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Therearesomeessaysaboutphilosophictheoryofhumanlifeinthisbook。
However,IwasattractivebytheessayoffriendshipforIwastoldtheessenceoffriendshipandlearnthowtomakefriendswithothers。
Friendshipisaneternalthemeweexamineandexplore。
Butwhatisfriendship?
Whatistherealmeaningoffriendship?
Asweknow,friendshipisalife—longtreasure。
Withfriends,weshareourjoysandtears。
Friendshipisnotacommoditywithaprice,norshouldwealienateourfriendsbyquestioningorjudgingtheirvirtues。
IntraditionalcultureofChina,mostoftheliterarymenadmirethefriendshipbetweenYuBoyaandZhongZiqi。
Theyholdthepointthatmountainstreamwithaknowingearistheluckiestthingandlookingforwardtothiskindoffriendshipintheirwholelife。
However,abosomfriendisnoteasytofindintherealworld。
Itusuallycomesthatthepersonisyourfriendtoday,andtomorrowwouldbeyourenemy。
Evenmore,whenapersonwasdeceivedorbetrayedbyhisfriends,hewouldnevertrustanyfriends。
Usually,peoplewilltrytheirbesttohelptheirfriends,eventheirliveswhenneeded。
Howevertheyfindithardtoforgivethefriendwhobetrayedthem。
Hence,howtoestablishfriendlyrelationshipisveryimportantandnecessaryforhumanbeings。
ThereisaChinesesayinggoes,youdependonyourparentswhenyoustayathome,andyoudependonyourfriendswhenyougoout。
Thiskindofsayingindicatesthattheimportanceoffriends,atthesametimeitmeansthevalueoffriendsisfordependence。
Therefore,willyoumakefriendswithapersonwhohasnouseforyou?
Oranyonehelpedyoucanbecomeyourfriends?
Whatdoweexpectfromourfriends?
Frommypointofview,arealfrienddoesnotcareyourbackground,yourwealth,yourappearance。
Thetruestfriendofallisonethatreadsyourverysoul,onewhoisalwaystherewhenneeded。
Arealfrienddoesnotexpectsomethingfromtheirfriendsordependonhisfriends。
Friendshipisanin—depthrelationshipcombiningtrust,communication,andunderstanding。
Somepeopleholdtheideathatfindingafriendislikecominghome。
Whenyoucome“home”toafriend,youcanrelax;
unbosomingyoupainsandsorrowsandyouneedn?
tpretendoracttough。
Butdonotforgetonepointthatiskeepingdistancebetweenyou。
MostpeopleofChinaarelikelytoignorethiskindofproblem,whichsometimescausessomeunnecessarytroubles。
Frommypointofview,weshouldbetterkeepproperdistancewithourfriendsifyouwantkeepastablerelationship。
Generally,asaChinese,peoplewouldratherreceiveexcessivekindnessthansay“NO?
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totheirfriends。
Intheiropinion,agoodfriendshouldnotturndowntheirfriends,ifthishappened,theirfriendswouldberegardedthattheywerelookeddownbytheirfriendsandfeltloosingface。
Forexample,oneofyourfriendsisafraidofexamandheasksforyourhelpduringtheexamination。
Whatwouldyoudo?
Tobeornottobe?
Eventhoughyouareunwillingtocheatintheexam,youstillpromisetoofferhelpandendurethesufferingyourselffromtreating。
Everymanaloneissincere。
Attheentranceofasecondperson,hypocrisybegins。
Emersonsaid“AfriendisapersonwithwhomImaybesincere。
Idonotwishtotreatfriendshipdaintily,butwithroughestcourage。
”Fromthesewords,weknowthatfriendshipisbuiltonsincerity,andsincerityisbasedonequalityofpersonality。
Withoutsincerityandequalityofpersonality,peoplewillnottrustothersandmakefriendswithothersinheart。
Inadditiontothis,Aristotlealsosaidthatwishingtobefriendsisquickwork,butfriendshipisaslow—ripeningfruit。
Maybeitonlytakesonesecondtimetobefriends,butyouwillspendmoretimetoestablishfriendlyrelationships。
Purefriendshipwithoutjudgmentcanenrichourlife。
Wehaveourownjudgmentsonourfriendsaccordingtotheirvirtues。
Thoughyoufindvirtuesinyourfriends,hewasyourfriendbeforeyoufoundthem。
Ifyouchooseyourfriendsonthegroundthatyouarevirtuesandwantvirtuouscompany,youarenonearertotruefriendshipthanofchoosingthemforcommercialreasons。
Thoughyoumaychoosethevirtuoustobeyourfriends,theymaynotchooseyouasafriend。
Nevertheless,withoutjudgmentdoesnotmeanthatyoushouldignorewhatisrightandwrongtosupportyoufriendswithoutcondition。
Unquestioningsupportwillbringdisasterfinally。
Fromthisarticle,peoplemayfeelthatitisnoteasytofindarealfriend。
Infacttheproblemiswerequiretoomuchfromfriendship,suchasthesenseofbelonging,obligationandothervirtues。
Ifwegetridofthiskindofdemandandfetter,wewillunderstandthefriendshipclearlyandenjoyitcompletely。
Friendshipisjustli