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精选范文Shouldweborrowmoneyfromourfriends

Shouldweborrowmoneyfromourfriends

It’s

a

sunny

day，

you

come

to

do

shopping

with

your

good

friend

in

company,

and

see

a

lovely

dress

that

you

feel

like

buying.

Searching

carefully

into

your

purse,

but

no

money

is

in

it,

looking

carefully

into

your

friend’s

eyes,

hesitating.Money

is

surely

needed

at

present,

but

should

you

borrow

it

from

your

friend?

My

advice

is

that

you

should

never

do

this

unless

you

are

forced

to

do

so,

since

it

can

do

great

harm

to

your

friendship.

The

reasons

I

will

show

you

below

can

help

you

to

know

why.

Firstly,

how

can

you

make

sure

that

your

friends

have

enough

money

to

lend

to

you?

They

may

have

to

change

their

shopping

plans

due

to

your

unreasonable

request.

What’s

more，if

they

don’t

have

enough

money

at

the

moment

to

lend

to

you,

they

may

feel

embarrassed

to

admit

it.

Your

friendship

will

be

damaged

little

by

little

following

this

kind

of

game.

Secondly,

you

can

hardly

get

money

from

your

friend

without

leaving

them

the

feeling

that

they

have

to

do

so

in

order

not

to

disappoint

you.

And

the

element

money

is

added

into

a

matter,

that

won’t

be

a

pure

thing.

It

is

the

same

with

friendship.

If

you

keep

borrowing

money

from

your

friend

again

and

again,

they

will

feel

that

being

your

friend

only

means

lending

money

to

you,

how

can

this

kind

of

friendship

last

for

a

long

time?

What

is

more

important

is

that

can

you

make

sure

that

you

can

pay

back

the

money

you

have

borrowed

in

time?

If

it’s

only

a

small

sum

of

money,

maybe

it’s

OK

even

if

you

forget

to

pay

it

back,

but

what

if

it’s

a

large

amount

of

money

that

your

friends

are

in

need?

Should

he

ask

a

deadline

for

repayment

or

remind

you

to

pay

it

back

time

and

again?

A

friend

may

not

do

this

due

to

the

friendship

and

trust

between

you,

but

how

long

can

his

or

her

trust

last

if

you

carry

on

doing

this?

Yes,

there’s

no

doubt

that

a

friend

should

give

you

a

hand

when

you

are

in

trouble,

but

everything

should

have

a

limit.

Please

remember

that

a

friend

is

not

a

machine

from

which

you

can

borrow

money.

So

ne____t

time

when

you

do

want

to

buy

something

but

have

got

no

money

at

hand,

just

go

to

the

bank

to

draw

some

or

come

to

buy

it

with

your

money

ne____t

time.

After

all,

friendship

is

more

important

that

goods!