白领必读六步让你成职场上的沟通高手.docx

1、白领必读六步让你成职场上的沟通高手白领必读六步，让你成为职场上的沟通高手俗话说得好“人在江湖，身不由己。”在外企里也是一样，职场上更是形形色色的人等，每个人都想想翩翩起舞、挥洒才华、争得提升。但是，毕竟要和这些人融洽相处、沟通合作，才能更好地完成自己的工作，也能快乐地度过工作时光。那么，如何怎样做才能成为办公室里的沟通高手呢？西雅图工作英语的专家在这里教大家几招吧！ 一、有效沟通的先决条件是和谐气氛。你见过吵架能吵出一个好的结果么?人在情绪当中，意气用事，完全非理性的状态下，是没有办法解决问题的。在陌生的环境中(包括陌生的人、陌生的地点、陌生的关系、陌生的事情)与人沟通时，人的保护机制自然而然

2、会启动，心没有打开，大家说话小心翼翼，人的思维也在这样的拘谨的氛围中活跃不起来。怎么样营造和谐气氛呢?开个小玩笑，风花雪月之类的话题扯一扯，如果能找到双方有兴趣的爱好说一说就更好了。笑声中，和谐的氛围就出来了。遇到情绪化的冲突，不妨停一停，约个时间下次再谈。六方会谈停停谈谈不也谈了几年了嘛。二、沟通的方式不能一成不变。每个人都有固有的沟通习惯或沟通风格或沟通偏好。因此，你有多少种方法去跟那个“没法沟通”的人去做沟通?要世界上所有的人都听得懂你的语言，不现实嘛。比如在外企里，很多时候要用英语沟通，如果你用自己造的句子跟人家沟通，对方听不懂，那么你就要换一种方式去表达了，不然对方永远听不懂。西雅图

3、工作英语.seattleen.提醒你：把焦点放在自己身上，去改变自己的沟通方式，尝试用不同的方法去做沟通。我们可以改变自己，但不可以改变别人，除非“别人”愿意去改变。三、应给别人一些空间。沟通不只是自己说说说，还应听对方的声音。每个人的价值观不完全相同，所以观点的冲突在所难免。尝试听听对方的意思，从对方的角度听听，也许同样有几份道理。所以不要强人所难，打压，权势，只会造成口服心不服的局面。大家都只会闹个不愉快，沟通完后，大家心情都郁闷死了。四、沟通的意义在于对方的回应。“素质太低，根本听不懂我说什么”。其实是你自己素质太低，不会有对方能听懂的语言去表达。沟通的目的是形成共识，取的理解。所以，表

4、达的好与坏，是以对方的理解为唯一衡量标准。我爱你，我很爱你，但是对方说，没有感觉到，或者对方说，你根本不爱我。沟通跟恋爱一样，不是你以为表达清楚了就清楚了。沟通也不在于你的演说技巧有多么的流利，也不在于你说的多有道理，多么地正确，沟通没有对与错之分，只是有没有效果的区别。而效果的决定因素，是对方的回应，对方收到了多少。五、不要假设。以自己之心度他人之腹，以为自己很聪明，以为了解他心里想什么，以为他会这样或那样。“我已经完全告诉他了，他怎么会这样，真不明白。”你当然不明白，因为你以为他已经明真的不掉线吗？、？白了，谁告诉你，他听懂啦?怎么样去判断对方有没有明白?很简单，让对方复述一遍。千万不要问

5、：明白了没有?大部分人的标准答案：明白了(没明白不显得自己理解能力太差了嘛);也万万不要问：有没有什么疑问?大部分人的标准答案：没有了。“跟他说也没有用，他肯定不愿意去做的”，凭什么你替对方作决定呢?你问都没问过，怎么就判定他不愿意呢?所以，不要假设，不要瞎猜，有疑问应向对方求证。看多了电视剧的人会发现，剧情里的人际关系特别是男女之间的关系，之所以出现我爱的人嫁给别人了，都是假设惹的祸。六、直接对话，坦而言之。“老板，生产部经理不配合我的工作，找他沟通他根本不听”。如果你是老板，你会怎么做呢?我知道，有很多经理人，或者很多老板，听到这样的信息，会把那个生产经理找过来，拐弯抹角或单刀直入地去了解

6、事情的“真相”，然后会下达指示或解决方法。这样有效吗?没有效!不但没有效，而且后果很严重。为什么很多老板天天累呢?是他们自己找的!因为以后一有沟通不了的事或沟通不了的人，当事人只会找老板了，老板就忙着去协调了。这样的事情，解决起来其实很简单，直接把两个当事人叫过来，让他们把“沟通不了的工作”好好通过沟通形成共识并拿出解决方案来。老板坐在旁边听就可以了，有需要的时候，也可以出招指导指导他们。真的不掉线吗？、？雅思口语（一）Q: What do you like to do in your spare time?A: The thing I am interested in is to do ph

7、ysical exercises such as jogging when Im available.Q: What are the difficulties to realize it?A1: The great difficulty for me is to have less work and social experience because most of panies really concerned them. A2: One of the challenges for me is to own less work and social experience because a

8、majority of organizations concerned them most in modern society. Q: Whats the meaning of your Chinese name?A: The name of me was given by my grandpa who passed away as I was 18 years old. He wished me to be brave and intelligent enough. You know, “WEI” just means intelligent and bravery in Chinese.Q

9、: Whats your name?A: Im C-h-e-n H-u-i. Nice to meet you!Q: How can I call you?A: Thats if you can call me Ja for short. Now thats my English name.Q: Can I see your ID?A: Yes, please.Q: Whats the meaning of your Chinese name?A: Well, Ive looked up the dictionary. Its the sign of intelligence in China

10、.Q: Have you ever changed your name, why?A: Not yet so far, coz I dont think its different. Q: Do Chinese people like changing their names? Why?A: Actually I dont think so, coz I havent heard of it around me.Q: Whats their purpose in changing their names?A: Im not sure. Maybe fortune is ing as soon

11、as they do so.Q: Are you working or studying?A: So far Im still a college student.Q: Whats your major?真的不掉线吗？、？A: Well, I major in marketing. Its so interesting, because Ive studied a lot of successful cases of excellent panies like Coca Cola.Q: Do you like your major or dislike it? Why?A: Why not?

12、Im very interested in doing planning work in business. It teaches me a lot.Q: What are the advantages and disadvantages of your school?A: Generally its pretty good. Its full of the aroma of academy. On the other hand, I wish I didnt live in the student room, coz I gotta share a small room with other

13、 7 students.Q: Is it difficult for you to hunt for a job after graduation?A: Actually its not as easy as eating pies. Ive been interviewed for a lot of jobs, but they turned me down for my little experience.Q: Whats the school youve attended?A: A couple of years ago I was studying economies in Ren M

14、in University. Its reputable anyway.Q: Whats the most interesting subject?A: I do love math, coz I really enjoy the sense of puzzling over questions.Q: Whats your ideal job?A: Im dressing of opening a homemade restaurant, coz Im crazy about cooking new dishes. It would be my greatest dream, I believ

15、e.Q: Are you studying or working?A: So far Im still an employer.Q: How long have you been working?A: Well, Ive been working for a firm as an accountant over 4 years.Q: Whatre your main responsibilities?A: Normally Im in charge of accounting work at my pany, but sometimes Im asking to help some fresh

16、 staffs.Q: Whats the most difficult thing at work?A: Sure. I guess its hard to put up with a micromanager like mine, coz I cant do to the schedule.Q: Do you like your job?真的不掉线吗？、？A: Well, its pretty good. You know, its well-paid and relaxing. On the other hand, I wish I could have more days off.Q:

17、What would be your ideal job?A: Actually I wish I could be a free lancer, because Im uninterested in my current work. Its boring.Q: Whatre the most popular jobs in your country?A: Sure. Sports and entertainment superstars are the most popular jobs. Theyre not only well-paid but also admiring.Q: Did

18、you ever do a part-time job?A: I havent got any experience like that, actually. But I was doing voluntary work in my munity.Q: Are there any jobs that only men or women should do?A: Actually I dont think theres any difference in working between male and female. Probably some like nursing is more sui

19、table for women. Q: How long have you been studying English?A: Ive been doing so for about a decade since I was a high school student. Its long, isnt it?Q: What do you think of English?A: Well, its really important, coz I wanna study and live with my girlfriend in Canada.Q: How to learn English well

20、? (Or: How to improve your English?)A: First of all, a good textbooks very important. I like “New Interchange”, coz its very useful. Ive learnt a lot of born and bred idioms. Next, a responsible teacher would be great. Its not only my guide but also my helper.Q: Are there any difficulties about stud

21、ying English?A: Sure. Its not as easy as eating pies, I guess. Its hard to find a native speaker to tell me whats right or not. So, sometimes I speak some Chinglish.Q: What other language can you speak?A: So far I cant speak anything else but English and Chinese.Q: Do you think your native language

22、is easier than English?A: I dont think so, but I guess my Chinese is bound to be better than English, coz I speak it every day.真的不掉线吗？、？Q: Do many foreigners speak your native language?A: Sure. Its amazing. Ive seen an American speak Chinese so fluently and coherently. Say, weve got TV shows to teac

23、h them Chinese.Q: How important is your native language in the world today?A: Its absolutely something. You know, if foreigners want make sense of real Chinese culture, they must do it by virtue of Chinese language.Q: When do you usually get up?A: Im used to getting up so early, coz I need to do mor

24、ning exercises.Q: When do you usually go to bed?A: Im accustomed to going to bed late, coz I like watching TV at midnight.Q: Are your workday and weekend routines different?A: Sure. Im always busy with a lot of routines on workday. Its so boring. On the other hand, “Thanks goodness, its Friday.” Its

25、 absolutely a holiday.Q: Whats your favorite time of a day?A: Mornings the greatest time, coz its the beginning of a lovely day.Q: What is the worst part of your day?A: Actually I have no sense of afternoon, coz Im always feeling sleepy and tired.真的不掉线吗？、？华盟字幕社教学+个人原创快速上手，使用POPSUB制作时间轴基础教程新手同样适用（此文转

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27、at比较好哦）但是，在此之前请保证你的机器里有以下程序（这些程序都能从互联网里轻松找到，去XX搜索这些软件的名称就能找到一堆下载）：字幕外挂软件：VOBSUB（版本用最新版即可，如果下载下来解压后的不是*.exe安装文件而是vsfilter.dll文件，请将它放在C:WINDOWSsystem32目录下，然后点开始-运行，输入“regsvr32 VSFilter.dll”确定即可）播放软件：Windows Media Player 10（简称WMP10），Windows Media Player Classic（简称MPC）（虽然说POPSUB里面有内建播放器MPC6.4，但还是把这两个播放软

28、件都在本机上安装好了为妙）DirectX 9.0（如果你的机器里不是最新DX9.0版本，用POPSUB打开动画时很可能会因为错误而打不开，这是某猫(猫猫拳)同学的亲身经历，大家不要重蹈覆辙哦）真的不掉线吗？、？最后我们还需要视频编码器包，以能让POPSUB的内建播放器播放那些高达120FPS的动画更加顺畅，在此推荐一个视频编码器包下载地址，集成了最新FFDSHOW编码器的：以上的软件（自然要包括POPSUB哦）都搞定了之后，我们就差不多可以开始正式学习了要声明的是：安装POPSUB之后，其安装目录文件家里已经有很详尽的说明文件“readme.rtf”，但担心部分新手看后无所适从，因此特此写出此

29、篇时间轴快速上手的教程，若想进一步挖掘POPSUB的其他方面的更多的功能，请仔细认真阅读readme.rtf文档！第一次打开POPSUB.exe后，程序会要求你输入口令，同时页面右下角会提示你输入同好口令“TONGHAO-FANSUB”，但请不要输入这个，输入这个密码会在卡拉OK和翻译等的使用中受到限制（虽然今次讲的时间轴不在此范围之列），请改输入readme.rtf中提供的漫迷口令“POPGO-FANSUB”。如果已经输入过同好口令，可以在POPSUB中选择“关于”“改变口令”来改变口令由于是时间轴制作，所以我们假定你现在已经有翻译文稿(txt格式)以及片源(AVI视频文件)(补充一句，如果

30、装了适当的视频编码器的话，甚至打开RMVB外挂字幕都可以的)假定你的翻译文稿在你计算机内的路径是C:1.txt而片源视频文件在你计算机内的路径是D:2.avi这样的话，选“文件”“打开时间轴”(不是“打开翻译”哦)，选择你的翻译文稿1.txt，打开出现“打开文件选项”，直接确定即可然后你会发现出现了一个类似Excel的表格界面，程序在每一句的前面自动加入了均为0值的开始时间和结束时间真的不掉线吗？、？此时选“文件”“另存为时间轴”，在“保存文件选项”里的左排，将选项“翻译(无时间轴)”改为“ASS格式时间轴”，再点“选择文件名”按纽，将这个将要生成的ASS字幕文件保存到和你的视频文件相同的文件

31、夹下，并与视频文件的主文件名相同（以保证下一步打开视频文件时能够自动实现外挂加载此字幕），对照上面例子的路径，应该存为D:2.ass保存文件，将当前文档窗口关闭再选择“文件”“打开动画”，打开视频文件D:2.avi，这个时候你稍微留意一下右下角任务栏，是不是出现了个绿色的小箭头图标？有的话就说明字幕已经成功外挂上了接着选择“文件”“打开时间轴”，选择你刚刚存储的D:2.ass打开下面我们需要设置1下操作键位，以符合自己的习惯，提高制作效率单击“选项”“设置”打开快捷键设置单主要是改“插入开始时间点”、“插入结束时间点”、“前进0.1秒”、“后退0.1秒”这4项以下是我的设置：“插入开始时间点”：Z“插入结束时间点”：X真的不掉线吗？、？“前进0.1秒”：S“后退0.1秒”：A这样很方便用一只左手操作的建议大家采用类似设置哦，以下的教程以我这种设置来讲另，“插入时间点”一项，一般翻译写得没问题的话就没用的，想设置的话，设置哪个按键随你便确定后，鼠