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詹妮弗安妮斯顿成功女性的定位是什么
詹妮弗·安妮斯顿:
成功女性的定位是什么?
Letmestartbysayingthataddressing2gossipissomethingIhaveneverdone.Idon’tliketogiveenergytothebusinessoflies,butIwantedtoparticipateinalargerconversationthathasalreadybegunandneedstocontinue.SinceI’mnotonsocialmedia,Idecidedtoputmythoughtshereinwriting.
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Fortherecord,Iamnotpregnant.WhatIamisfedup3.I’mfedupwiththesport-likescrutinyandbodyshamingthatoccursdailyundertheguiseof“journalism,”the“FirstAmendment”and“celebritynews.”4
EverydaymyhusbandandIareharassedbydozensofaggressivephotographersstakedoutsideourhomewhowillgotoshockinglengthstoobtainanykindofphoto,evenifitmeansendangeringusortheunluckypedestrianswhohappentobenearby.5Butsettingasidethepublicsafetyaspect,Iwanttofocusonthebiggerpictureofwhatthisinsanetabloidritualrepresentstoallofus.6
IfIamsomekindofsymboltosomepeopleoutthere,thenclearlyIamanexampleofthelensthroughwhichwe,asasociety,viewourmothers,daughters,sisters,wives,femalefriendsandcolleagues.7Theobjectificationandscrutinyweputwomenthroughisabsurdanddisturbing.8ThewayIamportrayedbythemediaissimplyareflectionofhowweseeandportraywomeningeneral,measuredagainstsomewarped9standardofbeauty.Sometimesculturalstandardsjustneedadifferentperspectivesowecanseethemforwhattheyreallyare―acollectiveacceptance...asubconsciousagreement.Weareinchargeofouragreement.Littlegirlseverywhereareabsorbingouragreement,passiveorotherwise.Anditbeginsearly.Themessagethatgirlsarenotprettyunlessthey’reincrediblythin,thatthey’renotworthyofourattentionunlesstheylooklikeasupermodeloranactressonthecoverofamagazineissomethingwe’reallwillinglybuyinginto10.Thisconditioning11issomethinggirlsthencarryintowomanhood.Weusecelebrity“news”toperpetuatethisdehumanizingviewoffemales,focusedsolelyonone’sphysicalappearance,whichtabloidsturnintoasportingeventofspeculation.12Isshepregnant?
Issheeatingtoomuch?
Hassheletherselfgo13?
Ishermarriageontherocksbecausethecameradetectssomephysical“imperfection”?
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Iusedtotellmyselfthattabloidswerelikecomicbooks,nottobetakenseriously,justasoapoperaforpeopletofollowwhentheyneedadistraction15.ButIreallycan’ttellmyselfthatanymorebecausetherealityisthestalking16andobjectificationI’veexperiencedfirst-hand,goingondecadesnow,reflectsthewarpedwaywecalculateawoman’sworth. Thispastmonthinparticularhasilluminatedformehowmuchwedefineawoman’svaluebasedonhermaritalandmaternalstatus.17ThesheeramountofresourcesbeingspentrightnowbypresstryingtosimplyuncoverwhetherornotIampregnant(forthebajillionthtime...butwho’scounting)pointstotheperpetuationofthisnotionthatwomenaresomehowincomplete,unsuccessful,orunhappyifthey’renotmarriedwithchildren.18Inthislastboringnewscycleaboutmypersonallifetherehavebeenmassshootings,wildfires,majordecisionsbytheSupremeCourt,anupcomingelection,andanynumberofmorenewsworthyissuesthat“journalists”coulddedicatetheirresourcestowards.19
Here’swhereIcomeoutonthistopic:
wearecompletewithorwithoutamate,withorwithoutachild.Wegettodecideforourselveswhatisbeautifulwhenitcomestoourbodies.Thatdecisionisoursandoursalone.Let’smakethatdecisionforourselvesandfortheyoungwomeninthisworldwholooktousasexamples.Let’smakethatdecisionconsciously,outsideofthetabloidnoise.Wedon’tneedtobemarriedormotherstobecomplete.Wegettodetermineourown“happilyeverafter”forourselves.
Ihavegrowntiredofbeingpartofthisnarrative20.Yes,Imaybecomeamothersomeday,andsinceI’mlayingitallout21there,ifIeverdo,Iwillbethefirsttoletyouknow.ButI’mnotinpursuitofmotherhoodbecauseIfeelincompleteinsomeway,asourcelebritynewsculturewouldleadusalltobelieve.Iresentbeingmadetofeel“lessthan”becausemybodyischangingand/orIhadaburgerforlunchandwasphotographedfromaweirdangleandthereforedeemedoneoftwothings:
“pregnant”or“fat.”Nottomentionthepainfulawkwardnessthatcomeswithbeingcongratulatedbyfriends,coworkersandstrangersalikeonone’sfictionalpregnancy(oftenadozentimesinasingleday).
Fromyearsofexperience,I’velearnedtabloidpractices,howeverdangerous,willnotchange,atleastnotanytimesoon.Whatcanchangeisourawarenessandreactiontothetoxicmessagesburiedwithintheseseeminglyharmlessstoriesservedupastruthandshapingourideasofwhoweare.22Wegettodecidehowmuchwebuyintowhat’sbeingservedup,andmaybesomedaythetabloidswillbeforcedtoseetheworldthroughadifferent,morehumanizedlensbecauseconsumershavejuststoppedbuyingthebullshit.
1.fortherecord:
正式或明�_地说,郑重声明。
2.address:
处理,应对。
3.befedup:
此处是双关语,既可指吃饱,吃胖了,也指厌烦,受够了。
4.我受够了在“新闻业”、“第一修正案”以及各种“名人新闻”的伪装下,每天经受的娱乐记者的审视和人身羞辱。
scrutiny:
仔细检查,审视;undertheguiseof:
在……的伪装下;FirstAmendment:
美国宪法第一修正案,禁止美国国会制定任何法律以确立国教、妨碍宗教信仰自由、剥夺言论自由、侵犯新闻自由与集会自由、干扰或禁止向政府请愿的权利。
其中新闻自由一条保证了各种资讯和观点得以自由出版的权利,并且适用于各种媒体。
5.每天我和我的丈夫都会被很多穷追不舍的摄影师骚扰,他们每天蹲守在我家门口,不�袷侄蔚鼗袢∪魏握掌�,即使这照片会对我们以及不幸入镜的路人造成危害。
harass:
骚扰,侵扰;stakeout:
监视,在……外守候;goto(great,extreme,etc.)lengths:
不择手段,不遗余力;endanger:
危及,危害;pedestrian:
行人。
6.setaside:
把……撇开;tabloid:
小报;ritual:
惯例,老规矩。
7.如果我对那些人来说是一种象征,那么很显然,通过镜头中的我你们就能看出这个社会是怎样看待我们的母亲、女儿、姐妹、妻子、女性朋友以及同事的。
lens:
(相机的)镜头。
8.objectification:
具体化;putthrough:
使经受。
9.warped:
古怪的,扭曲的。
10.buyinto:
接受。
11.conditioning:
n.熏陶,训练。
12.perpetuate:
使长存,使永恒,后文perpetuation为名词;dehumanizing:
非人道的;sporting:
〈口〉冒险的,没把握的;speculation:
猜测,推测。
13.letoneselfgo:
放纵自己。
14.ontherocks:
(婚姻)濒于破裂的;detect:
察觉,发现。
15.distraction:
消遣。
16.stalking:
暗中尾随,跟踪。
17.marital:
婚姻的;maternal:
母亲的。
18.媒体耗费大量资源仅仅为了去证实我是否怀孕了(无数次了……但谁又会去数它),这一现象表明了长久以来的一个观念,即不结婚生子,女人就不完整、不成功和不快乐。
sheeramount:
巨大的数量;thebajillionthtime:
第无数次。
19.massshootings:
大规模枪击事件;wildfire:
火灾;SupremeCourt:
(美国)联邦最高法院;upcoming:
即将来临的;newsworthy:
有报道价值的。
20.narrative:
报道。
21.layout:
摆出,摊开。
22.toxic:
有毒的,有害的;serveup:
提供,献上。