1、英语演讲稿情LoveXX(XX)/演讲致辞/英语演讲稿 英语演讲稿情Love ?Eversincethedawningofthehistoryofmankind,therehavebeenmyriadsofdiversifedinventions,discoveries,andevenexplorationsofthemysteriesoftheuniverse.Infact,thehumanbeingsaresointelligentthatwehavesolvedalmostallkindsofproblemswehaveconfrontedwith.However,nobodyhasev
2、ermadeoutwhattheword“love”reallyconnotes,noteventhemostfamouspeoplesuchasgreatpoliticians,saintsandphilosopherscanclarifythemeaningof“love”,neithercantheydealwiththevariousaffairsconcerninglove.Loveislikeahugeboundlessnetthatshroudsusallin.Wecanneitherbreakawayfromitnorescapefromit.Likeitornot,weare
3、alwaysentangledinit.Itisaninvisiblenetwithoutanyform,thatshroudsindifferentpeoplefromdifferentangels;Itisamercilessnetthatupsetsusoreventorturesustodeath.Itisalsoasupremenetwhichalmostnohumancansurpass.Eveniftheyareheroes,emperors,wisemenorsaints,theycandonothingbutshowtheirhelplessnessinitsface.Tho
4、sewhocanbreathethroughtheholesofthenetshouldberegardedbeyondcommonnessandvulgarity.Lovecanbringustemporarycomfortandhappiness,butmostlytheybringaboutannoyanceandsufferings.Maybethisisthereasonwhymanypeoplehaveseenthroughtheillusionsofthemortalworld.Howeveritisnotsoeasytobreakawayfromthisboundless,ev
5、er-existingandindifferentnetoflove.Loveisvariedandchangeable,butroughlyitcanbedividedintothreecategories:familylove,fraternalloveandamatorylove.NotlikeMonkeyKingwhojumpedoutoftherocks,wewereallbornaftermotherspregnancyofaboutninemonths,hencewehavecountlessrelativeswithoutanychoice:parents,grand-pare
6、nts,andgrand-parents-in-law,unclesandaunties,brothersandsisters,etc.andoncelookingatthegenealogicaltree,wellseenoend.Familyloveiswhateveryonelongsfor,butthewarmthandsupportfromourbelovedonesarewhateveryoneyearnsforthemost.Buthowmanyofusaredeterminedtocontributetoourbelovedone?Andhowmanydontexpectrep
7、aymentandrelaxed.conscienceeveniftheyhavethedesireandpreparationtocontributetotheirbeloved.Thedistancebetweenrelativesisdifferentandsoaretheirexpectations.Butsinceitsverydifficulttoknowhowmuchweshouldexpect,alotofworriesanddistressesemerge.Parentsalwaysexpecttheirchildrentoshowtheirfilialobedience,o
8、ratleastpaythemfrequentvisitsaftertheyhavegotmarried.Ifthechildrenfailtodothis,theyfeelhurtandupset,andtheyllevencomplainabouttheirchildren,becausetheyjustcantunderstandwhytheirchildrendontcareaboutthemafterwhattheyhavedoneforthechildrenforsomanyyearstobringthemup.Nevertheless,onesexperiencedetermin
9、eshisideology.Youngchildrenarenaturallyattachedtotheirparents,butwhentheygrowup,speciallywhentheyhavemadetheirownfriends,andgotmarried,whattheyneedmostisindependenceandfreedom,andparentssometimesmightbecometheirburden.Oncethereisgenerationgap,itbecomesmoredifficulttocommunicateandthiskeepsthemawayfr
10、omtheirparents.Objectivelyspeaking,theyneedmoreindependenceinordertoachievesuccess.Inthepresentsociety,whatthechildrenwanttohavemostistheeconomicsupportfromtheirparents,nottheirmoralsupportorguidance.Theywouldcomplainifyoureconomicsupportisnotuptotheirexpectations.Thelovefromunclesandauntieswouldnat
11、urallydwindleaftertheyhavehadtheirownchildren.Onlythelovefromgrand-parentsandgrandparents-in-lawispureanddemandsnorepayment,andtheyarealsotoooldtowaitforanyrepayment.Asforthedistantrelatives,theirlovedependsontheirneeds,justastheoldsayinggoes“Thepoorhavenofriendseveniftheyliveindowntownwhiletherichh
12、avedistantrelativeseveniftheyliveindeepmountains”.GrannyLiu,adistantkinsfolk,inADreamoftheRedMansions,claimskinshipwiththewealthyJiafamily,thinkingthatshemaybenefitfromitinsomeways.LiumighthaverunawaywithoutanytracesiftheJiafamilyhadbeenapoorone.Anothersayinggoes“Closeneighborsarebetterthandistantre
13、latives.”Themostdifficultistomanagetherelativeswhendoingbusinesstogether,justaswhattheTVseriesprogramLiuLaogendiscloses.Itisallrighttostaypoortogether,butassoonasthebusinessgrowsprosperous,thegroupwillbecomeestrangedandevendissolvebecauseoftheunfairdistribution.Familyloveislikeamazewhichweshouldntgo
14、toofarintoit,otherwise,wellsurelygetlost.Loveisabilateralmatterandunilaterallovecanonlyleadyoutonowhereinspiteofyourgoodintentions.Familyloveis,sometimes,likeanarrangedmarriage,leavingnochoicestoyou.Duetothedifferentexperiencesandtastes,stayingtogethertemporarilycanbeentertaining,whilelivingtogether
15、foralongtimecanonlybeboringduetothelackofcommoninterestandunderstanding.Howcanwecommunicatewitheachotherwithoutunderstanding?Parentshavethedutytosupportthechildrenwhoarenotyeteconomicallyindependent,andchildrenhavetheresponsibilitytoprovidefortheelderlyparentswhoarelackofeconomicabilitiestosupportth
16、emselves.Exceptthesetwokindsofdutieswhichwemustfulfill,otherkindsoflovebecomeconventionalformalitiessuchaspayingvisittothesickorthedeadandgivingpresentstothenewly-bornetc.Noloveamongrelativeshasbecomeanormalphenomenonwhichneednttobefussedabout.Whatsworseiswhenloveiscontaminatedbymoney.Soonerorlaterwewillgethurt.Thesoonerwegetoutofthisnetoflove,themorewecanpreservebeautifulmemories.Wearenotlivinginvacuum,andthesocietyisformedofvar
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