stepbystep3000第二册1到5答案解析和原文Word文档格式.docx

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PartI-B

1.spendingspecialtimetogether.

2.specific,complain,request,praise.

3.fatigue,insecurities,foxhole,strikingout,protect.

4.distant

5.allmarriages,Worktogetherounderstand

6.Respect,danger,professional,physical,verbal

7.Understand,win

PartI-C

40,excel,domesticargument,losing

win-win,lose-lose,win,agift,returns

argueover,aren'

t,who,incontrol,fear,didn'

tneed,oughtnotto,couldn'

t,triedto,destroy,marriage

love,loved,secure,discover,garden,cultivate,themostprecious,ownself,bloom.

obtain,ourpartner,lovedandrespected,control.

PartII-A

A2

1.similarsocialbackgrounds.

2.thesameraceorsameethnicbackground.

3.thesamereligion.

A3

Japan/9.2%/arrangedmarriages

3%/betweenblacksandwhites

ManypeopleinWesterncultureschoosetheirownwivesandhusbands.Inmanyothercountries,spouseareoftenchosenbytheparents.InChinaandJapanbeforethiscentury（20thcentury）,upper-classmarriageswerearrangedbytheoldermales.InmanyculturesintheMiddleEast,Asia,andpre-industrialEurope,theman'

sfamilynegotiateda"

brideprice"

withthewoman'

sfamily;

theman'

sfamilywasexpectedtopayit.InHinduIndia,thebride'

sfamilypaida"

groom'

sprice"

tothefamilyoftheman.Thesecustomsareweakening;

forintance,only9.2percentofJapanesemarriagesarenowarranged.

Whatarethecriteriaforchoosingmates?

Mostmarriages-whetherarrangedbyfamiliesoroccurringfrompersonalattractionorlove--arebasedonsimilarsocialbackgrounds.Inotherwords,themanandthewomancomefromthesamesocialclass（orelseaclassthatisonlyslightlyhigherorslightlower）.AmongmanypeopleinEgypt,keymembersoftheman'

sfamilymustgotothefamilyofthewomanandproposemarriage.Thesefamilymembersmustbeabletoshowthattheman'

sfamilyisatleastofthesamesocialclassasthewomanandthatacertainamountofmoneyexiststoallowthemarriagetogoforward.

Havingthesameraceorthesameethnicbackgroundisthesecondmaincriterionformarriagethroughouttheworld.IntheU.S,.Wheretherearemanydifferentraces,only3percentofallmarriagesarebetweenblacksandwhites,meaningthattheracesarestilllargelyseparateinmarriage.

Inmanycountries,marriageisalsobasedonthewomanandmanhavingthesamereligion;

thisisathirdcommoncriterionforchoosingamate.Incultureinwhichreligionisverystrongvalue,marriageswouldoftennottakeplaceiftherewerereligiousdifferences.

PartII-B

1.physicalappearance;

2.whatsomebodylookslike,.....,lookbeyondthephysicalappearance

3.thehighpercentageofdivorces.

4.fallinglovewithsomebody,.....,lovingsomebody

Whatdoyouthinkitisthatattractspeopletoeachother,thatmakespeoplewanttobetogether?

Ithinkthatperhapsunfortunatelyintheinitialstagesit'

sthephysicalappearancethatattracts.Ithinkunlessyoufindsomebodyattractive,unlessthere'

ssomethingaboutthem-itcouldonlyperhapsbethewaytheysmileortheylaugh,oratwinkleintheireye,orthewayofacurlfallsovertheirforehead.Butsomethinglikethathastomakeyouinterestedenoughtofindoutmoreaboutthatperson,unlessthat'

sthereIthinkyoujustdon'

tbother.SoinitiallyphysicalattractionIthinkisallimportant.

Whydoyousay"

unfortunately"

?

Becauseinfactitshouldn'

tbewhatsomebodylookslikethatisimportant.Youshouldbeabletolookbeyondhephysicalappearanceandseewhatsortofapersonheorsheis,whethertheyareselfishorselfless,whethertheyarekind,caring.ButIthinkinitiallyyouarenotbotheredwiththat.Thatcomeperhapslater.

Inpopsongsandmagazinesandnewspapersandsonon,theideaoffallingloveinsalwaysemphasized,sopeoplehavethisideathatyouhavetofallinlove.Doyouthinkthisismisleadingforpeople?

Doyouthinkpeopleexpectsomethingthatinfactdoesn'

texist?

Yes,Ido.InfactIthinkwecanprobablylaytheblameforthehighpercentageofdivorce--it'

sathirdIthinknow,isn'

tit?

Ithinkoneinthreepeoplegetdivorced.ProbablyasfarasIcanseeit,thereasonisthattheygointomarriageorintoarelationshipwithaveryromanticviewoflovewhichIthinkhasbeencreatedbythepopsongs,byallthelovestores,bytheBarbaraCartlandnovels,etc.,thatyoungpeopleread.Really,youmeetsomeone,youfallinlove,andthat'

sit.,it'

sthebeginning,theyliveh