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雅思英语作文marriages婚姻应由父母安排还是应该自己选择
Insomecountries,marriagesarearrangedbytheparentsbutinothercases,peoplechoosetheirownmarriagepartner.
Discussbothsystemsandstatewhichonedoyouthinkisbetter.Givereasonsandrelevantexamplesforyouranswer.Youshouldwriteatleast250words.
ModelAnswer1:
Atthepresenttimemarriagepartnersarechosenbypeoplethemselves,butinthenearpast,thisdecisionwasmadebytheirparents.Inmyview,despitethoseparentsdon'twishbadtotheirchild,peopleshouldchoosebythemselveswhotheylove.Duetothat,theywillspendwholetheirlifetogether.Thefollowingessaywilldiscussbothsidesofthisissue.
Sincethedawnofthetime,themarriagewasanimportantpartofourlife.Becauseofthatchoiceofapartnerisatoughdecisionandpeoplehavetoconsideralldetailsbeforethemarriage.Inthenearpastchildrenalmosthadn'trightstochoosepartnerbythemselves,infact,onlyparentscoulddecidewhotheirchildisgoingtomarry.Parentsraisedachildandalldecisionsrelatedtotheirchildshouldbemadebythem.Parentsknowtheirkidbetterthaneveryoneandwhentheyaregivingtheminmarriage,theyaretakingintoaccountthecharacterofkid.
Butcurrentlythissituationhasbeenchanged,duetothatsomeparentsaren’tconcernedaboutthefutureoftheirchildandtryingtogivetheirchildtoafamilywhichisrich,itisnotalwaysfairtowardstochildren.Withoutlove,thereisnofuturefortheirkidsandasaresult,itleadstodivorce.Eventhen,therearenoidealpeopleandeveryonecouldmakeamistake,evenwhentheyarechoosingtheirfuturepartnerbythemselves.Peoplealwaysfallinlovewitheachotherbeforethemarriage.Afterthat,theirrelationshipswouldbecomecolderanditalsocouldleadtodivorce.
Afteranalysingbothsidesofthisissue,I'veconcludedthatinspiteofthoseparentstakingintoaccountalldetails,sometimestheyareforgottenaboutlove.Themainthingofmarriageistobindtwopeoplewhichareinlovewitheachother.Thus,peopleshouldchoosewhomtheylovebythemselves.
ModelAnswer2:
Theideathatamarriageshouldbearrangedbytheparentsofthecouple,orbyothermembersofthefamily,isquiteacceptabletosomesocieties,yetcompletelyoutofthequestionforothers.Italldependsonyourculturalexpectations.
Inso-calledwesternsocieties,itisveryunusualformarriagestobearranged.Mostyoungpeoplewouldnotwelcometheideathattheirparentshavetherighttochoosetheirpartnerforlife.Theyfeelthatarrangedmarriagesdenythemtheirfundamentalrighttochoose,eveniftheymakeabaddecision.
However,ifwearehonestaboutit,wemightacknowledgethatsomeparentsorganisetheirchildren'slivesinsuchawaythattheyarelikelytomeetandmarrypartnerstheparentsapproveo£Itcouldbesaidthatthisis,tosomeextent,similartoanarrangedmarriage.
Itisalwaysbetterwhenfamiliessupporttherelationshipandwelcomethegrandchildren.Peopleforwhomarrangedmarriagesaretheculturalnormoftenarguethatthelikelihoodofthemarriagelastingisgreaterwhenitissetupinthismanner.Parentscanbeassuredthattheirchildrenarejoiningafamilyofsimilarstandingandculturalbackground,andthis,inthelongrun,makesforamorestablesocietyifyourparents'marriagewasarranged,andhasworkedwell,thenwhyshouldyouquestionthecustom?
Theimportantthingtoensureisthatpeopleareneverforcedintoamarriagewhichwillmakethemunhappyorleadtoanunequalrelationshipwhereonepartnerisexploitedbytheother.Thisappliesinallsocietiesandsituations.
ModelAnswer3:
Marriageisalegalrelationshipbetweenmanandwomanwhichisoneofthemostimportantpartsinmostofthehuman'slife.Astimewentby,marriagehaschangedsignificantly.Inthepast,marriagewasarrangedbytheparentsorelderlyrelativesanditstillhappenstodaywiththelimitednumber.
Incontrast,nowadays,mostofthepeoplebelievethatchoosingtheirownmarriagepartneristhebestwaytohavealong-lastingrelationship.Thisessaywillcompareanddiscussbothsystems.Eachcountryhasitsowncultureandtradition.Fromthousandsormorecultures,marriageisacommontraditionalmostinallcountriesandtraditions.Insomecountries,mainlyinAsia,arrangedmarriageisverycommon.Marriageisarrangedbyparentsorfleshandbloodtodeterminethebestspousefortheirchildren.Itisbelievedbypeoplewhoconductthissystemthatevenifthebrideandgroomdonotloveeachotheratthebeginning,lovewillbloomeventually.
Moreover,thesepeopleassumethatthebenefitsofarrangedmarriageoutstripthedrawbacks.Byarrangingmarriage,parentscanprotecttheirchildrenfromnegativerelationshipslikefreesexorcohabitation.Besides,thepossibilityofdivorceisdeclinedsincetheparentsgenerallyselecttheirchildren'sspousebasedonthesimilarbackgroundsuchasreligion,tradition,language,andsocio-economicclass.
Fromanotherpointofview,manypeoplesupportthatmarriageshouldbebasedonlove.Theybelievethateveryonehastherightstofallinloveandtakeadecisionabouthis/herownmarriagepartner,withoutinterventionfromothers.Lovemarriageormarriagewhichcomesfromanownchoiceisverypopularinwesterncountriesandalsointhismodernera.Itiscommonlybelievedthatifpeoplemarrybecauseoflove,theywillhavearomanticrelationship.Sincetheyhaverecognisedeachother,theyareabletorespectandaccepttheirspouses'weaknesses.
Inaddition,peoplewhoopttothiswayhavearesponsibilityfortheirownchoice.Theywilltrytocopewiththeirproblemsandfindsolutionsfortheirmarriage'slife.Theyunderstandthattheycannotblameanyone,includingtheirparentsbecausethedecisiontomarrycomesfromthem.ThisisthetrendsIaminclinedto.Mypersonalpreferenceistomarryforloveandchoosingmyownlifepartner.
Inconclusion,botharrangedmarriageandlovemarriagehavepositiveandnegativesides.Peoplecanchoosewhattheythinkgoodtodoornot.Nevertheless,Ibelievethatmarriageisasacredandbeautifulrelationship.Ifpeopledecidetomarry,theyhavetounderstandthatrespecttoeachotherisasimportantaslove.Theyshouldrespectnotonlytotheirspousesbutalsototheirparentsandfamilies.
ModelAnswer4:
Itisafactthatinseveralcountries,marriagesarestillsetbyparents,butinothercountries,peoplehavetheirownrighttochoosetheirweddingpartners.Themixturesofthesetwotrendsarealsocommoninmanysocietiesandcountries.Thefollowingessaywilldiscussbothfacts,butIdobelievethatitisbetterforustochooseourownpartner.Foranumberofreasons,someparentsstillfollowthetraditionofchoosingapartnerfortheirchild.
Firstly,sinceitisatraditionthathasbeenpassedonforsomanygenerationsinthesociety.Theyareafraidthatitmightbeatabooiftheydonotfollowitandcouldbeisolatedbythecommunity.
Secondly,theybelievethatparentswouldgivethebestofeverythingtotheirchild.Theythinkthatparentsarewiserandmoremature,thereforetheycouldselectagoodpartnerfortheirchild.
However,othergroupsofpeopledisagreewiththeabovestatement,astheybelievethatpeopleshouldhavetherighttochoosetheirownpartner.Theybelievethatarelationshipshouldbebuiltbasedonloveandattraction,notbasedonenforcement.Asmarriagebecomesaspecialmomentinsomeone’slife,heshouldgetmarriedtothepersonhelovesorhemightregretitfortherestofhislife.
Therefore,theyallagreethatpeopleshouldhavetheirownrighttochoosetheirownmarriedpartner.
Inmyopinion,Ipersonallybelievethatweshouldhavetherighttochooseourownspouse,asIagreethatmarriageisaspecialmomentinsomeone’slife.AndIthinkthatthetraditionofarrangingmarriedbyparentsshouldnotbeconsideredanymoreasitisagainstthehumanright.