浙江工商大学大学英语四topic.docx

1、浙江工商大学大学英语四topic1. What are the differences between motherly love and fatherly love?4：In the dormitory, Ann and Lucy open the door and fond Lily sitting on the bed with her eyes red. Its obvious that she just cried.2:Hey, Lily, whats wrong with you?3:Well, Im fine, just leave me alone.1:Come on. Don

2、t be silly, we cant do that. Whats going on?3:I just had a phone call with my father. We quarreled. Hey, isnt fatherly love just like this: you get a good mark, and he would admire you, love you. But if you did something wrong, then everything changes.2:How about your mother, what did she say?3:I do

3、nt know, my mother doesnt care much about my study. Shes always that lovely, caring about my life issues.2:Well, thats the difference between motherly love and fatherly love. It seems that motherly love is unconditional, but fatherly love if the opposite. I love you because you do your duty, because

4、 you are like me. My dad always asks me not to do this, not to do that. Or somethings good, somethings bad. He never care about my feelings. It seems that Im just an accessory of him.1:Yeah, I think motherly love is unconditional, my mother is thoughtful, she always gives help when I need. Besides,

5、she forgives the mistakes I made, whats more, she always tells me to do everything in my own right. But my father is strict to me, he helps me set goals one by one. After I achieve these goals, he will give me prices, so I think fatherly love is conditional love.So, dont be sad, everything will be j

6、ust fine.3:Well, I think maybe I should talk with my father again.4:And thats the end of the story, we can see that motherly love is like water, soft and kind, taking care of our daily life. And father love, just like mountain, is deep and cannot been seen easily. But if you ever need any help, he w

7、ill be the one whos always there supporting you. Thats the difference between motherly love and father love.2. Do you agree that men and women cannot communicate with each other? Give your reasons.4:Oh I cant bare this any longer！3：Whats wrong?4:My parents quarreled. Again! Why cant men and women co

8、mmunicate with each other? It seems that women only care about the tiny stuff which men will never pay attention. Today when my mother was telling my father about the new clothes she bought, he was thinking about the NBA games. Then my mother complained that dad dont care about her and dont love her

9、 any more. So they just quarreled. Oh, Im just fed up with them.1:I dont agree that men and women cant communicate with each other. As we all know, men and women are different not only in body feature but also character inside. When men and women communicate with each other, they can learn something

10、 from different sexual distinction. For example, men are brave, strong, responsible. Women are patient, acceptance, these qualities are important to our success, but all these qualities cant learn from the same sexual distinction. So I dont agree that men and women cant communicate with each other.3

11、:Yeah its ridiculous that men and women cant communicate with each other. First, we live in the same languageChinese. Of course we can communicate with each other. Now in the school, there are women teachers and boy students. If they cant communicate, how can the boy get the knowledge from the teach

12、er? Maybe sometimes men and women misunderstood each other, but, its not a big problem.2:As far as Im concerned, men can communicate with women. I have three reasons. First, there are various of couples in the world. They live together and have good relationships. If they cant communicate with each

13、other, they will break up. Second, more and more women went out for works. So men and women have more chances to communicate. And they always can communicate well. The last but not the least, boys and girls study at school together, they can get along well each other and have a good communication.So

14、 in my opinion, men and women can communicate with each other.4：All right, maybe youre right. I should go and persuade them. Thank you!123:Thats OK.3. Tell your experience of being misunderstood and discuss hoe to avoid misunderstanding.4:So guys, its time for channel 314 again! Today were going to

15、talk about misunderstandings. Misunderstandings can occur in our daily life and nobody can avoid them. But there must be some ways to solve the problems. We have invited three person to tell us their experiences of being misunderstood. And first of all, Lucy.1:When I study at middle school, my schoo

16、l gives every student a card for eating, but I seldom use it. One night a thief stole many things from the dormitory and my card was one of them. Because theres little money in it, so I think nothing about it. To my surprise, a girl came to our classroom next day to ask me to pay back all things whi

17、ch were stoled. Because my card was in her bag when she waked up and my card wasnt locked. So she insisted to say I steal her things. I spent much time to solve the things. From this thing I know when we lost things we must tell the related section in time.4:And you? Ann ?2:Once I told my father tha

18、t no one in school can talk with me. He said you can talk with them first. Unfortunately, he misunderstood me. What I mean is that I cant open my floodgates to them, but he think I cant communicate with them. I think the best way to avoid misunderstanding is that our women should say things clearly,

19、 dont tend to exaggerate. And men should rethink or translate what they have heard, try to really understand womens complaint. In that way, men would argue less and be able to respond more positively. So they will avoid misunderstandings.3:4:So to avoid misunderstandings we should say things clearly

20、 and rethink about our words. Remember to stand at others point and think like them, it will help you understand them more. If we pay enough attention to these things, well be able be communicate easier.Thank you!4. What accounts for winning and losing?4:Hello everyone! Welcome to watch channel 314.

21、 Today were going to talk about winning and losing. Everyone wants to be a winner and doesnt want to be a loser. So what accounts for winning and losing? Weve invited three persons to tell us their understandings. And first, Lucy.1:I think the reason why people winning is that people have precious q

22、ualities, foe example, gemciness. It can make people work together. Besides, a winner is the person who even in the face of national and international difficulty, he does see himself as helpless. He cant do anything to damage the environment and he is held back by his low capacity to express himself

23、.2:There are many competitions in the world. So everyone has chance to become a winner or a loser. But there still be some qualities that needs to be a winner. First, a winner is not afraid to do his own thinking and to use his own knowledge. He listens to others, evaluates what they say, and comes

24、to his own conclusion. Second, a winner is flexible, without guilty he enjoy his own accomplishments. Without envy he enjoys the accomplishments of others. The last, a winner does what he can to make the world a better place. On the contrary, a loser tries to manipulate others living up to his expec

25、tations and channels his energies into living up to their expectations.3：Winners are always full of confidence. I think its an important thing for them to be successful. Whatever bad situation they are in, they believe that I have the capacity ad I can make it. Whats more, they can channel themselve

26、s into what they concern. Once they set their goal, they will never give up. I think all these above make a person succeed. On the contrary, losers lack these important things, so they failed.4:So we can draw a conclusion that a winner must be confident, hardworking, flexible and have the will to ac

27、hieve his goals. Once you have made up your mind, keep going, and the result will turn out to be wonderful.Thank you !5. Whats your understanding of the idiomBetter Late Than Never? Is there any other example in the daily life that may support it?2:Hey, could you do me a favor?1:Sure, whats the matt

28、er?2:I have just read the idiom better late than never, but I cant fully get it. Can you explain it to me?1:Oh, I think it means someday I have classes, but I have something important make me late to go to the classes. At this moment, an idea that whether I go to the classes trouble me. After thinki

29、ng twice, I decided to have the classes, because my attitude towards this thing can been seen. As we all know, better late than never. Besides, its a way to show my respect to the teacher. Whats more, I can learn something which may be important to me in the long run.3:I think your example is not qu

30、ite properly. Heres mine. In my high school, theres a boy who never take study seriously and always skipped the classes. As a result, he did poor in the exam. Then our teacher talked with him for a long time. Luckily, he realized that he should not be so confused and should do something for his futu

31、re. After that, he became a hardworking person. Of course, all efforts will pay off eventually. When he was admitted to a good university, he said happily:” Im so happy with what I had done, its not late.”4:I think youve got the point. When I was in the middle school, once I quarreled with one of my

32、 best friends due to some silly misunderstandings. We didnt talk with each other for days and regarded each other as strangers. We all thought that its not my fault, I wont apologize. But after a few days, I cant bear the silence any more, so I just went to her to express my feelings, we both realize the mistake. Its not late, so we are still good friends now.2:Oh I think I fully understand its meaning now. when I was young, I always quarreled wit