserious,.astoryaboutafilm
starorsportsstar.
Thinkofthingstotellpeopleaboutyourstudies.
Thinkof“safe”thingsyoucanaskpeople'
sopminuisoincs,aboutsport,films,etc.
Thinkoftopicsthatyouwouldavoidifyouweretalkingto
Strangers-andavoidtalkingaboutthem!
Thatway,youdon'
damageyourconfidence!
Developyourlisteningskills
Listeningisaskillwhichmostpeoplelack,butcommunicationisa
two-wayprocess-itinvolvesspeakingANDlistening.Alwaysremembermakeyouabetterlistener:
youwon
timpresspeopleifyoutalktoomuch.Herearesomeid
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DO
Showthatyouarelisteningbyusingencouragingnoisesandgestures-smiling,nodding,saying-huh“”uhand“OK”,etc.
Keepgoodeyecontact
Usepositivebodylanguage
Askformoreinformationtoshowyourinterest
DON'
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Lookatyourwatch
Yawn
Sign
Lookawayfromthepersonwho'
stalkingtoyou
Changethesubject
Finishotherpeople'
ssentencesforthem
AlwaysrememberthewordsofBenjaminDisraeli,BritishPrime
Ministerinthe19thcentury:
“Talktoamanabouthimself,andhewillspeaktoyouforhours!
”
Learntherules
Ifyougotoasocialoccasioninanothercountry,rememberthatsocialrulescanbedifferent.Insomecountries,forexample,youhavetoarriveontimeataparty;
inothercountries,youdon'
tneedto.Inayouneedtoknowhowlongyoushouldstay,andwhenyouhavetoleave.
Somehostsexpectflowersorasmallgift,butinotherplaces,youcantakethings,butyouneedn'
tiyfoudon'
twantt.rememberalsothatinsomecountries,youmustn'
tatkeflowersofacertaincolour,becausethey'
reunlucky.Inmostplaces,youdon'
thavetotakeagifttoaparty
butfindourfirst!
TheWrongKindofSmallTalk
EstherGreenbaumwasasaleswomanforafirmoffaxmachinesandbusinesssupplies.Butshewasalsothemostoutspokenhumanbeingintheworld-well,WeStCheSterCoUnty,atleast.HermottoWaS“EVerytimeIopenmymouth,Iputmyfootinit.”
EStherGreenbaum'
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completeabsenceofsmalltalk.No,thatn'
otquitetrue.Shehadsmalltalk,butitwasthewrongkind.Infact,shehadneverlearntthebasicrulesofsocialcommunication,andasaconsequence,shemadesystematicmistakeseverytimesheopenedhermouth.Itwasnocoincidenceeitherthatshewasn'
taverygoodsaleswoman.
Onedayduringameeting,Estherwasintroducedtoanimportantcustomer,amaturewoman.
“Nicetomeetyou,”shesaid.“Howoldareyou?
”Thecustomerlookedawkward.
“Forty?
Fort-yfive?
”saidEsther.“Youkookmucholder.Andyour
friend…She'
Solderthanyou,butShelooksmuchyounger!
Onanotheroccasion,Estherteasedatypist,“Hey!
When'
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babydue?
ThetypiStwentredandcontradictedESther.“Actually,I'
mnotpregnant,”SheSaid.
“Oh,Sorry,S”aidEStherwithoutanyapology.“JuSptuttingona
littleweight,huh?
EStherwaSnevercautiouSaboutotherpeople'
SfeelingS.Oneofher
acquaintanceS,aSaleSmaninthefirm,waSgoingthroughaverymeSSydivorceandwaSverydepreSSed.Shetriedtocheerhimup.
“Forgether!
ShewaSacompletefool.Noonelikedheranyway.
Muchofthetime,EStherSaidthefirStthingtocomeintoherhead.
Onedayatwork,aclerkcameintotheofficewithanewhairstyle.
“Nicehaircut,”saidEsther.“Howmuchdiditcost?
Thewomanreplied,“I'
drathernotsay.”
Estherreplied,“Well,anyhow,eitheryoupaidtoomuchoryoupaidtoolittle.”
Shemetaveryfamouswriteronce.“Hey,whatacoincidence!
”s
said.“You'
rewritingabookandI'
mreadingone!
ThetroublewithEstherwasshesaidwhatshethought,anddidn'
thinkaboutwhatshesaid.Ayoungmanwastryingtomodestabouthisnewjobmanymilesaway.
“Iguessthecompanychosemesothey'
gdetsomepeaceintheoffice,”hesmiled.
“No,Iguesstheychoseyoutodiscourageyoufromspendingyourwholecareerwithus,”Estherrepliedsweetly.
Once,Estherwentto