英语演讲稿《情Love》.docx
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英语演讲稿《情Love》
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英语演讲稿《情Love》
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Eversincethedawningofthehistoryofmankind,therehavebeenmyriadsofdiversifedinventions,discoveries,andevenexplorationsofthemysteriesoftheuniverse.Infact,thehumanbeingsaresointelligentthatwehavesolvedalmostallkindsofproblemswehaveconfrontedwith.
However,nobodyhasevermadeoutwhattheword“love”reallyconnotes,noteventhemostfamouspeoplesuchasgreatpoliticians,saintsandphilosopherscanclarifythemeaningof“love”,neithercantheydealwiththevariousaffairsconcerninglove.Loveislikeahugeboundlessnetthatshroudsusallin.Wecanneitherbreakawayfromitnorescapefromit.Likeitornot,wearealwaysentangledinit.Itisaninvisiblenetwithoutanyform,thatshroudsindifferentpeoplefromdifferentangels;Itisamercilessnetthatupsetsusoreventorturesustodeath.Itisalsoasupremenetwhichalmostnohumancansurpass.Eveniftheyareheroes,emperors,wisemenorsaints,theycandonothingbutshowtheirhelplessnessinitsface.Thosewhocanbreathethroughtheholesofthenetshouldberegardedbeyondcommonnessandvulgarity.Lovecanbringustemporarycomfortandhappiness,butmostlytheybringaboutannoyanceandsufferings.Maybethisisthereasonwhymanypeoplehaveseenthroughtheillusionsofthemortalworld.Howeveritisnotsoeasytobreakawayfromthisboundless,ever-existingandindifferentnetoflove.
Loveisvariedandchangeable,butroughlyitcanbedividedintothreecategories:
familylove,fraternalloveandamatorylove.NotlikeMonkeyKingwhojumpedoutoftherocks,wewereallbornaftermother'spregnancyofaboutninemonths,hencewehavecountlessrelativeswithoutanychoice:
parents,grand-parents,andgrand-parents-in-law,unclesandaunties,brothersandsisters,etc.andoncelookingatthegenealogicaltree,we'llseenoend.Familyloveiswhateveryonelongsfor,butthewarmthandsupportfromourbelovedonesarewhateveryoneyearnsforthemost.Buthowmanyofusaredeterminedtocontributetoourbelovedone?
Andhowmanydon'texpectrepaymentandrelaxed.conscienceeveniftheyhavethedesireandpreparationtocontributetotheirbeloved.Thedistancebetweenrelativesisdifferentandsoaretheirexpectations.Butsinceit'sverydifficulttoknowhowmuchweshouldexpect,alotofworriesanddistressesemerge.
Parentsalwaysexpecttheirchildrentoshowtheirfilialobedience,oratleastpaythemfrequentvisitsaftertheyhavegotmarried.Ifthechildrenfailtodothis,theyfeelhurtandupset,andthey'llevencomplainabouttheirchildren,becausetheyjustcan'tunderstandwhytheirchildrendon'tcareaboutthemafterwhattheyhavedoneforthechildrenforsomanyyearstobringthemup.Nevertheless,one'sexperiencedetermineshisideology.Youngchildrenarenaturallyattachedtotheirparents,butwhentheygrowup,speciallywhentheyhavemadetheirownfriends,andgotmarried,whattheyneedmostisindependenceandfreedom,andparentssometimesmightbecometheirburden.Oncethereisgenerationgap,itbecomesmoredifficulttocommunicateandthiskeepsthemawayfromtheirparents.Objectivelyspeaking,theyneedmoreindependenceinordertoachievesuccess.Inthepresentsociety,whatthechildrenwanttohavemostistheeconomicsupportfromtheirparents,nottheirmoralsupportorguidance.Theywouldcomplainifyoureconomicsupportisnotuptotheirexpectations.Thelovefromunclesandauntieswouldnaturallydwindleaftertheyhavehadtheirownchildren.Onlythelovefromgrand-parentsandgrandparents-in-lawispureanddemandsnorepayment,andtheyarealsotoooldtowaitforanyrepayment.Asforthedistantrelatives,theirlovedependsontheirneeds,justastheoldsayinggoes“Thepoorhavenofriendseveniftheyliveindowntownwhiletherichhavedistantrelativeseveniftheyliveindeepmountains”.GrannyLiu,adistantkinsfolk,inADreamoftheRedMansions,claimskinshipwiththewealthyJiafamily,thinkingthatshemaybenefitfromitinsomeways.LiumighthaverunawaywithoutanytracesiftheJiafamilyhadbeenapoorone.Anothersayinggoes“Closeneighborsarebetterthandistantrelatives.”Themostdifficultistomanagetherelativeswhendoingbusinesstogether,justaswhattheTVseriesprogramLiuLaogendiscloses.Itisallrighttostaypoortogether,butassoonasthebusinessgrowsprosperous,thegroupwillbecomeestrangedandevendissolvebecauseoftheunfairdistribution.Familyloveislikeamazewhichweshouldn'tgotoofarintoit,otherwise,we'llsurelygetlost.Loveisabilateralmatterandunilaterallovecanonlyleadyoutonowhereinspiteofyourgoodintentions.Familyloveis,sometimes,likeanarrangedmarriage,leavingnochoicestoyou.Duetothedifferentexperiencesandtastes,stayingtogethertemporarilycanbeentertaining,whilelivingtogetherforalongtimecanonlybeboringduetothelackofcommoninterestandunderstanding.Howcanwecommunicatewitheachotherwithoutunderstanding?
Parentshavethedutytosupportthechildrenwhoarenotyeteconomicallyindependent,andchildrenhavetheresponsibilitytoprovidefortheelderlyparentswhoarelackofeconomicabilitiestosupportthemselves.Exceptthesetwokindsofdutieswhichwemustfulfill,otherkindsoflovebecomeconventionalformalitiessuchaspayingvisittothesickorthedeadandgivingpresentstothenewly-bornetc..
Noloveamongrelativeshasbecomeanormalphenomenonwhichneedn'ttobefussedabout.What'sworseiswhenloveiscontaminatedbymoney.Soonerorlaterwewillgethurt.Thesoonerwegetoutofthisnetoflove,themorewecanpreservebeautifulmemories.
Wearenotlivinginvacuum,andthesocietyisformedofvar