1、 love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey king who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mothers pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: pa
2、rents, grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, well see no end. family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of u
3、s are determined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many dont expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. but since its very difficult to know h
4、ow much we should expect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge. parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and theyll even plain about their childr
5、en, because they just cant understand why their children dont care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. nevertheless, ones experience determines his ideology. young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially
6、 when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might bee their burden. once there is generation gap, it bees more difficult to municate and this keeps them away from their parents. objectively speaking, they need more i
7、ndependence in order to achieve suess. in the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. they would plain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. the love from uncles and aunties would natura
8、lly dwindle after they have had their own children. only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they are also too old to wait for any repayment. as for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes “the poor
9、have no friends even if they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains”。 granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have ru
10、n away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. another saying goes “close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor
11、together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will bee estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldnt go too far into it, otherwise, well surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead yo
12、u to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying together temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of m
13、on interest and understanding. how can we municate with each other without understanding? parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support them
14、selves. except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love bee conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc. no love among relatives has bee a normal phenomenon which neednt to be fussed about. whats worse is
15、 when love is contaminated by money. sooner or later we will get hurt. the sooner we get out of this of love, the more we can preserve beautiful memories. ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there have been myriads of diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mys
16、teries of the universe. in fact, the human beings are so in _igent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems we have confronted with. however, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can
17、clarify the meaning of “love”, neither can they deal with the various affairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless that shrouds us all in. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we are always entangled in it. it is an invisible without any form, that shrouds
18、in different people from different angels; it is a merciless that upsets us or even tortures us to death. it is also a supreme which almost no human can surpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe
19、through the holes of the should be regarded beyond monness and vulgarity. love can bring us temporary fort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent of love.口语演讲2分钟1 no love among rel
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